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Looking for a Beta - 1/17/2005 4:52:31 PM

rivrgirl

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How would you go about posting for those out there who would be interested in visiting with me about being a Beta in the M/s relationship I am in.

My Master has given me the awesome task of looking for a Beta...not a live in .... who would like to get to know us and we would go from there.

I posted *grins* on the Introduction page and that didn't do anything so by the suggestion of others, I have come here to ask for help....guess that is sorta General BDSM.

Thanks in advance to anyone who might be able to put me on the right track.

rivrgirl

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RE: Looking for a Beta - 1/17/2005 5:06:07 PM

Suleiman

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Welcome to collarme, rvrgirl. I hope you have a pleasant time with us.

As an FYI, these fora are not meant to be a place for personal ads. The "other side" of the website, where your main profile is kept, is where that sort of thing is supposed to take place.

Do not expect things to happen overnight. What you are looking for is a highly desired commodity at the moment. There is an absolute glut of people looking for a secondary submissive partner to add to their household, and very few submissives seeking such a position. Most submissives are inundated with offers from interested parties, and so they have the option of taking their time. Very few ever bother to actively search through the profiles, due to the sheer number of offers they recieve.

Be patient, send friendly Emails to those persons with whom you might be interested in making contact. All Email on this site only occurs within the site itself, so you are assured of privacy and discretion (a message is forwarded to your primary Email, informing you that you have a new message on the server here). Expect to hear a number of polite refusals, and expect to have far more non-answers. The sheer glut of potential suitors means that many submissives are unable to personally answer each and every Email, and many have set up filters to "junk" messages coming from profiles outside of certian specifications.

Good luck in your search, and feel free to visit the forum space any time. There's always a lively debate or twenty going on, and some very pleasant company.

~S

< Message edited by Suleiman -- 1/17/2005 5:07:37 PM >

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RE: Looking for a Beta - 1/17/2005 6:35:30 PM

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