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BitaTruble -> RE: Mistress requiring stories (10/3/2006 2:23:02 PM)

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I get a feeling its men trying to get a fantasy story.  Any thoughts on the subject?



I would trust my gut.

Celeste




LaTigresse -> RE: Mistress requiring stories (10/3/2006 2:25:42 PM)

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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

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I get a feeling its men trying to get a fantasy story.  Any thoughts on the subject?



I would trust my gut.

Celeste


I agree with Celeste, usually do though, one very smart lady.





stef -> RE: Mistress requiring stories (10/3/2006 3:34:43 PM)

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ORIGINAL: joyinslavery

Ok, this is all very disappointing.  How is it possible to stalk someone if they are going to try and be two different people in two different towns?!?

Don't look at it as a negative, think of it in more positive terms.  Just imagine the frequent flyer miles such a person could rack up in this situation.

~stef




MistressMelissa -> RE: Mistress requiring stories (10/4/2006 7:09:56 AM)

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ORIGINAL: vicki2725
I have got a lot of requests to write a long story about my life with my new mistress if she accepts me.  is this something I should be leery about.  I get a feeling its men trying to get a fantasy story.  Any thoughts on the subject?
I don't want to waste time but if it's something that true dominant women desire I have no problem doing so.  Any vice would help.
thank you


Greetings,
While I don't require a story and as my girl PhoenixLM has stated I often ask people to tell me how they would envision their slavery. A paragraph is normally sufficient but it tells me several things.
1- The word slave means many things to many different people and I want their definition to see if we are on the same page.
2- It's a simple request and I want to see if they will take the 10 minutes to actually answer my question.
3- Most people do not understand what they are asking for.

If this is what they are requesting then it's probably a honest request. If they seek page(s) and you have had little or no prior contact it's probably a fantasy.

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ORIGINAL:  MisPandora
Well that's terrific if the person actually has experience.....

Otherwise, it's ALL fantasy, no?


I understand your point, but as for proving ones experience? That is rather difficult to do over the internet. In real life I can be respected throughout the area, but on the internet, I am just another profile. Fame is obtained via the club and guest speaker circuit. Since clubs are not my "thing" I am left asking questions.

vicki, All I can offer is to use your own judgment. If it feels write answer their request. If it doesn't you are under no obligation to answer them.




subfever -> RE: Mistress requiring stories (10/4/2006 9:30:10 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MistressDolly

Unless you know it's really a Mistress, don't bother.   Sites like this are flooded with posers.  


Yeah... not to mention that many posers also have multiple identities here too... like on this very thread.




paCDponygirl -> RE: Mistress requiring stories (10/5/2006 5:59:51 AM)

Vicki,    (curtsey)
   If you cannot verify that these people are woman with a phone call, then don't bother. There are sooo many scams out there its not even funny. Because i am a crossdresser and am into being a school girl and cheerleader, i get tons of nonsense like this from guys and guys posing as women. There are picture collectors, story collectors and my favorite (not) the ones who keep iming you trying to get you to do cyber with them after you explain that you are not interested. It makes you crazy but you still have to explore every option........well i shouldn't say that, i have no idea what it is like for a les slave to find a les Mistress........... It is incredibly tough for cd/tvs to find Dommes so i have to explore every option. i just check them out first before i send anything. If they dont want to do a call, ask them for a picture with something specific in it so you know its not just one they grabbed off the internet. If you cannot verify, then they are probably a scam. Hope that helps
lauren 




DiannaVesta -> RE: Mistress requiring stories (10/5/2006 6:30:11 AM)

I think the reason they might ask for this is to get an idea of
 
1) how serious you are
2) what level you’re at
3) if the two of you are compatible.
 
 
I’ve asked for stories before, especially slaves that want to relocate and become live-in. The reason is that my definition of humiliation and theirs might be entirely different. I want to know how they see the day to day or how they might approach certain situations.
 

 
Vicki, good luck to you. The right person is out there, I am sure.




vicki2725 -> RE: Mistress requiring stories (10/17/2006 6:55:46 AM)

I see I having another problem now.  sharing photos.  someone is impersonating me or or just using my photos.  I'm glad I keep several that I don't share.
how do you protect yourself against people asking for photos than taking them as their own.   if you look at the time they were made I was here much longer.


It IS the same identical picture that is in the profile belonging to cagemyheart -- reference the post made by "Jessica" -- http://www.collarchat.com/m_614098/tm.htm
Interestingly, that one says she's 24 and her slave register (http://www.slaveregister.com/p/993-434-544/) profile says she's 23.

Incredible that they're in two separate locations -- Georgia and Harrisburg PA, about two hours away from me.  Wonder who stole whose picture? LOL




demistress -> RE: Mistress requiring stories (10/17/2006 7:24:55 AM)

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ORIGINAL: vicki2725

I see I having another problem now.  sharing photos.  someone is impersonating me or or just using my photos.  I'm glad I keep several that I don't share.
how do you protect yourself against people asking for photos than taking them as their own.   if you look at the time they were made I was here much longer.


It IS the same identical picture that is in the profile belonging to cagemyheart -- reference the post made by "Jessica" -- http://www.collarchat.com/m_614098/tm.htm
Interestingly, that one says she's 24 and her slave register (http://www.slaveregister.com/p/993-434-544/) profile says she's 23.

Incredible that they're in two separate locations -- Georgia and Harrisburg PA, about two hours away from me.  Wonder who stole whose picture? LOL



I corresponded briefly with THIS gal, vicki in Harrisburg a while back, and remember the picture  I would honestly believe she is the original.




Philosopher -> RE: Mistress requiring stories (10/17/2006 10:36:14 PM)

She might be trying to get an idea of what you are about, your desires etc. Though she wouldn't need a story for this, maybe she is interested in writing tasks as part of your submission. You should ask what her intentions are with the story (would she post it somewhere else), and whether it has to be story format.

If she isn't willing negotiate on the format, and yet doesn't claim to have an interest in making you do writing tasks, then you should be suspicious. Also, if she is interested in making you do writing tasks, but that is not something you are interested in, then you should consider looking elsewhere, or asking her if she really must have writing tasks.

I like to set writing tasks, and I have that in my profile. I wouldn't share them or post them anywhere without the subs agreement though, because that would be an invasion of his privacy. Also, I wouldn't take (all) the credit, but I would mention I had help in writing it. If he wrote it all then I would mention I set the theme and this is what he wrote. Also, if he didn't mind me posting it, but wanted anonymity I would give it to him. I would say something like I set the theme for this story (or co-wrote it, etc.), but the (other) writer wishes to remain anonymous (people wouldn't even know for sure it was a sub, because stories can be co-written with other Dommes, or Switches, or anyone really).

Anyway, back on topic, it's up to you. If you don't trust this potential Mistress, tell her you haven't reached a level where you can trust she is geniune, and need to build on that first. Or something like that. If she can't (or won't) prove to you that she is female, and you aren't willing to take her on her word (I wouldn't), then don't give her the story.




DiurnalVampire -> RE: Mistress requiring stories (10/17/2006 10:39:55 PM)

It's no one's business for stories about your life with your new mistress.  If someone was asking to bring you on, thats one thing. But who hears about what you and your new Lady do should be her call.  If you are worried about it, tell them THEY have to ask her.  If they are legitimate requests, they will have no problem asking her to hear about it as well.  If they are guys just asking for wank material, they wont ask her.  Honestly, I dont see why a Mistress would want to hear a story like that, unless they ahve known you for a while and were interested in hearing about your progress and how things are going.  However, someone who out of the woodwork asks, Id think twice too.

DV




ChaOz -> RE: Mistress requiring stories (10/18/2006 12:58:51 AM)

A story can be very revealing by how/what you write and its a pain in the ass, so it shows some sincerity if you accomplish it. Give basic outline of your life, with sexual history, as well as an idea of where you are at in your life. It also speeds up the getting to know you period.Once you have one you can save it and just offer it to your next companion if it doesnt work out although you dont have to make it like really graphical as in erotic porn.




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