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match2u -> Selfish or greedy? (1/19/2005 8:48:30 AM)
Hello to all and a warm hug, i would really like to know what You think about that point. in my case when i make love - f*** [:)], however You wanna call it and my passion and lust is arising - sooner or later there is a point i am nearly unable to hold myself back - and i try hard - especially when climax is denied - smile. so far... point is in pleasing the Master/ Dom his pleasure is utmost priority. that i loose myself in passion and of course the pleasure i give him - am i selfish or greedy in that moment? what do You think? thanks a lot petra

Suleiman -> RE: Selfish or greedy? (1/19/2005 10:06:05 AM)
You weren't being selfish before? If you are not fulfilling some need of your own, thus being selfish, why are you with this person? Why are you leaving the mainstream of society to persue your interests, interests that are not well understood or approved of, if not because you are being selfish? Now, demanding thirds of your top after hours of intense bondage, torture, and loveplay, after the poor man is so limp he can't hold a whip correctly, THAT's just greedy!

nella -> RE: Selfish or greedy? (1/19/2005 10:42:32 AM)
i would not say you are slefish, you enyoy yourself and as long as that is not a problem for your Dom what is the problem?

panthergoddess -> RE: Selfish or greedy? (1/20/2005 11:04:10 AM)
It's my understanding that most Masters/Mistress WANT their slaves/submissives to orgasm. True...some do want it on demand or to be withheld until permission is given. On that note it's up to your Master to determine proper training. Otherwise....Cum girl!!!!!

Atavist -> RE: Selfish or greedy? (1/20/2005 2:05:44 PM)
quote: i loose myself in passion and of course the pleasure i give him - am i selfish or greedy in that moment? As with everything else, you'll probably get a variety of answers to this question. Personally, nothing pleases me more than to see a sub lost in her passion.

SirShadyOne -> RE: Selfish or greedy? (1/21/2005 4:48:40 AM)
I for one WANT to get my slave to an extreme level of arousal. It is really something to see how compliant they can become in this state. As far as orgasming, it is a natural function once a certain line is crossed. There isn't anything greedy or selfish about it. You can be trained to hold back, but technically it is more of a skill the Dominant must have to recognize that line and hold you as close to it as possible if he or she desires to do so. Perhaps when you are nearing that point, you can bein asking or on some cases begging for permission to orgasm. This should help even the more novice dominants know you are close and they can push you over or scale back momentarily to keep you from losing your self restraint.

masterofsolace -> RE: Selfish or greedy? (1/21/2005 6:23:40 AM)
Petra: It always comes back the relationship the Master has with His girl. What does He wish from you? What does He wish to achieve out of the secession? Is it a pleasure secession or is there a different reason for it? The lifestyle is for thinking in. Yes we can loose ourselves in the sexuality of it, and use sex, as a "tool" but ask yourself what it is yoru Master wishes, then you will know if you should cum, how hard and how long. Be well and be safe MOS

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