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RE: looking for new torture ideas - 12/8/2006 11:16:15 AM   
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Limits?  Sorry, but you'll have to wait until at least some of the bloodflow returns to the larger head before I can respond that one!   

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Ohhhhhhhhhhh.... *rubs hands together in gleeful anticipation*... does that mean that you're in a no-limits zone atm?????


While trying not to babble, I'd say that I do enter into periods where I cannot prevent myself from telling All That Mistress' (ATM) would possibly want to know and I might totally forget any limits I'd previously stated.    At moments like that, I'm sure there are some that would gleefully take advantage of my being in such a state.  Its one of the reasons I don't casually play. 

The main reason however is I find once I begin to give my submission, I can too quickly lose all control of my emotions.  I don't know if its common, but the more I submit, the deeper and more quickly I fall in love.  I just don't know how to separate the two.  Those kinds of things are not something to play with, of that I've learned from experience and am quite certain its a place that's not wise for me to go.  

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RE: looking for new torture ideas - 12/8/2006 1:17:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		Since you mentioned torture, I will mention mostly pain ideas, but I will add a few selected non pain ideas. Candle wax , figging, and Ben Gay have been mentioned above so I won't repeat, but adding them all at the same time will keep him guessing as to which is worse. Ben Gay as an anal lubricant is another variation. Enemas and Ben Gay to the balls, vibrators to the prostate with BenGay lubrication, and Ben Gay varied with frozen dildos, are some other variations. Needle play can be entertaining, but also messy, I would recommend a tutor for such play. Electro play to the skin, anal walls, and testicles will produce sensations from erotic to painful at your discretion. If pain is not your cut of tea, Mind fucks can be very entertaining. Mind fucking is making the submissive believe you are going to do one thing and giving another. All the instruments mentioned above can be used in Mind Fucking, so the most important part of a Mind Fuck is to convince your sub of one intention while providing another (misdirection so to speak). By keeping him off balance, he will never know what did or didn't hit him. If you are looking to add more kinds of play to your intimacy, I suggest a National convention, local clubs, or Munches. Good Luck

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RE: looking for new torture ideas - 12/8/2006 11:28:27 PM   
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I've never considered adding "nature" items to my scenes, I guess that is due in part to the fact that I was raised (mentored) by a Domme whose main concern was sterility and safety. I have perhaps more knowledge regarding "top rack dishwasher" toys than I actually need, however, if I could convince my "vanilla" significant other to participate in my bedroom antics, it's something I might try.

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RE: looking for new torture ideas - 12/9/2006 3:13:38 AM   
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RE: looking for new torture ideas - 12/9/2006 11:16:59 AM   
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RE: looking for new torture ideas - 12/9/2006 11:27:26 AM   
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While trying not to babble, I'd say that I do enter into periods where I cannot prevent myself from telling All That Mistress' (ATM) would possibly want to know and I might totally forget any limits I'd previously stated.   

That's not necessarily a bad thing... ... and babbling can be fun. Especially when its "babble babble blah blay OH MY GOD!!!" followed by heavy & deep breathing.


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At moments like that, I'm sure there are some that would gleefully take advantage of my being in such a state.  Its one of the reasons I don't casually play. 

Are you insinuating that lil' ol' moi would take advantage of you???    Sweet pixelslave, whatever gave you that idea? *Ignore the evil maniacal laughter in the background. I said IGNORE IT!!!*


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The main reason however is I find once I begin to give my submission, I can too quickly lose all control of my emotions.  I don't know if its common, but the more I submit, the deeper and more quickly I fall in love.  

Truthfully, I don't know if this is common or not. The subs I currently play with are involved in stable relationships/married, and their primary partner is always in attendance.


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I just don't know how to separate the two.  Those kinds of things are not something to play with, of that I've learned from experience and am quite certain its a place that's not wise for me to go.  

But that doesn't mean you won't flirt, does it????

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RE: looking for new torture ideas - 12/9/2006 2:02:29 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Mikal

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While trying not to babble, I'd say that I do enter into periods where I cannot prevent myself from telling All That Mistress' (ATM) would possibly want to know and I might totally forget any limits I'd previously stated.   

That's not necessarily a bad thing... ... and babbling can be fun. Especially when its "babble babble blah blay OH MY GOD!!!" followed by heavy & deep breathing.



Its probably more like a case of interrogate me as you wish and I'll tell you anything and more, even if it makes no sense when I try to put responses into words as I babble semi-incoherently seeking the proper words in my jumbled mind!

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At moments like that, I'm sure there are some that would gleefully take advantage of my being in such a state.  Its one of the reasons I don't casually play. 

Are you insinuating that lil' ol' moi would take advantage of you???    Sweet pixelslave, whatever gave you that idea? *Ignore the evil maniacal laughter in the background. I said IGNORE IT!!!*



You'll have to excuse me, sometimes I'm hard of hearing.  What did you say?


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The main reason however is I find once I begin to give my submission, I can too quickly lose all control of my emotions.  I don't know if its common, but the more I submit, the deeper and more quickly I fall in love.  

Truthfully, I don't know if this is common or not. The subs I currently play with are involved in stable relationships/married, and their primary partner is always in attendance.


Not my kind of thing, of that I'm certain.  While being very giving, there are some things I honestly don't share well and I've yet to meet a woman that genuinely interested me who was the kind who would share her subs at all.  At the moment I can't say if it was coincidence or part of the attraction.  I'm just not into poly, as its a hard limit for me.  Ditto for being "loaned out", although I've not stated as such.  But as I don't know the particulars of which you refer to, I wouldn't want to imply anything nor am I the kind to judge, only to say I don't think I'd be happy in that kind of arrangement.

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I just don't know how to separate the two.  Those kinds of things are not something to play with, of that I've learned from experience and am quite certain its a place that's not wise for me to go.  

But that doesn't mean you won't flirt, does it????


There's no doubt I'm busted as you've pegged me for the flirt I confess that I am!  I love to flirt with those who like to play the mental game and all it can encompass.  Double entendres are so much fun for me with those who are sharp enough to grasp their complete meaning.  It tells me a woman is one with intelligence with whom I can have fun.  Lets just say that if it were a test for me, clearly you've passed with flying colors!
 
 - pixel

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RE: looking for new torture ideas - 12/9/2006 4:37:35 PM   
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You'll have to excuse me, sometimes I'm hard of hearing.  What did you say?

WHY WOULD YOU THINK THAT I WOULD TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOU? *Did you hear me this time? lol*

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While being very giving, there are some things I honestly don't share well and I've yet to meet a woman that genuinely interested me who was the kind who would share her subs at all.  At the moment I can't say if it was coincidence or part of the attraction.  I'm just not into poly, as its a hard limit for me.  Ditto for being "loaned out", although I've not stated as such.  But as I don't know the particulars of which you refer to, I wouldn't want to imply anything nor am I the kind to judge, only to say I don't think I'd be happy in that kind of arrangement.  

Ironic as it is, I DO NOT share my partner either in any form, but I don't have a problem whipping someonelse's. *shrugs* Now, I'm not saying I'd have sex or anything like it with them... atm I play with a male sub who's married - his Mistress is his wife, and she's showing me how to properly use a single-tail.  We also collaborate on some rather intricate scenes, but I don't do any of the 'intimates' as it were. Personally, I don't do poly... I don't really understand it, but  I'm a very possessive type of person. I'm not psychotic about it (well, in my opinion anyway ), but... well, I just don't share what's mine very nicely.

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There's no doubt I'm busted as you've pegged me for the flirt I confess that I am!  I love to flirt with those who like to play the mental game and all it can encompass.  Double entendres are so much fun for me with those who are sharp enough to grasp their complete meaning.  It tells me a woman is one with intelligence with whom I can have fun.  Lets just say that if it were a test for me, clearly you've passed with flying colors!
 
If it were a test???? lmao... methinks it is to you, whether you admit it or not! *grins* It's all good. So long as those colours are rainbow colours .

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RE: looking for new torture ideas - 12/9/2006 8:08:49 PM   
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RE: looking for new torture ideas - 12/9/2006 8:16:46 PM   
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Does anyone have any ideas for torturing a tied up male sub besides ice, tickling, spanking, and CBT?


I assume you're looking for mild torture based on the above three ideas?  Consider tying him down and violating his ass.  Not just once so he likes it, but over and over and over again, till he breaks and begs you to stop.  Fill him up with water (learn how much is safe and the "how to"), plug him up for a while then let him release it.   If you do it enough times  he'll feel completely invaded, spent and used.

  


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RE: looking for new torture ideas - 12/9/2006 8:34:46 PM   
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You'll have to excuse me, sometimes I'm hard of hearing.  What did you say?

WHY WOULD YOU THINK THAT I WOULD TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOU? *Did you hear me this time? lol*


Gosh Mikal, you don't have to shout that loud!   I'm not totally deaf!!  Perhaps it was the devious & psyochotically insane sounding laughter I thought I could hear being stifled in the background??

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While being very giving, there are some things I honestly don't share well and I've yet to meet a woman that genuinely interested me who was the kind who would share her subs at all.  At the moment I can't say if it was coincidence or part of the attraction.  I'm just not into poly, as its a hard limit for me.  Ditto for being "loaned out", although I've not stated as such.  But as I don't know the particulars of which you refer to, I wouldn't want to imply anything nor am I the kind to judge, only to say I don't think I'd be happy in that kind of arrangement.  

Ironic as it is, I DO NOT share my partner either in any form, but I don't have a problem whipping someonelse's. *shrugs* Now, I'm not saying I'd have sex or anything like it with them... atm I play with a male sub who's married - his Mistress is his wife, and she's showing me how to properly use a single-tail.  We also collaborate on some rather intricate scenes, but I don't do any of the 'intimates' as it were. Personally, I don't do poly... I don't really understand it, but  I'm a very possessive type of person. I'm not psychotic about it (well, in my opinion anyway ), but... well, I just don't share what's mine very nicely.


Interesting!  You're much more like the Dommes I've met than I realized (although probably more wicked and twisted)!    Most I've known don't share what is theirs very nicely either.   Its no wonder I couldn't hear you with that single tail passing by my ear at 1200 ft/sec!  Are you trying to turn me into a clone of Vincent Van Gogh?  I don't understand Poly either.  If you ever figure it out, would you please explain it to me?

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There's no doubt I'm busted as you've pegged me for the flirt I confess that I am!  I love to flirt with those who like to play the mental game and all it can encompass.  Double entendres are so much fun for me with those who are sharp enough to grasp their complete meaning.  It tells me a woman is one with intelligence with whom I can have fun.  Lets just say that if it were a test for me, clearly you've passed with flying colors!
 
If it were a test???? lmao... methinks it is to you, whether you admit it or not! *grins* It's all good. So long as those colours are rainbow colours .


Darn!  Busted again!   But if you feel you must punish me, please get out grandpa's tools for Bright Left-Threaded Hex Nuts and put the singletail away!  
 
 - pixel

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RE: looking for new torture ideas - 4/17/2007 11:33:06 AM   
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RE: looking for new torture ideas - 4/17/2007 11:55:45 AM   
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Status: offline 		......lots of great positions for extended bondage= hog tied on a hardwood floor for the night is incredibly torturous,  standing with arms extended overhead is brutal after a while, the prisoners position with wrists tied over the knees together to the ankes is very uncomfortable fast---- too many positions to mention and the Domme can just sit back and watch or enjoy her sub's prolonged suffering at Her leisure.

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RE: looking for new torture ideas - 4/19/2007 6:17:25 AM   
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RE: looking for new torture ideas - 4/22/2007 8:39:20 AM   
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RE: looking for new torture ideas - 11/6/2008 6:27:38 AM   
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Status: offline 		Not something I've tried personally, but a butt plug while pillion on a Kawasaki through Keilder Forest's back roads ought to do the trick.  When (not if) they submit, you can use nipple clamps attached to the grab bar for more entertainment.

I've met Dommes who've used nettles in CBT after tying someone to a tree overnight.

If you want to be inventive, take an electrocution toy, splice the wires and use extensions to link on to piercings.  The random shock ones work best I find.




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RE: looking for new torture ideas - 11/6/2008 6:49:10 AM   
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Tell him that he can do this the easy way (ie safe word) or do it the hard way... which he will obviously choose.
Get him to stand on polythene because its all going to get a bit messy and you don't want to damage your floor. Let him see your table of tools with things like drills, knives, clamps and so on.
Prepare a bowl of fake blood in warm water and have ready some lint. Turn his back to you and make him look down at the floor. Run a knife along his back, over his shoulders and around his neck and every so often pretend to wipe over his wounds with the lint that has been pre-dipped in the fake blood before throwing it onto the polythene at his feet. Believe me, this will freak him out!

Another good one is a sack or cloth over the head that has been tilted slightly back. Throw freezing water at his face and he will feel for a moment like he is suffocating.

Heat up a branding iron with a blow torch in front of him but have a hidden branding iron sitting in ice. He will believe he is being branded. or better still, heat up some nails that are being held by a clamp and tell him you are going to put these through his toe nails. Have a hidden brand in some ice and use this.

Stick a canula up his urethra and then tell him you are going to find some electrodes.

Put a noose round his neck and tell him your going to hang him.

He will at some stage probably faint and so you do need quick release knots

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RE: looking for new torture ideas - 11/6/2008 4:14:20 PM   
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Status: offline 		I guess you could conside this cock and ball torture but worth a try. Get a roll of electrical tape. Get him nice and hard then wrap his cock and balls tightly in electrical tape. Leave it on for about 20 to 30 minutes. Then peel the tape of slowly. He will go through the roof as you do it. If you have ever experienced the feeling of having nipple clamp removed once they have been on for 30 minutes it will be much the same feeling but 10X more intense.

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RE: looking for new torture ideas - 11/6/2008 4:24:37 PM   
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RE: looking for new torture ideas - 11/7/2008 12:39:56 PM   
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