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FelinePersuasion -> RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! (1/19/2007 9:14:22 AM)

Hell if I thought I was good enough to be a prodomme, and I had clientel I'd become a pro. I would love to make money off doing something I love.



FelinePersuasion -> RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! (1/19/2007 9:17:48 AM)

That's correct word is domiaNANT not DomiNATE, the
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ORIGINAL: Zinja2007

dominate to partner with longterm. 



lunamor -> RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! (1/19/2007 9:19:55 AM)

Old thread but let's call it an evergreen subject :-)
I checked the guidelines but didn't find anything against linking to articles so I'm including a great one on this subject.

PSA for Male Subs, by Gloria Brame

http://gloriabrame.typepad.com/inside_the_mind_of_gloria/2006/12/psa_for_male_su.html



shamedmale -> RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! (1/19/2007 9:21:02 AM)

so would we all mate but thats the difference we are all not as avaricious as certain outrageously avaricious dommes

with kind regards
kevin



MistressSassy66 -> RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! (1/19/2007 9:21:17 AM)

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ORIGINAL: womenrule

               I really enjoy being dominated by a women but honestly is something I cant afford. Looks to me that its a fetish just for rich old guys, some mistresses ask for 300 an hour some even 500, come on !! thats a week salary and we dont even have sex.




1st Domination and sex are two different things.
2nd I wouldnt pay that amount either and I am a Pro.I personally think thats crazy to ask so much money.Not saying I'm or They arnt worth it,but lets be realistic here.
3rd I dont have sex with paying  submissives either,though I have what I call personal submissives whom I will on occasion allow certain priviledges.

4th...someone needs to pay My rent....LOL



shamedmale -> RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! (1/19/2007 9:24:24 AM)

well then why oh why with respect Lady do you take such amounts of money from men who you know clearly cannot afford to tribute you and are reducing themselves to poverty in doing this. do you have no social conscience



stef -> RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! (1/19/2007 9:26:13 AM)

If you don't want to pay a pro, don't.  No one is forcing you to.  Take responsibility for your own actions instead of whining and blaming them on someone else.

~stef



FelinePersuasion -> RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! (1/19/2007 9:27:51 AM)

There is simply no gaurentee that going to munches and play parties will get you a domme. I wish people would quit infering that real life events will automatically find you one.

Real life is a better tool a better meduim, but there is no gaurentee you're going to do better in real life than online.

A true example is infact me. I pick up more people online than I ever did at parties or munches. my x of four years was an online meet, My Dom of a year in a half the first time was an online meet, My Daddy bf was an online meet, and last and not least. Daddy  James was an online meet. I've had 6 sucessfull relationships all from meeting someone online

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ORIGINAL: LotusSong


 
To the OP- if you are seeking a Domme willing to be in a relationship.. get offline and into the local club or munches. No munch in your area?  START ONE. You have to meet people face to face.



shamedmale -> RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! (1/19/2007 9:29:14 AM)

hmm fascinating a submissive taking the side of a Domme
kevin



stef -> RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! (1/19/2007 9:31:41 AM)

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ORIGINAL: shamedmale

hmm fascinating a submissive taking the side of a Domme

It's more a case of taking the side of logic.  You have one person to blame for your actions, and it isn't any "Domme."

~stef



mnottertail -> RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! (1/19/2007 9:32:11 AM)

Yanno, I want a 75' Chris Craft Teak boat, a porsche, a lake cabin, a black lesbian amazonian dominatrix who worships the ground I walk on, and a really good cigar......

Everyone has to live within their means, and by their own devices.  I will probably have to forgo the others and spend 3 bucks for a good cigar.  I don't expect the vendor give it me as a public service to assuage a guilty social concience; well in fact that is not true, I actually do, but the possibility does seem remote.

It may be that your psyche is flawed in some way, we have people that have gambling addictions, alcohol addictions and so on, and maybe smelling farts and tongue washing dirty feet are yours and you need to ease off a bit.

I don't know the answer, but rage against the machine is hardly fruitful, seems more introspection is in order.

Ron(ne)



MistressSassy66 -> RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! (1/19/2007 9:32:23 AM)

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ORIGINAL: shamedmale

well then why oh why with respect Lady do you take such amounts of money from men who you know clearly cannot afford to tribute you and are reducing themselves to poverty in doing this. do you have no social conscience



I accept what they can give.
Sometimes they dont have much so they do work instead.
I'm pretty sure I am a fair person when it comes to Tributes.
If I wasnt I doubt I would have as many dedicated submissives that I do.




shamedmale -> RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! (1/19/2007 9:35:10 AM)

no i dont agree you are blameless for having the view you have and are entitled to it. But for my money anyone who manipulates someone's else addiction to that person because let's face any one who pays 500 euro up to a Domme must have some kind of infatuation with her otherwise he wouldnt do it or she seduced him through pictures etc and some dommes actually do this. anyone who decides to make a commercial profit out of someone else's troubles is a criminal to my mind



shamedmale -> RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! (1/19/2007 9:36:22 AM)

again personal choice is all very well manipulation of persons is criminal



shamedmale -> RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! (1/19/2007 9:38:14 AM)

so someone offers you 500 euro and that person might only  be on 500 euro a week or worse still have to borrow some of it to pay you, do you not see that you are doing something wrong her



mnottertail -> RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! (1/19/2007 9:39:49 AM)

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ORIGINAL: shamedmale

again personal choice is all very well manipulation of persons is criminal


I have read your posts throughout the thread and without putting to fine a point on it, you seem to be trying to manipulate others thought processes to coincide with your own sense of right and wrong.  Perhaps you should turn yourself in and see if that is against the law, or convince your judicial system that it is, as you are attempting here.

Lavrenty Beria 



FelinePersuasion -> RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! (1/19/2007 9:43:15 AM)

he deleted it all. There's no profile there now lol.

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ORIGINAL: EbonyFtshGoddess

with that xmas wish list he calls a profile he needs to go find someone that he can pay to do all that to.




mnottertail -> RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! (1/19/2007 9:44:28 AM)

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ORIGINAL: shamedmale

so someone offers you 500 euro and that person might only  be on 500 euro a week or worse still have to borrow some of it to pay you, do you not see that you are doing something wrong her


Does anybody know gaelic?  shamus needs to learn the word no.... and keep the fuckin peener in his pants.  Anybody who takes him up next time, and I am fucking pleading here, see if you cant instill a little self control in him. 

Ron(ne)



stef -> RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! (1/19/2007 9:48:06 AM)

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ORIGINAL: shamedmale

no i dont agree you are blameless for having the view you have and are entitled to it.

What??  Punctuation is your friend.  Use it.

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But for my money anyone who manipulates someone's else addiction to that person because let's face any one who pays 500 euro up to a Domme must have some kind of infatuation with her otherwise he wouldnt do it or she seduced him through pictures etc and some dommes actually do this.

Now someone else is responsible for your "addiction?"  Are you responsible for anything you do?

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anyone who decides to make a commercial profit out of someone else's troubles is a criminal to my mind

So because you lack the social wherewithal to find a partner who shares your interests, pros are criminals?  You think they should be a public service to satisfy the needs of people like you?  Wow.

It doesn't appear you've made any progress eliminating the "pathetic and childlike behavior" you talk about in your profile.  Maybe that has something to do with the position in which you find yourself?  There's no such thing as a free lunch, sport.  The sooner you come to terms with that, the better off you'll be.

~stef



MistressSassy66 -> RE: Why Mistresses are all just about money ! (1/19/2007 9:57:44 AM)

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ORIGINAL: shamedmale

again personal choice is all very well manipulation of persons is criminal


This may be hard to believe...but no one is manipulated into anything.
People do what they want when they want.
Then when something goes wrong rather than say I fucked up they blame someone else.Then it looks like they were manipulated.

And its not crimminal to manipulate someone(unless they kill someone for you)...unethical maybe...morally wrong sure...but crimminal not to Me it isnt.

I suppose I should note that of course people can be manipulated/brainwashed in a Cult form to do things,but thats not what this topic is about.



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