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thisishis -> RE: Is it always the Dom who decides or instigates play time? (10/3/2006 7:00:41 PM)
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ORIGINAL: doodle64
Is it always the Dom/me who instigates play time?
It will differ in any relationship, would be my guess.
In this relationship, my Owner has always decided when it is 'play time'. For that reason, i've not once been the 'instigator'.
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ORIGINAL: doodle64
Or do You have a system whereby the sub may ask permission or show somehow that s/he would be grateful for Your attentions...? Again, i only know how things are done in the relationship i am in. In this relationship, my Owner determines how it goes depending on what He may prefer and expect. i wouldn't assume that the same is true for everyone else in their relationship.
i show that i am greatful for His attention through the degree of eagerness with which i serve His sexual desires, when i am called upon to do so.
There is no one size fits all set of rules.
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ORIGINAL: doodle64
Sometimes a lot of time goes by when my service is entirely domestic, and i crave play time. Is it acceptable for a sub to request play time or should one wait patiently for their Master or Mistress to instigate it? Only your Master or Mistress (or Owner .. pick the label which suits you best, please.) is in a position to determine what is acceptable. If you are currently owned or in service to a Master or Mistress (or Owner .. pick the label which suits you best, please.) , you should ask them what they prefer.
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