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RE: BLK DOMs for Wht Sub - 10/7/2006 1:51:24 PM

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Well since you have a problem with someone choosing based just on race, it appears that it is your problem and not the OP's. Why would you care?

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RE: BLK DOMs for Wht Sub - 10/7/2006 1:57:15 PM

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That picture is beautiful Red.
I've always loved Benetton ads (united colors of benetton) because of the whole spectrum of colors they have within.

Nevertheless Suave does sound like an one hand typing wanker. M

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RE: BLK DOMs for Wht Sub - 10/7/2006 2:15:27 PM

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Well since you have a problem with someone choosing based just on race, it appears that it is your problem and not the OP's. Why would you care?

i have no personal interest in the Op. What *i* do have an investment in is a color-blind world in which to live and raise my unmentionable.

BTW, BlkTallullfig; i agree. The Benetton ads did rock. It's been ages since i have seen one in a magazine...i hope the company has not changed its ad campaign.

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RE: BLK DOMs for Wht Sub - 10/8/2006 2:33:54 AM

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Sorry but i still feel it's merely a personal perference---although i agree with a color blind society, i sincerely think it's a battle that will be fought yet never won.

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RE: BLK DOMs for Wht Sub - 10/8/2006 5:12:36 AM

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y0. gypsylee in da house! wot u b wantin' wit us white-arse sub bitchez? we ain't shit! except me babylons b pretty fly. booyakasha!

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RE: BLK DOMs for Wht Sub - 10/8/2006 6:16:40 AM

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Where exactly is he from? His profile says Cali in it's wording, but Tenn as his location....

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RE: BLK DOMs for Wht Sub - 10/8/2006 9:31:49 AM

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Hey miss...

Feel free to call me Red or DRH... "Miss" just sounds so goofy in this context. I'm not the waitress.

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For the last time, i will try to convey this thought: it is a disconcerting notion (to me!) that A/anyone would actively select/deselect P/pl based solely on race or ethnicity.

I got this the first go 'round, pinkee.
Not sure why you have to beat a dead horse, but if that's your kink, who am I to judge?

What I have been trying to get at and most of the other people who have written similar posts, is that... skin color, hair color, weight, height, net worth, occupation, whatever it might be... these are elements that may influence a person's choice in getting to know someone as a potential partner. It's just a preference... it may not be yours, but it is someone's... like the OP. It may make others feel squeamish, but it's no one else's business really.

I was married to someone outside of my religion and race for many years, and we didn't care that others may not like it. When I went to his country of origin, I was stared at like an alien (which made me kind of giggly) when I went to some places that "foreigners" were not allowed to go.

Personally, I don't limit myself to one particular ethnicity. I like the "buffet" approach to finding a partner, as it gives so many more choices.

However, it is for no one on this site to judge another person's preference in partner. If color-blind is the world you choose to live in, that's wonderful. Some people might take exception to that, and I would say that they have no good cause to tell you that they think you are wrong for choosing to do so. I see on your profile that you ask the men who write to you to be "age-appropriate"... Some (though not me) may see that as being discriminatory because you have an age preference that suits your interest or needs better than others. Some (not me) may say that experience, not age, is a better barometer. If those people were to jump on you for expressing a preference, I would say that they can't make your decisions for you, and you - as a grown woman - know your 'druthers better than someone else.

I don't think that "racial preference" is any stranger than "age preference." Neither one are gauges for me, and neither one make any difference if someone wants to choose a partner based on one or the other, because it is none of my business. I hope that this will make my position clearer to you as I feel that you have not understood my posts or those of others who have written similar ideas.

As someone's signature line said, "It may not be your kink, but it's mine, and I don't answer to you."

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RE: BLK DOMs for Wht Sub - 10/8/2006 9:40:10 AM

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That picture is beautiful Red.
I've always loved Benetton ads (united colors of benetton) because of the whole spectrum of colors they have within.

Thank you, BTFF...

Daddy took this picture and I just love it. To me, it speaks of His strength and position in our relationship. And the color contrast is just the cherry on top.

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Nevertheless Suave does sound like an one hand typing wanker. M

I agree with you 200%...
That's why I got the giggles when I read the opening post...

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RE: BLK DOMs for Wht Sub - 10/8/2006 9:50:48 AM

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seems we go over the race thing every other month. we like what we like. sometimes it's just what one is used to or what is available in thier area. can we all just like what we like? the only problem i had with the op was the BBC thing. it made me laugh uncontrollably. but hey....it's really my problem tho. i too miss the benetton ads. i used to buy thier diapers for my demon spawn.

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RE: BLK DOMs for Wht Sub - 10/8/2006 10:22:46 AM

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the BBC thing... it made me laugh uncontrollably

OG...
I had to ask Daddy what this meant and He was hysterical laughing when I finally guessed correctly, and gave me a high five and kissed me on the head...

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RE: BLK DOMs for Wht Sub - 10/8/2006 10:28:43 AM

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the BBC thing... it made me laugh uncontrollably

OG...
I had to ask Daddy what this meant and He was hysterical laughing when I finally guessed correctly, and gave me a high five and kissed me on the head...

So what in hell does it mean?

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RE: BLK DOMs for Wht Sub - 10/8/2006 10:29:42 AM

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So what in hell does it mean?

Big, black cock...

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RE: BLK DOMs for Wht Sub - 10/8/2006 3:28:20 PM

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Funny how two people can read the same post and come to two different conclusions.......

I thought he was talking about the British Broadcasting Corporation.........

Lemme read that again............

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RE: BLK DOMs for Wht Sub - 10/8/2006 3:41:02 PM

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the BBC thing... it made me laugh uncontrollably

OG...
I had to ask Daddy what this meant and He was hysterical laughing when I finally guessed correctly, and gave me a high five and kissed me on the head...

So what in hell does it mean?

i can't speak for the op, but to me it means he feels his best quality is his dick, so that's the first thing he mentions when looking for a mate. It also tells me that most likely all he is looking for is someone to please it and that doesn't spell relationship to me.

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RE: BLK DOMs for Wht Sub - 10/8/2006 6:06:16 PM

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From another thread, but the message is still the same...

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It might be important that you define the difference between consideration and politically correct.

Sometimes, it's not about being politically correct, it's about not belittling someone or their kink.

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RE: BLK DOMs for Wht Sub - 10/19/2006 7:22:29 AM

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Never give up ur freedom 2 choose who u want 2 be with, it's a matter of "preference" & this blk femdom "prefers" white male subs and could care less about who has a problem w/it, 4 those who continue 2 have issues over interracial relationships, whether it's marriage, dating, bdsm,ect., should simply "get over it". the topic is about blk doms 4 wht subs....not blk doms 4 wht sub "haters".

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RE: BLK DOMs for Wht Sub - 10/19/2006 1:05:11 PM

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Maybe the issue is that others see it not as a "race" issue, but as a preference based on skin color, tone, texture, etc. Why do we prefer those that we do? It comes down to what floats your boat. I didn't see the OP as based on "racial identity" at all - just another kink in the system.

And... no one is bashing you - we understand it's *your* concern and that you're not trying to put it on others, we are just conversing as we always do. :)

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RE: BLK DOMs for Wht Sub - 10/19/2006 1:13:05 PM

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I have a friend that is a black Dom. He and I talk once in a while, and he is really a great guy. He asked me why no one wanted a black Dom, and I had no idea what to say. I told him that it never mattered to me at all, and he said that's one of the reasons he has always liked me.

I guess everyone does have a preference though, but I put mine more on the person, not the skin. I think sometimes it's easy to feel like your thought of more as a novelty than a person. I really feel for him, and know that any woman that got him, would be very lucky in their choice. We had lost touch over the last few months, and he just looked me up the other day. I know he is a great Dom, and I hope that someone will be open enough to see that about him.

PS, I want to add, that Reds Daddy, is very hot.. whew!..lol

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RE: BLK DOMs for Wht Sub - 10/19/2006 2:54:36 PM

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Love the pic Red, Beautiful. I always love that when I'm taking a bubble bath with my favorite lover (who happens to be in posession of an elusive, appreciated, but not idolized BBC ) I love when the colors, all interplay, his dark skin, my light skin, the shimmery bubbles..... Mmmmmmmmmm

Now personally, the OP is a dom, and his profile doesn't strike me favorably in any fashion, but I completely respect his preference for a given skin color. Now if he ever implies that the other colors are lesser people, then I'll have an issue, but until then..... if he wants to try to find some woman to worship him as a Blantantly Boring Crybaby, more power to him.

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RE: BLK DOMs for Wht Sub - 10/19/2006 3:02:04 PM

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