MisPandora -> RE: Anne Rice (10/3/2006 2:10:12 PM)
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ORIGINAL: lunamor "Nah, it's kind of cute. He is just saying how he feels. He doesn't like to read about female enslavement. " That's how I took it, too: that he was just explaining why he seeks femdom/male sub erotica because the femslave stuff squicks him. Okay, he also said, "Stories should never contain words of 'enslavement to men' " but taken in context it's clearly just an opinion. There's no need to overreact, he hasn't got the power to ban anyone's fun and games :) There's some tsk-tsking and "ya gotta be more tolerant" talk coming down on this guy, but I'm sure a little tolerance for his innocent gaffe would have gone a long way as well. I really don't think he was trying to offend anyone. I'm more unnerved by the possibility that new people will avoid posting for fear of inadvertently stepping in the poo-poo, than I am about the occasional well-intended-but-badly-stated opinion! Lunamor Be unnerved by what I had to say -- I'm sorry, but I call it as I see it. Perhaps it was his mistake to use a terminal qualifier such as "should never"...but here's my feedback on it: Having experienced many, many slavish-type gents who say these things, I've found that generally, it's said because they have (or want, or think they need to have) a Female Supremacy mindset. It could also be that he's unaware or doesn't wish to accept that women with submissive desires have every right to exist in the world as he does. Or heck, he might just not care and deliberately planted that ticking bomb there for someone to call it out. Many folks come into this "realm" without thinking that it affects anyone but "self". It's responsible to remind individuals who propagate such limiting messages that others do exist in this community and their statements only serve to harm WIITWD.
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