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RE: what do you or your Dom/me do that makes you feel ... - 10/2/2006 5:35:34 PM

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I don't have any of those "weak in the knees responses", I guess that's just not who I am. I feel the most submissive when I do things I'm supposed to do every day (journal, walk, meditate). Another thing is also when I submit to pain, because it pleases him, and he knows I don't enjoy it, yet I submit to it. I don't think constantly of pleasing him, but I try to anticipate what should be done when we are together.

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RE: what do you or your Dom/me do that makes you feel ... - 10/2/2006 9:03:05 PM

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As of now I have this weird fetish. My Daddy interupts me yelling "Hey, Hey, Hey!" and I immediately shut up and say, yes Daddy...sometimes he means it, sometimes he is just playing with me.. it makes me feel submissive not to be able to finish what I want to say. I attach great importance on speaking my mind and knowing I submit the right for him to control when I voice an idea is strangely erotic, satifying, and makes me feel extremely submissive.

But I am a weirdo

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RE: what do you or your Dom/me do that makes you feel ... - 10/3/2006 10:52:44 AM

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When he bites my neck. I go weak in my knees, stop whatever I was doing, thinking or saying and I have to lean against him to stay upright. At that time I'd do anything for him

Are you sure we aren't twins? That's what I was going to say! He's been known to do this in the middle of a conversation and enjoy watching me try to then respond to a comment with my mind turned to mush.

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RE: what do you or your Dom/me do that makes you feel ... - 10/3/2006 2:51:56 PM

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She pulls back on the reins and pushes forward with the strap-on...

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RE: what do you or your Dom/me do that makes you feel ... - 10/3/2006 4:29:56 PM

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That Sadistic Smirk they so easily put on their faces.

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RE: what do you or your Dom/me do that makes you feel ... - 10/3/2006 4:55:13 PM

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it makes me feel submissive not to be able to finish what I want to say.

That situation makes me feel devalued, frustrated, resentful, non-submissive and generally pissed off. I find it interested how people react differently. I have heard others say they really like this...or maybe not "like" exactly, but it really makes them feel controlled and "in their place" in a really good way. It is hard for me to understand but hey -- whatever works.

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RE: what do you or your Dom/me do that makes you feel ... - 10/3/2006 10:18:09 PM

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It is not about a humiliating thing or feeling degraded.

I am a very verbal person. I often speak my mind. My opinions and view are usually admired and appreciated in my vanilla existence. It is the idea that he controls this part of me that makes me feel submissive... not put down because he always lets me finish... He values what I say, he has respect for my words... in fact only maybe one other man I have been with came close to the respect he shows me when I express my ideas. He truly thinks me to be of a superior intellect. If he didn't treat my thoughts with such respect I would not like him interupting me... but since he usually lets me finish..wow it just puts my head into insta-submissiveness.... who woulda thunk it?....smiles

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RE: what do you or your Dom/me do that makes you feel ... - 10/5/2006 5:50:17 AM

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For me, its little things like a slight change in the tone of his voice, when he has hold of my hair, when we are together unless he specifically says otherwise I always sit on the floor at his feet. In fact the only time Im not submissively minded is when I've finished work and still in uniform - its hard to shut off from what I do immediately after work. He loves the effect he can have on me and he will slightly change his tone of voice and my head automatically goes to my chest, I have even been known to kneel on the floor without relaising I'm doing it.

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RE: what do you or your Dom/me do that makes you feel ... - 10/5/2006 8:02:31 AM

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Ooooh! I love this question... I love the responses.

I was telling Daddy last night that one of the things that makes me feel weak-in-the knees-fall into-cloud-of submission-forever type of thing is when He refers to me as "Mine"... "My girl, etc..." Yesterday, He referred to me twice that way when a guy I work with made a comment for me to call him sometime. He said, "I hope he realizes that he cannot have what is Mine," then later, "you belong to Me." I was instantly in a place where He could've asked me to do anything and I would have done it. It makes me feel incredibly possessed and owned, and makes me know my place with respect to the Man who is my Master.

*swoons*

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RE: what do you or your Dom/me do that makes you feel ... - 10/5/2006 8:33:29 AM

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With Her, she has this way of looking over the tops of her lenses, and catching my attention with her eyes. She doesnt do it often, but when she does, whatever I was thinking seems to fade away. We chat online when I am not with them, and sometimes during our conversations, I can sense the non verbal equivalent of the gesture as well.

With both of Them, there is a way that they can pitch (right word?) their voices, and it will pull my focus to them Its not easy to describe, but it almost has sort of an edge to it.

I should be sleeping now...had a long boring night at work.

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RE: what do you or your Dom/me do that makes you feel ... - 10/5/2006 8:36:36 AM

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With Her, she has this way of looking over the tops of her lenses, and catching my attention with her eyes. She doesnt do it often, but when she does, whatever I was thinking seems to fade away. We chat online when I am not with them, and sometimes during our conversations, I can sense the non verbal equivalent of the gesture as well.

With both of Them, there is a way that they can pitch (right word?) their voices, and it will pull my focus to them Its not easy to describe, but it almost has sort of an edge to it.

I should be sleeping now...had a long boring night at work.

Thank you my sweet pet, at least we know you are listening.........

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RE: what do you or your Dom/me do that makes you feel ... - 10/5/2006 11:03:55 AM

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I have heard this question in various forms and the answers are always interesting. Tonight I am curious on what the OP means exactly by "most submissive attitude." Is it most-willing-to-surrender-authority or more that warm-and-fuzzy-adoration-feeling or a most-eager-to-please-and-serve or just a general connected-intimacy thing?

I guess I experience a submissive mindset in different ways at different times. As I thought about the question, I was having trouble finding my answer.

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That situation makes me feel devalued, frustrated, resentful, non-submissive and generally pissed off. I find it interested how people react differently. I have heard others say they really like this...or maybe not "like" exactly, but it really makes them feel controlled and "in their place" in a really good way. It is hard for me to understand but hey -- whatever works.

ummm same.. (this is getting abit odd)

i personally dont know how to really put it all in to words and Sens your other post on the topic is similiar i'd want to say, but we dont swing so i cant say "same" LOL

Different times i feel different things and i've never really thought about my reactions to Him. <shrugs> i just react.

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