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yaqeta -> RE: what is the deal with the hateful attitude? (9/28/2006 5:23:02 PM)
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My thought: by saying little in your profile and even less in your message, the implication is that you think the slave being available is all that is required for them to be interested in being yours. The things you describe you want in your journal entry are fine, but you don't say anything to indicate that you would get to know the slave, train them over time, and build this kind of role with them - its like you just want someone who is willing to rock up and start on the housework without any kind of give and take. Which might be exactly what you want, and if so, fine (and good luck - I think you'll need it). But many slaves need a little more than this before they can reach the point where they can be that obedient - they need to know you, and know that you care about them. For these slaves, suggesting that they should "know their place" before they have even met you could be quite offensive.
My other thought, that may or may not be relevant: do these slaves say they are searching in their profiles? I am not, and yet I still get messages from doms on a regular basis - straight one-liners, the mark of a troll. It gets very VERY frustrating when this happens over and over when you are not looking, and it seems as though the person messaging you is not concerned about your profile and who you are, just sending the same message to sub/slave after sub/slave.
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