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Mistress requiring stories - 10/3/2006 11:10:19 AM

vicki2725

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I have got a lot of requests to write a long story about my life with my new mistress if she accepts me. is this something I should be leery about. I get a feeling its men trying to get a fantasy story. Any thoughts on the subject?
I don't want to waste time but if it's something that true dominant women desire I have no problem doing so. Any vice would help.
thank you

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RE: Mistress requiring stories - 10/3/2006 11:24:53 AM

Jasmyn

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When I have requested a slave's life story/history I haven't wanted to know about their slavery or their slavish desires or their lastest slave fantasy ... them being a *slave* is pretty much a given, especially when they tend to introduce themselves with 'hello Mistress I am a slave" ... what I don't know is the person... so when asking it because I want to know about him ... the everyday alter ego who is NOT a slave ... when I want to know why he is a slave, what draws him to enslavement, or what fantasies of fem domination he has, I'll ask.. ... I guess if they haven't stipulated it be about your past experiences in servitude and or specifically for a trip down fantasy lane ... you could write about yourself ... good luck

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RE: Mistress requiring stories - 10/3/2006 11:24:54 AM

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I would say don't worry about it and please her. :) I know I enjoy a good story, especially a true one. But, if it's something you aren't comfortable doing, set a limit. Let her know before you jump in.

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RE: Mistress requiring stories - 10/3/2006 11:28:43 AM

MsKatHouston

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Your Mistress is asking or random people are asking? I didn't quite understand that part.

If it is your Mistress, you have met her and you feel comfortable, I do not see why not. If it is random people, I would ask your Mistress first.

If you are in the beginning stages of a relationship and you are unsure of motivations, tread slowly. Use common sense and trust your instincts.

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RE: Mistress requiring stories - 10/3/2006 11:30:25 AM

Zinja2007

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quote:

ORIGINAL: vicki2725

I have got a lot of requests to write a long story about my life with my new mistress if she accepts me. is this something I should be leery about. I get a feeling its men trying to get a fantasy story. Any thoughts on the subject?
I don't want to waste time but if it's something that true dominant women desire I have no problem doing so. Any vice would help.
thank you

DO NOT DO IT. It is most likely a man POSING as a Mistress. Have her prove her identity if you're wondering whether she is real, eg. send a pix to you with "slave vicki" written on a sheet of paper. TRUST ME - a lot of men pose as Mistresses. I know first-hand of one who got outed. NEVER waste your time if you think the person is a fraud.

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RE: Mistress requiring stories - 10/3/2006 11:31:51 AM

Zinja2007

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How come your photos dont show up under your profile? I've been having problems with getting mine posted.... You too?

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RE: Mistress requiring stories - 10/3/2006 11:34:05 AM

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Ok, well first things first. You are CUTE!!! I for one would have to question Megan's sanity. Alright, now that's out of the way...

This is a particular pet peeve of mine. I've lost more time to these kinds of 'story' requests. To me, it's become something of a red flag and I won't bother anymore unless there is some serious potential and/or we've already gotten past the initial getting-to-know stage and are well into a more thorough exploration. For me, anything before that has proven to be just a waste of time.

I don't concern myself that too many of the requests made of me are from men but in YOUR case, I think that is highly likely. Come to think of it, I might just send you one too. In fact, I think you should respond to the next one you get and after that one, be very skeptical. Remember, one more story with a LOT of detail (sent to my email), THEN be extremely wary. Ok?

(Just kidding about that last bit).

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RE: Mistress requiring stories - 10/3/2006 11:36:32 AM

Jasmyn

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Sorry completely mis-read that ... to get a snapshot of where their head's at I've asked them to write how they envision a relationship with me would be like ...

Though you can't got to far wrong with the good old saying if it walks like a duck, talks like a duck, it's probably a duck ...

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RE: Mistress requiring stories - 10/3/2006 11:48:45 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: vicki2725

I have got a lot of requests to write a long story about my life with my new mistress if she accepts me. is this something I should be leery about. I get a feeling its men trying to get a fantasy story. Any thoughts on the subject?
I don't want to waste time but if it's something that true dominant women desire I have no problem doing so. Any vice would help.
thank you

Vicki... I don't think there is any one thing in particular that EVERY dominant woman wants (except maybe a sub/slave) but if this is something that you are questioning in your mind, if it bothers you enough that you feel the need to ask others about it... my hunch would be not to do it. There could be many reasons behind it... as Zinja2007 said... unless you know for sure otherwise it could be a man pretending to be a woman and looking for jerk off material. Another could be someone looking for stories to post on a website and take credit for. In the end it's up to you though.

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RE: Mistress requiring stories - 10/3/2006 11:49:02 AM

PhoenixLM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: vicki2725

I have got a lot of requests to write a long story about my life with my new mistress if she accepts me. is this something I should be leery about. I get a feeling its men trying to get a fantasy story. Any thoughts on the subject?
I don't want to waste time but if it's something that true dominant women desire I have no problem doing so. Any vice would help.
thank you

My Mistress has asked this of possible slaves simply to help weed out those who have the whole sex slave fantasy in thier heads as to actually living as a slave 24/7 and all the mundane things that go with it.
My advice is to write what you envision a life of slavery is and send it. They are either as you suspect wankers, or attempting to see if your both on the same page.

Either way good luck...

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RE: Mistress requiring stories - 10/3/2006 12:58:05 PM

MistressDolly

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Unless you know it's really a Mistress, don't bother. Sites like this are flooded with posers.

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RE: Mistress requiring stories - 10/3/2006 1:16:36 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: vicki2725

I have got a lot of requests to write a long story about my life with my new mistress if she accepts me. is this something I should be leery about. I get a feeling its men trying to get a fantasy story. Any thoughts on the subject?
I don't want to waste time but if it's something that true dominant women desire I have no problem doing so. Any vice would help.
thank you

I'm a bit confused by the use of terms.

If you aren't in a relationship with someone then she is not your mistress yet new or otherwise.

If you are, then you probably should have met her or at least talked to her on the telephone.

Second how can you write a story about a life you don't have yet with said new mistress? Clearly this would be a fantasy right? Perhaps a test to see how much you've been paying attention to her in your discussion. Again though not knowing if she's male or female is really a strong clue that you don't have a mistress here, just someone you are talking to.

I'd ask to speak with her on the telephone first before making up a fantasy about what life with her will be like. If that isn't something acceptable to her -- you have your answer about what she really wants, wanking material.

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RE: Mistress requiring stories - 10/3/2006 1:17:01 PM

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ORIGINAL: joyinslavery

Ok, well first things first. You are CUTE!!!

And one of the pictures shares an uncanny identicality with another poster from two nights ago.

Twins! In different states!!!

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RE: Mistress requiring stories - 10/3/2006 1:33:11 PM

vicki2725

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that's what I was referring to a new person e-mailing me asking me a story of what I think my new life should be like with them. I have no problem giving great details to someone I'm committed with or chat on the telephone with.

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RE: Mistress requiring stories - 10/3/2006 1:36:09 PM

vicki2725

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I always keep couple photos that I don't share until I'm positive the persons real and serious. Unlike Morgan who has all my photos we talk talked on the telephone several times. then she disappeared after 4 months.

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RE: Mistress requiring stories - 10/3/2006 1:41:33 PM

MasterFireMaam

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If you're leery about following a request from your potential Mistress, then your gut is telling you that they haven't earned your trust yet. Thus, you need to figure out why. If you are thinking this person is a man in disguise, request a real-time meeting before continuing further. If you follow your gut, you're being true to yourself. If your gut is wrong, you still have the knowledge that you were true to yourself. That has value, even when you're wrong.

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RE: Mistress requiring stories - 10/3/2006 1:48:02 PM

MisPandora

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quote:

ORIGINAL: vicki2725

I have got a lot of requests to write a long story about my life with my new mistress if she accepts me. is this something I should be leery about. I get a feeling its men trying to get a fantasy story. Any thoughts on the subject?
I don't want to waste time but if it's something that true dominant women desire I have no problem doing so. Any vice would help.
thank you

Sounds suspect to me. I cannot say that I'd have you bother with that. I'd be more focused on tangible goalsetting and more practical matters.

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RE: Mistress requiring stories - 10/3/2006 1:49:33 PM

MisPandora

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quote:

ORIGINAL: PhoenixLM

quote:

ORIGINAL: vicki2725

I have got a lot of requests to write a long story about my life with my new mistress if she accepts me. is this something I should be leery about. I get a feeling its men trying to get a fantasy story. Any thoughts on the subject?
I don't want to waste time but if it's something that true dominant women desire I have no problem doing so. Any vice would help.
thank you

My Mistress has asked this of possible slaves simply to help weed out those who have the whole sex slave fantasy in thier heads as to actually living as a slave 24/7 and all the mundane things that go with it.
My advice is to write what you envision a life of slavery is and send it. They are either as you suspect wankers, or attempting to see if your both on the same page.

Either way good luck...

Well that's teriffic if the person actually has experience.....

Otherwise, it's ALL fantasy, no?

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"Simply put, if you want a real femdom to love you, give her reasons to love you." Gloria Brame

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RE: Mistress requiring stories - 10/3/2006 1:51:13 PM

MisPandora

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quote:

ORIGINAL: mstrjx

quote:

ORIGINAL: joyinslavery

Ok, well first things first. You are CUTE!!!

And one of the pictures shares an uncanny identicality with another poster from two nights ago.

Twins! In different states!!!

It IS the same identical picture that is in the profile belonging to cagemyheart -- reference the post made by "Jessica" -- http://www.collarchat.com/m_614098/tm.htm
Interestingly, that one says she's 24 and her slave register (http://www.slaveregister.com/p/993-434-544/) profile says she's 23.

Incredible that they're in two separate locations -- Georgia and Harrisburg PA, about two hours away from me. Wonder who stole whose picture? LOL

< Message edited by MisPandora -- 10/3/2006 1:55:00 PM >

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RE: Mistress requiring stories - 10/3/2006 2:22:03 PM

joyinslavery

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MisPandora

quote:

ORIGINAL: mstrjx

quote:

ORIGINAL: joyinslavery

Ok, well first things first. You are CUTE!!!

And one of the pictures shares an uncanny identicality with another poster from two nights ago.

Twins! In different states!!!

It IS the same identical picture that is in the profile belonging to cagemyheart -- reference the post made by "Jessica" -- http://www.collarchat.com/m_614098/tm.htm
Interestingly, that one says she's 24 and her slave register (http://www.slaveregister.com/p/993-434-544/) profile says she's 23.

Incredible that they're in two separate locations -- Georgia and Harrisburg PA, about two hours away from me. Wonder who stole whose picture? LOL

Ok, this is all very disappointing. How is it possible to stalk someone if they are going to try and be two different people in two different towns?!?

Work with me!

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