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realophelia -> RE: Humiliation (1/21/2005 5:37:57 AM)
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i have to say i'm wary of humiliation... i consider it a form of edge-play and think it needs to be treated as such... i know the general idea of edge-play usually involves something physically risky, i.e. fire, scalpels, asphyxia, but to me, humiliation holds a very real emotional risks and should only be done with proper knowledge, trust and caution...
I used to be wary of humiliation, as well. I'd had some bad experiences with it in the past (being humiliated then rejected) and had a very real fear of being made to feel like that again. In the relationship I'm in now, however, humiliation has taken on a whole different context. Coupled with love and acceptance I have found it to be a very positive experience. Very similar to the pain / comfort loop.
~Ophelia
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