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getting accepted by a mistress - 10/3/2006 2:27:48 PM

brandnew000

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I understand it's of course going to be up to the personal preferenses of the mistress but as a young man very interested in exploring his submissiveness and needing a guide could I please ask someone to give me their opinion of my profile and possibly a few tips at making myself stickout above all the other male subs here and prove that I actually am serious.

thank you very much

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RE: getting accepted by a mistress - 10/3/2006 2:34:59 PM

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MsPandora, where are You? Lets get that new 'Profile Advice', (aka, Bait Posts, or, Trolling) forum going. Where do I sign to show my support?

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RE: getting accepted by a mistress - 10/3/2006 2:43:22 PM

ShiftedJewel

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I would start with changing the colors... it's all but unreadable.

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RE: getting accepted by a mistress - 10/3/2006 3:53:45 PM

MsKatHouston

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I would suggest doing a search on the forums for the topic. There are many recent posts about this. Being resourceful is something Dommes appreciate. Good luck.

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RE: getting accepted by a mistress - 10/4/2006 7:42:41 AM

MasterFireMaam

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My suggestions:

1) Do a search of the forums for writing profiles using the search feature to the upper right of the page. There's a wealth of information.
2) Change you colors. I had to highlight it in order to read it. Black on white works just fine. If you just need to use a color, use a dark color on white.
3) Think about what you have to offer...kind of like a resume. What physical skills do you possess? What intellectual skills? Etc. etc. Then, put that in your profile.
4) Think about what you want in a relationship. Are you looking, eventually, for an LTR or are you looking for an SM or sexual partner only.

Best of luck! Remember to get out into your local community...you're much more apt to meet someone in person.

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RE: getting accepted by a mistress - 10/4/2006 10:13:37 AM

MisPandora

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quote:

ORIGINAL: brandnew000

I understand it's of course going to be up to the personal preferenses of the mistress but as a young man very interested in exploring his submissiveness and needing a guide could I please ask someone to give me their opinion of my profile and possibly a few tips at making myself stickout above all the other male subs here and prove that I actually am serious.

thank you very much

*hands you a few periods to make your post more readable and not a big runon sentence*

I'm on vacation this week and am not giving my personal time up for "profile review." LOL

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RE: getting accepted by a mistress - 10/4/2006 10:37:47 AM

joyinslavery

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MisPandora

I'm on vacation this week and am not giving my personal time up for "profile review." LOL

Sorry for misspelling Your name! That's what I get for being in a hurry!

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RE: getting accepted by a mistress - 10/4/2006 12:30:44 PM

DivaDuchess

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YIKES!!! My eyes!!! Change the colors and run spell check a few times. Also what do you do for fun? Hobbies? Likes, interests, hard limits. Your profile is virtually barren of detail. Most of us know that at 21 you are VERY enthusiastic. Telling us that you like to camp or horseback ride might be soft to some, but it shows human interests and things outside the bedroom you like to do. Go back and read it like you would if YOU were searching your own profile. If you don't like what you see, chances are, no one else will either.

Good luck

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