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LadyOddsworth -> RE: Tolerance for CBT (1/28/2010 3:26:44 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Lashra
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ORIGINAL: ToGiveDivine
For a newbie, it is very unnerving and frightening - do the Dommes really realize the power they have to destroy another human being? Is it something they appreciate in the man's willingness to give himself up to them or is it of no consequence as it's just some tied up pig for them to torture? (I'm thinking there are both types and the trick is to find the ones that appreciate what the man is giving up)
It does give one to pause ...
I do realize that when I have my sub tied down in and he is lost in the throes of subspace, that I have so much power over him. His life is basically in my hands and with that thought in mind that I do what it is I do to him. I Dominate him, I torture him, I adore him, I love him and allow him to serve me, but most of all I protect him.
That is my main function while we go on this journey to keep him safe from harm while I thrill Myself and him. he trusts me enough to give himself over to me and I will not betray that trust, just as I expect him to never betray mine. Do I think he is a pig? No he is a wonderful man that I respect and care for.
Now as to the question about how to build up a tolerance for CBT, buy some clothespins(extreme restraints has some nice ones with coated ends) and a book on CBT. Practice on yourself, go slow and be VERY careful.
Good Luck,
~Lashra
So well said.
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