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lacyann -> Dom Daddy? (1/19/2005 8:54:47 AM)

can any one share information about Dom Daddy's vs Dom's vs Masters? relatively new sub here and think Dom Daddy makes a lot of sense. [8|]



Suleiman -> RE: Dom Daddy? (1/19/2005 10:00:49 AM)

Labels. Nothing but labels. Not even the kind with nutritional information giving you some idea of what to expect when you open the package. There is no standard for what these terms mean. There are very few, if any standards, for what any terms used in the BDSM "community" really mean (the quotes are there to reflect my belief, mirrored by many on this site, that there is no monolithic scene per se. There are numerous cliques, clubs, and groups who are lumped together under the all-encompassing pervert banner, held together willy-nilly by a few similiarities regarding their tastes in fashion, lifestyle, and sexual relations)



INSIDEYOURMIND -> RE: Dom Daddy? (1/19/2005 10:50:40 AM)

Suleiman,

I agree with the label comment.

By the way, did you know that a quarter of a Dill pickle has 480mg of sodium?

I have learned to hate those nutrional labbels!




FangsNfeet -> RE: Dom Daddy? (1/19/2005 11:11:00 AM)

Yup most doms/masters have something they want to be called. Sir, Daddy, Master, Count, God, whatever.

Subs can be called, my pet, sweet, mine, fuck meat, kid, whatever. Normally the Dom in the relationship chooses both names but as a sub you can ask "Can I be called your ?" "Can you be my ?" Weither it works are not varies but it's always good to get the names down for the reason of respect.




proudsub -> RE: Dom Daddy? (1/19/2005 11:23:07 AM)

This thread might be helpful if you are talking about an adult baby/Daddy type relationship:
Ab Lifestyle.....



BeachMystress -> RE: Dom Daddy? (1/19/2005 12:11:36 PM)


A Daddy to some is an age play relationship. To others it is a complex emotional relationship with active caretaking. You have to find out which it means to each person.

It is one of the most misunderstood types of D/s relationship because people not familiar with it tend to automatically assumes it involves faux incest or pretending to be a child. I can't speak much to the first type (age play) "Daddy." I've never met one or spoken with one. Not only have I spoken with the second type, but I tend to be its female mirror.. a Mommy. This type of Daddy or Mommy has has nothing to do with age play or incest. It is an emotionally caring relationship based on the parent/child power dynamic. I am a very maternal and nurturing type of person. My sub doesn't wear diapers or suck on a bottle (altho we do a lot of breast suckling. [:D] ) It means I make sure he is dressed warmly when we go out. I make sure he sees a Dr if needed. I took him to get his hair cut the other day. I make decisions for him. I have him clean his room, take him to do his laundry, send him to bed, worry about him, take him to and pick him up from work several days a week, cuddle him, stroke his hair.. pretty much mother hen type stuff. My sub and I are both aware we are creating this type of power dynamic. We both want it and get a lot from it. He is my sweet boy, my treasure and my joy. I am his protector, his shelter and his comfort.



siamsa24 -> RE: Dom Daddy? (1/19/2005 12:49:51 PM)

My relationship is similar, with my Dom playing the Daddy role, although I actually do call him Daddy. This comes naturally for us because of the extreme age difference between us, but I'm not sure what the implications of that are. If that it means that we are intentionally in an age play relationship or if it just turned out that way I don't know.
I just accidently called him Daddy one day in casual conversation and he responded, make what you want of that [:)]



lacyann -> RE: Dom Daddy? (1/19/2005 1:51:48 PM)

and does he actively seek to please you and desire to make you proud of him. that is the position of Dom Daddy i understand. i even entered the USMC right out of high school to make my father proud of me. and it is also why this makes so much sense to me.



Nikita -> RE: Dom Daddy? (1/22/2005 6:25:49 AM)

The whole Daddy thing does alot for me and i remember the first time i said it it was like a mini orgasm but at the same time i felt extremely guilty for saying it and liking it so much I felt I must be perverted or want my dad or something,to be honest i still dont fully understand my need for this and why i would want my 'Daddy' to hurt me but its something that just feels so right to me. I do wonder though about the men who like to be called this and their motivations for wanting such a title as oppose to Master or Sir.



lovingmaster45 -> RE: Dom Daddy? (1/22/2005 7:37:42 AM)

I am involved with 2 women who are my subs. They do not look at me as "Daddy". My "little girl" lee ann sees me as Daddy. I have coached her through life; made important decisions for her; and nurtured her. This does not mean that Daddy does not use his little girl. I do and she has been made to serve my friends male and female. She was a virgin when we began and I have been in charge of her personal and sexual growth. Age is not the important thing. my sub is much younger than my "little girl".

My little girl is actually entertaining the idea of moving out of her current role and trying to become my collared sub. We shall see.



lacyann -> RE: Dom Daddy? (1/22/2005 2:24:27 PM)

so why could a sub not also be a 'little girl' i think i would be more likely to desire to serve and please a Daddy than a Master who tried to Demand it of me. i think i would willingly do almost anything for a Daddy and i suppose if the trust was there i would for a master as well, maybe i'm confused and unsure of my self and need some support, guidance and security in a relationship? lacy



domtimothy46176 -> RE: Dom Daddy? (1/24/2005 5:51:27 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Nikita

The whole Daddy thing does alot for me and i remember the first time i said it it was like a mini orgasm but at the same time i felt extremely guilty for saying it and liking it so much I felt I must be perverted or want my dad or something,to be honest i still dont fully understand my need for this and why i would want my 'Daddy' to hurt me but its something that just feels so right to me. I do wonder though about the men who like to be called this and their motivations for wanting such a title as oppose to Master or Sir.


I don't get called Daddy but my girl has been known to call me Grandpa, lol. It's an affectionate acknowledgement of the way I lovingly care for her. While she's perfectly capable of caring for herself, I look after her in much the same way as BeachMystress described.
The first time she called me Grandpa, I did a doubletake. Since then I've learned to accept it and even enjoy it as a sign that she recognizes the little things I do for her are affectionate and not belittling. Even if she called me Daddy, it would be still be totally different from being called that by one of my children.
Timothy



lacyann -> RE: Dom Daddy? (1/24/2005 7:53:23 AM)

My Daddy couldn't be replaced he was a special man in my life and the lives of my siblings and Mother. but having a Dom Daddy, would have many of the relationship aspects in that i would strive to please my Dom daddy and seek to make him proud of me, who i am and my life. i also don't think there need be an age difference as at our age, age is just a number and i have met 30 yo'ds who were mature enought to capture my respect and 50 yo'ds who were not. lacyann



Daddy2cum4 -> RE: Dom Daddy? (1/25/2005 3:55:20 AM)

lacy,
You are on the right track with your thinking.. Daddy Doms love to call their "one" lil girl, or little one, or babygirl. I cherish the one who is my girl, and the pleasing goes both ways. A true "Daddy" makes sure his sub is cared for, pleased. as well as protected.



willing2serve -> RE: Dom Daddy? (1/25/2005 5:11:24 AM)

Curious to know, if the ones that consider themselves to be "Daddy Doms" are they most likely not to be a sadist?

quote:

The whole Daddy thing does alot for me and i remember the first time i said it it was like a mini orgasm


I love how you describe this; however "Daddy" doesnt do it for me, but "Sir" does. It's amazing what will twingle your twatch. [:D]

Respectfully,
Willing2serve1



domtimothy46176 -> RE: Dom Daddy? (1/25/2005 9:01:09 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: willing2serve

Curious to know, if the ones that consider themselves to be "Daddy Doms" are they most likely not to be a sadist?



I'm most definitely a sadist, although my sadism is much more likely to be on a mental level rather than physical. Tickling is probably the worst form of torture my girl has to endure on the physical level. I've trained her to ask politely when she wants a spanking rather than attempting to get it by misbehaving. When I do spank her it's in response to her desire and not my own sadistic tendencies. The sadistically evil teasing I do, OTOH, is all about fulfilling my desires and something that she chooses to endure as a service to me.
Timothy



ruffnecksbabygir -> RE: Dom Daddy? (1/26/2005 1:47:11 PM)

i see my Master as not only my "Master" but also my daddy, friend, lover, lord, sir, finance, etc etc etc... He's all those things and more. i know that to Him i am His slave, girl, whore, slut, friend, fiance, etc etc etc... [:)]



lacyann -> RE: Dom Daddy? (1/26/2005 2:53:32 PM)

And that my dear is what is a great relationship. when two are so much to each other and have strong desires to please each other and care for each other and want the world for the other person. us (sub's slaves ect) to the good, pleasure and pleasing of our Master ( Dom, Daddy ect) and them to us. [;)]



BeachMystress -> RE: Dom Daddy? (1/28/2005 1:21:18 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: willing2serve
Curious to know, if the ones that consider themselves to be "Daddy Doms" are they most likely not to be a sadist?



I have a sadistic bent to me. I find it to be less a part of me with my current sub. I do not have to force him to accept my nurturing. I know that sounds like an odd statement, but in actuality, adult men often don't like to be mothered. I've often had to hurt a sub so I could make him better. *smiles* Funny how they are much more likely to accept being comforted and cosseted after they've experienced a lot of pain. That doesn't mean I'm not sadistic at all with my current sub. It means my pain play tends to be impish rather than designed to make him scream. (Yesterday I curled the hair on his legs like you would curling ribbon.. gripping it between two fingernails and firmly pulling so that when it slipped through, it was a curl. It felt a lot to him like I was pulling the hairs out, and a few did actually come out. I had a lot of fun doing it, laughing and exclaiming how pretty the curls looked. I don't think he was nearly as amused by the whole process as I was..... )



Interesdom -> RE: Dom Daddy? (1/29/2005 10:12:02 AM)

Here are some links I have for those who ask me about this subject:

Daddy Doms

DaddyDomsnbabygirls

Daddy Doms

Daddy Dearest

what a baby girl is

I see two major variations in Daddy Dom/lil igrl relationships:

  • There are those in which age play is the main part and the woman is often acting as a girl (of any age, down to about 3)
  • There are those where the power exchange is more like that of child-parent but without much, or any, age play.




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