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stillexploring -> i am soft ,sensitive and little shy (10/2/2006 2:24:56 PM)

yes i am  quite soft ( i cant  see blood/pain donot like them) , sensitive(cant  hear  abusive  language or something  thats really bad about me or someone i know)  , Shy (cannot  tell anyone i  am involved in any relationship where  i obey woman etc).
But i  have strong desire  to be submissive /slave of  a  lady. ..
So  can i be submissive  even if  i have so much  conditions ?




MasterFireMaam -> RE: i am soft ,sensitive and little shy (10/2/2006 2:29:09 PM)

Yes. You are allowed to want what you want and to look actively for it. If someone doesn't agree to the limits you have, they are not a match for you.

Master Fire




MsKatHouston -> RE: i am soft ,sensitive and little shy (10/2/2006 2:29:36 PM)

Yes.  Finding a match, though, will be more difficult as it will with anyone who has more limits or very specific limits that may not jive with the majority.  Everything, though, is possible.

I don't think any one taken individually is too bad but all together it might be an issue.  I am curious though about your statement, "cannot  tell anyone i  am involved in any relationship where  i obey woman".  Does this mean you can not tell anyone you are in a D/s relationship or that any relationship you get into you must project the position of power?




stillexploring -> RE: i am soft ,sensitive and little shy (10/2/2006 2:37:23 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MsKatHouston

Yes.  Finding a match, though, will be more difficult as it will with anyone who has more limits or very specific limits that may not jive with the majority.  Everything, though, is possible.

I don't think any one taken individually is too bad but all together it might be an issue.  I am curious though about your statement, "cannot  tell anyone i  am involved in any relationship where  i obey woman".  Does this mean you can not tell anyone you are in a D/s relationship or that any relationship you get into you must project the position of power?


i  will not tell anyone  (friends/family etc) that  i  am in  D/S  relationship , Reason is  simple , i live in a  country where peoples will not accept  such relationship and i may be degraded in society ..

let me try to explain my limits in more details .
All my demands  are simple
1. my mistress should not be harsh enough , its fine if  she slap me  or beat me with  some wooden stick ,  but she  should do it with care  ,she must take care if  it does not bleed ,  So pain  will be gladly accepted  but harsh pain cannot be accepted .She must be  worried about my safety  too.
2.She may call me pet/bitch etc . but using pure abusive language which  hurt my feelings  cannot be  accepted . 
3.Shy , yes please keep relationship private  as  described  above. 




MsKatHouston -> RE: i am soft ,sensitive and little shy (10/2/2006 2:41:47 PM)

Just be up front and honest.  Get to know someone before jumping into anything.  Be patient.  Good luck.




BlkTallFullfig -> RE: i am soft ,sensitive and little shy (10/2/2006 3:18:53 PM)

There is nothing wrong with being submissive, and more about service than senstation...  In fact women will flock to you for that if you prove to be a decent and sincere human being with those qualities.
Learn about yourself, learn about what you want, be honest about it, and you'll do just fine.   M




mstrjx -> RE: i am soft ,sensitive and little shy (10/2/2006 4:10:04 PM)

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ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig

More about service than sensation.



Are you good with a broom?  Can you drive a car?  Can you hold bags in the store?  Can you clean toilets?

Would doing these things be enough for you?

Jeff




DivaDuchess -> RE: i am soft ,sensitive and little shy (10/2/2006 6:58:44 PM)

Can you cook, clean, massage a back or two and feet?  How about mow the lawn and shovel snow?  There are many domestic duties that a sub will apply themselves to.

Would these things be enough ... if they please your Mistress/Master.  Will you be okay if that same Mistress/Master has another in their home that DOES do the things you will not?  In the end, communicating with a prospective Mistress/Master about everyone's desires and needs is the key.

You also might like to fill out your profile a bit more, listing your hard limits right there to be read.






dicipline2 -> RE: i am soft ,sensitive and little shy (10/2/2006 7:46:21 PM)

*chuckles a bit* its hard for a subby male learning about his desires...he is often afraid and will not disclose them to his partners.
I have learned over time that you will come to grips with your desires and be more open about them so that they can be fulfilled.

Or...you will encounter a woman who will sniff them out and quickly put you in your place. (has happened to me both r/t and online lol).

Dont be shy...and dont be afraid....embrace your desires and beg them to be fulfilled. If your lucky...you will end up with a wonderful Mistress.




MisPandora -> RE: i am soft ,sensitive and little shy (10/3/2006 9:15:29 AM)

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ORIGINAL: stillexploring

yes i am  quite soft ( i cant  see blood/pain donot like them) , sensitive(cant  hear  abusive  language or something  thats really bad about me or someone i know)  , Shy (cannot  tell anyone i  am involved in any relationship where  i obey woman etc).
But i  have strong desire  to be submissive /slave of  a  lady. ..
So  can i be submissive  even if  i have so much  conditions ?

Trolling, trolling, trolling......

I guess I'll put away the car wreck pictures, the pint of blood I keep for squicking people out and won't plan on making you bark at the restaurant, eh?  Shit.




ToGiveDivine -> RE: i am soft ,sensitive and little shy (10/3/2006 9:20:03 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MisPandora

quote:

ORIGINAL: stillexploring

yes i am  quite soft ( i cant  see blood/pain donot like them) , sensitive(cant  hear  abusive  language or something  thats really bad about me or someone i know)  , Shy (cannot  tell anyone i  am involved in any relationship where  i obey woman etc).
But i  have strong desire  to be submissive /slave of  a  lady. ..
So  can i be submissive  even if  i have so much  conditions ?

Trolling, trolling, trolling......

I guess I'll put away the car wreck pictures, the pint of blood I keep for squicking people out and won't plan on making you bark at the restaurant, eh?  Shit.


BARKING AT RESTAURANTS!!!!  I think I just messed myself - MisPandora, don't tease so - ROFL

It sounds like he just wants to be a vanilla maid - to each their own I say.




MisPandora -> RE: i am soft ,sensitive and little shy (10/3/2006 9:30:09 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ToGiveDivine

quote:

ORIGINAL: MisPandora

quote:

ORIGINAL: stillexploring

yes i am  quite soft ( i cant  see blood/pain donot like them) , sensitive(cant  hear  abusive  language or something  thats really bad about me or someone i know)  , Shy (cannot  tell anyone i  am involved in any relationship where  i obey woman etc).
But i  have strong desire  to be submissive /slave of  a  lady. ..
So  can i be submissive  even if  i have so much  conditions ?

Trolling, trolling, trolling......

I guess I'll put away the car wreck pictures, the pint of blood I keep for squicking people out and won't plan on making you bark at the restaurant, eh?  Shit.


BARKING AT RESTAURANTS!!!!  I think I just messed myself - MisPandora, don't tease so - ROFL

It sounds like he just wants to be a vanilla maid - to each their own I say.

No, I did not mean that literally.
Bark at restaurant.
Shit.
LOL




mons -> RE: i am soft ,sensitive and little shy (10/6/2006 3:38:28 AM)

greetings to all
 
i find myself spoil and i love it to have someone cater to me rub my back and do what i like is so fun. does anyone find they may be spoiled i think when you do find a wonderful service type of submissive it is a thing so dreams to some many have lost the true nature of what they are about i have letter where they say i will kiss you feet ( this si something they wish to do ) or i will lick you for hours (ok that sound ok but for hours may be a littel be on the long side then there are the house cleaners ( oh i wil wash you wall you floor do the dish ) not one has said what do you wish of me what can i or how can i be of service to you , this let me pick what i want from them this si what is missing from the submissives now days wanting to learn how to please me not telling me what they will do but i will find out what is wrong looking for the right one is hard somettimes but will be work it self out
 
take care mons[&:]




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