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RE: how to be a good slave. - 10/3/2006 4:25:15 PM

sugarcoatedscamp

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ORIGINAL: bbwcraves

Obeying Her orders is only some of it. Wanting to please Her to just please Her, for you and Her, is what it is all about. If Her glass is empty, refill it. If Her day has taken a toll on Her, be Her refuge in an insane world. If Her stomach growls, feed it. If Her house needs cleaning, clean it. Let Her smile of approval light your way, and Her frown of disapproval teach you what you needed to learn. Be someone She can smile and say, This one is Mine, and say it with deep appreciation and approval...deep pride. Don't be someone that She couldn't say that about. So many things...so many ways...to show Her how you feel.

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That was FANTASTIC. What she said.

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RE: how to be a good slave. - 10/4/2006 10:32:51 PM

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be faithful truthful and devoted

(Which as per one of your other posts you are not capable of)

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RE: how to be a good slave. - 10/4/2006 10:48:42 PM

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umm behave properly?

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RE: how to be a good slave. - 10/4/2006 10:52:16 PM

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ORIGINAL: FelinePersuasion

umm behave properly?

LOL well said.. I do so love you my baby kitty!!

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RE: how to be a good slave. - 10/4/2006 10:54:46 PM

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"It is said that one will not be able to do great works if he does not behave with some reserve towards his master, chief retainers, and elders. What is done casually and freely will not work out well. Its a matter of attitude."
-Yamamoto Tsunetome

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RE: how to be a good slave. - 10/4/2006 11:00:44 PM

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ORIGINAL: puella

Rules:

1. Shut up

2. Suck

3. Fuck

4. Cook

5. Clean

That should do it.

Damn Puella, I think you nailed it.
May I use this next time someone asks to be trained?

*Uhm well, maybe except for the shut up, I like a guy who speaks almost at all times, except for those rare moments when he is trying to tell me what to do, rather than respectfully asking me to consider...* M

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RE: how to be a good slave. - 10/5/2006 7:19:30 AM

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ORIGINAL: stillexploring

Ofcourse i will obey mistress orders , but what are the other things that i can do to prove that i am good slave and really want to serve her ..

That is really a matter of what she thinks is a good slave, isn't it?

I mean we all use the term "slave" differently. For some it is strictly a matter of consistant obedience. For others it involves the concept of non-humanness. For others it reflects a giving over of all limits. For others it is a focus on service. ETC.

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RE: how to be a good slave. - 10/5/2006 8:38:22 AM

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If you need some practice, you can come and clean my house any time.

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RE: how to be a good slave. - 10/5/2006 8:49:23 AM

LotusSong

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Get to know her well enough to anticipate her needs. If she is worth her salt, she will learn the same of you.

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RE: how to be a good slave. - 10/5/2006 8:50:58 AM

GddssBella

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G'morning all:

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ORIGINAL: puella
Rules:
1. Shut up
2. Suck
3. Fuck
4. Cook
5. Clean
That should do it.

I really need to stop reading certain posts while I'm drinking something... I will just add;

6. Better look good in spandex, lycra, or pvc while performing above functions.

Stay safe, play nice, & share your toys w/ others...

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RE: how to be a good slave. - 10/5/2006 9:09:05 AM

Iskander

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ORIGINAL: puella

Rules:

1. Shut up

2. Suck

3. Fuck

4. Cook

5. Clean

That should do it.

can we change 4 to Doing the dishes? Because other than that the kitchen is my domain...

"Get out of the kitchen.. Dinner will be ready when it's ready..."

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RE: how to be a good slave. - 10/5/2006 9:23:46 AM

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that falls under "cleaning".. I think...at least in my house it does

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RE: how to be a good slave. - 10/5/2006 9:30:52 AM

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ORIGINAL: puella

Rules:

1. Shut up

2. Suck

3. Fuck

4. Cook

5. Clean

That should do it.

hahaha. a bit like a WIFE: Wash. Iron. Fuck. Etc.

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RE: how to be a good slave. - 10/5/2006 9:32:42 AM

Iskander

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Good point...

I just thought of it as seperate because cleaning up after i cook is as much work as the rest of house cleaning put together...

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RE: how to be a good slave. - 10/5/2006 9:34:28 AM

wild1cfl

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ORIGINAL: Iskander

can we change 4 to Doing the dishes? Because other than that the kitchen is my domain...

"Get out of the kitchen.. Dinner will be ready when it's ready..."

Iskander...

Yah that's right the kirtchen is my domain as well LOL !!!!

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RE: how to be a good slave. - 10/5/2006 9:37:43 AM

RiotGirl

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ORIGINAL: jamesthehumanrug

greetings
,besides make g d sure you follow orders first time ;you can let HER be; let HER feel;pay attention to what SHE thinks when SHE graciously tells you what SHE thinks;you can try to be everything to HER ,in HER presense ,by being nothing;
you can let HER do ,and ,make things happen for HER, that you know would make HER ,or anyone happy ,for that matter....you can, just always be the good guy ,and, be there where ever, and when ever SHE, may want you ;and, be reliable ;steady ,as a rock SHE stands, on ,or walks bye, and, be as sure ,as the doorknob SHE turns ,to come back home again;
you can make HER ;&, all about HER or ,ALL THAT IS ,around HER; your priority, and, never hope ,for solice ,or special favor ,or rewards, for, just letting HER be.BE WILLING TO DIE FOR WHAT FREEDOM SHE HAS ,AND, FOR WHAT YOU BELIEVE IN,OR WILL FIGHT FOR ;HER;WORSHIP ;HER

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ORIGINAL: stillexploring

Ofcourse i will obey mistress orders , but what are the other things that i can do to prove that i am good slave and really want to serve her ..

james that was awesome

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RE: how to be a good slave. - 10/5/2006 12:40:20 PM

jonathan

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ORIGINAL: thetammyjo

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ORIGINAL: stillexploring

Ofcourse i will obey mistress orders , but what are the other things that i can do to prove that i am good slave and really want to serve her ..

That is really a matter of what she thinks is a good slave, isn't it?

I mean we all use the term "slave" differently. For some it is strictly a matter of consistant obedience. For others it involves the concept of non-humanness. For others it reflects a giving over of all limits. For others it is a focus on service. ETC.

Other than the non-humanness part, for Myself, it is all of these.

Consistent obedience
Giving over of all *agreed upon* limits, and this would include life limits...not just play activity limits
A focus on service...just focusing, period!

Be self-aware, and know that you are happy to give what you know will be taken. It is about your fulfillment, also.
For Me, this is not a part-time role, or something that is done when it is convenient for the slave. If you want to be a slave, then that is what you must be. Just be sure that you are slave to the right person. You cannot try to be something you are not, and a Dominant cannot be what s/she is not. If that is assumed, then one might as well just go for the regular "you do this, I do that, and we compromise on all the rest" vanilla relationship.
There are Dominants who prefer the "you are property and mean nothing to Me in human terms" scnario, and there are submissives/slaves who will thrive in that environment. If you do not, then just move on.

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