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mons -> read profiles (10/2/2006 2:17:49 AM)
greetings to all this is for the males or anyone who writes to someone they wish to talk with. i recieve two emails today and each one had no ideal what i was like they did not even take the time to read what was in my profile. one wrote me and when i looked at his prfile he was looking for trans, dom dom cpoulpes switch women and dominant males i have on my profile what i am looking for and i did not put anyone of these! it is ok to want someone of these people nothing wrong but read my profile carefully i do not just write anything i make sure i place what i seek. the second one was almost the same he had a nerve to have litle ones in the pool where he was sitting and just smiling away, that in it'ssefl made me ill. but he was in to a poly group which also nothing is wrong with but it is not for me he wanted dominant males and switch woman also this is not for me. i wish they would take the time to read what is there i do think that many of the males submissive are so despearte for a dominant person they do not care they just write without thinking of what and whom they write too. thye think all dominant woman are into anything and are either so desrate for a male we will take anyone or thing to just have someone!!!!!this is not true so males read the profile and think everyone has what they want on it so read it and then send the letter to the right woman ok i wish everyone has someone but do not just pick out of of a box and guess without reading and found out how this person is take care all mons

maudite -> RE: read profiles (10/2/2006 9:58:32 AM)
As a female submissive, I get the same thing from male dominants -- it's routine for me to get messages from men who are looking for 24/7 slaves, even though my profile states very clearly that I'm not interested in that. (In boldface, even!) I've even gotten messages from male subs who say in their email that they switch, even though their profile doesn't mention it at all and mine says that I don't. So yes, I'd agree there are also a lot of male subs out there who are so desperate they'll send a message to anyone at all. Please, guys, read the profiles. If you're looking for something I'm specifically not into, I'm not going to answer you.

LadyMorgynn -> RE: read profiles (10/2/2006 1:27:41 PM)
What? Guys reading the profiles of the Dommes they write to? We should be so lucky!

truesub4u -> RE: read profiles (10/2/2006 1:33:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyMorgynn What? Guys reading the profiles of the Dommes they write to? We should be so lucky! LOL... was just thinking the same about the male doms that write to the female sub-slaves...[:D]

WindOWillow -> RE: read profiles (10/2/2006 1:34:29 PM)
From my experience with the online personal ad world, I'm guessing that many responders have a set form letter that they send to whoever is online, or lives in their area. Casting a wide net in order to catch anyone who will respond in return. Doesn't seem to be a personal quest. Just any warm body will do.

DivaDuchess -> RE: read profiles (10/2/2006 6:36:31 PM)
If they mail me and are so obvious they don't belong on my planet ... I simply don't reply. I've had several subs note me, Our profile is not looking for a sub. Also, I get more mail from men ... which We are not interested in at this time, I just keep my finger on the delete button lol. It's too much to ask that they read the profiles though, most go trolling. It's a shame.

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