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MasterWildnHard -> RE: What is the best way for a Potential Master to communicate with you in the first email? (10/3/2006 5:08:32 PM)

Thanks for all the input, I am learning as I go. It was my initial thought, that by coming across as Hard Dom, that I was creating the fantasy for the submissive that they seem to seek, especially from reading some profiles.
Let me add a few comments for the various people who have posted.
1. I am not seeking to collect pics of subs, I know how to find porn on the web anytime I want.
2. I do read the whole profile and if the profile for example, says do not contact if you are not single then  I honor that request. I am not interested in wasting anyones time mine or theirs.
3. I have recently modified my profile and was suprised to find my pic had not been approved yet.
So guess you will have to wait till the time for review is up to see the changes. LOL
So thanks again and If I need to change it again, I will do so.
This old Dog can still be taught some things.



diamonddreamlove -> RE: What is the best way for a Potential Master to communicate with you in the first email? (10/3/2006 6:35:46 PM)

i hate pictures of myself and others.  They tend to keep who the real person is hidden.  I believe in getting to know the person first.  Then and only then am i willing to discuss the bdsm aspects.  And above all do not even order this girl to give a picture or a cam or whatever unless we have had numerous conversations that indicate that a relationship is developing.  That includes the first phone calls as well.  Phone sex is wonderful with the right person but come on if we just started talking and that is what you want yuck then maybe i do want a picture cause the picture is likely to be someone other than who i am talking to.  Pay attention to who i am but more importantly tell me who you are.

As for married there are a lot of married subs and Doms here.  Before widowhood and before having the best Dom around (ok sorry not putting anyone down just acknowledging my feelings about my Dom) i preferred a married Dom.  They had their life i had mine and it was easier because neither of us got too serious.  But again that was a personal preference.  Being who You are, sharing Your vanilla interests and becoming a Friend first is IMHO the best way to find and establish a good healthy D/s relationship.  Good luck!



juliaoceania -> RE: What is the best way for a Potential Master to communicate with you in the first email? (10/3/2006 9:55:07 PM)

Can't see the picture yet, but your profile sounds like a real person and not some bad collection of cliches! Good job



DivaDuchess -> RE: What is the best way for a Potential Master to communicate with you in the first email? (10/4/2006 3:14:08 AM)

Your profile is weak and show you more submissive than Master.

Oh and any slave/sub who asks for 'cock shots' like that above, don't even go there.  SO fake.  If you are looking for cyber, fine.  If you are looking for something a bit more 'real' ... keep it real.  Several mails on CM, followed by a phone conversation to authenticate, followed by perhaps 6 or 7 days worth of chats ... then phone conversations and chats.  With something real, it takes time ... 4 pehaps 6 months to build a trust level strong enough for relocation of the slave to you.

Then again ... finding a real slave has been an up hill battle with Us.  they seem to want to be ordered onto webcam by some brainless twat of a wannabe master.  To them, that's real.  Don't even go there.  The slave is fake who does that or such a newbie they actually believe that's the way it's done.

Keep it real, be yourself.  You'll do just fine.





MasterWildnHard -> RE: What is the best way for a Potential Master to communicate with you in the first email? (10/4/2006 12:56:25 PM)

I assure you my dear that I am not sub in any way shape or form, with the exeption to the boss. I am working on being my own boss as well.  My profile has been edited to be less Dom in the face. Thanks for the advice all. 



MagiksSlave -> RE: What is the best way for a Potential Master to communicate with you in the first email? (10/4/2006 6:59:01 PM)

RESPECT


Magik's slave



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