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MasterC46910 -> RE: One Older Man's View on Age (10/5/2006 5:34:49 PM)
Too Old? Sorry, couldn't help myself....LOL

NastyDaddy -> RE: One Older Man's View on Age (10/5/2006 6:11:27 PM)
That would probably depend on her, lol. [:D] Many people quickly guess 25 as opposed to 37... losing the fact she will always be 13 years younger than he. I know the couple, they were married in 1951 and are still together today... and she's still 13 years younger than him.

adaddysgirl -> RE: One Older Man's View on Age (10/5/2006 6:30:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHugs Dear Ladies and Gentlemen; I do like older men--I find them slower than I, when they're trying to escape! I have time to step on the chain that is uncoiling as they run. When they hit the end--THUD. [Giggles with sadistic glee] And, at my age-- any slower, I have to speed up to stop! Respectfully submitted with a lot of humor, Lady Hugs You are way too funny LH [sm=lol.gif] Daddysgirl

adaddysgirl -> RE: One Older Man's View on Age (10/5/2006 6:33:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse Has anyone else ever noticed how "old" keeps getting to equal much bigger numbers? I remember when I was a kid and my mom turned 29 and thinking, damn thats old. Now..........I am thinking "old" is somewhere around 110 or so..... my mom is 85 yrs old. When she says "kid", you don't know if she's talking about a 5 yr old or a 60 yr old...lol. Yet i see her point [sm=lol.gif] Daddysgirl

adaddysgirl -> RE: One Older Man's View on Age (10/5/2006 6:59:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: becca333 I've had older partners, younger partners, and the same age. And I totally agree that it's the person who counts, not the number (my most brilliant Dom was ten years younger than me - the age difference meant nothing at all). But sometimes when I read this sort of thread, some of the posts translate as, "Why can't I get the hot young chicks any more?" Or maybe I'm just too cynical. becca, i think there was a thread going around where the OP was kinda saying this....with reference to old guys wanting young girls just to fulfill some "perverse fantasy" (as that OP was kind of looking at it). Now we all know this can be true (and i'm not saying in EVERY case before someone takes my meaning totally out of context) but i could see what that OP was saying. i don't think your cynical. Anything is in the realm of possibility. Daddysgirl

adaddysgirl -> RE: One Older Man's View on Age (10/5/2006 7:14:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: eyesopened i don't believe the calendar is a good judge of anything other than when to start getting cancer screenings, but that being said, i think the way relationships work is where there are common goals for that relationship. A man in his 20's usually has different goals in life and relationships than a man in his 50s. Women in their 30s have different life and relationship goals, generally, than women who are 20 or who are 50. It depends on whether you are seeking a lasting relationship or a more casual one but in my opinion a lasting relationship has to have common goals and age can certainly play a part in that. OMG!!! i was just thinking this same thing today. Again, i will not speak for all but let's really look at the majority. What does a 20 yr old female look at? Partying? How about a 25 yr old? Maybe toward finding a boyfriend and getting married? How about a 30 yr old? Maybe having kids before she gets 'too old'? Now if any of the above are with a partner let's say 20 yrs older. What is HE looking for? A 40 yr old guy into partying all the time? A 45 or 50 yr old into getting married and starting a family? Again, it is possible but i think we do need to look at long term goals when picking a long term partner. And any guy who is not looking at the long term, and only thinking that he wants some young, nubile 'thing' on his arm, may be in for a huge disappointment. Daddysgirl

mgdartist -> RE: One Older Man's View on Age (10/5/2006 8:31:28 PM)
thanks for all the insightful comments. This issue recently came to a head for me after a girl I was talking to and getting on well with suddenly lost interest after asking and being told my age. Before that I spent six months as the victim of an online poser who said she was 27, and had hundreds of pics of her beautiful readheaded self. After I ended it because she continued to refuse the face to face, I found myself still needing affirmation she was who she claimed to attain closure. With no help from her, and refusing to even get on cam, a netsleuth search turned up nothing on her name or profession as I knew I had the right address and phone, albeit unlisted. I was about to give up when I cross-referenced her address as a last resort. Bam! there she was, different name and different age. She was 60. Then all her 7000 friends on mxspace and other strange things she'd say and do started to make sense. It was my first ever online and obviously I was just naive and dumb. So I guess in the aftermath it was inevitable for me to mindwarp into something like this. A chat record about age I was recently maintaining in my journal here, i suppose feeling justified. It's now been removed to that remote blog, but I still struggle with basic age questions, and mostly feel constantly stereotyped and classified, or put in an age slot, and despise that the info used to do that has to always come from me. I know I'm likely out of line, and just need to get over it, but haven't and will rarely say my age to anyone. there's much more in the blog, but it's still a much bigger issue with me than what seems to be hinted at here. ...and perhaps should be. MGD

LaTigresse -> RE: One Older Man's View on Age (10/6/2006 7:32:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mgdartist thanks for all the insightful comments. This issue recently came to a head for me after a girl I was talking to and getting on well with suddenly lost interest after asking and being told my age. Before that I spent six months as the victim of an online poser who said she was 27, and had hundreds of pics of her beautiful readheaded self. After I ended it because she continued to refuse the face to face, I found myself still needing affirmation she was who she claimed to attain closure. With no help from her, and refusing to even get on cam, a netsleuth search turned up nothing on her name or profession as I knew I had the right address and phone, albeit unlisted. I was about to give up when I cross-referenced her address as a last resort. Bam! there she was, different name and different age. She was 60. Then all her 7000 friends on mxspace and other strange things she'd say and do started to make sense. It was my first ever online and obviously I was just naive and dumb. So I guess in the aftermath it was inevitable for me to mindwarp into something like this. A chat record about age I was recently maintaining in my journal here, i suppose feeling justified. It's now been removed to that remote blog, but I still struggle with basic age questions, and mostly feel constantly stereotyped and classified, or put in an age slot, and despise that the info used to do that has to always come from me. I know I'm likely out of line, and just need to get over it, but haven't and will rarely say my age to anyone. there's much more in the blog, but it's still a much bigger issue with me than what seems to be hinted at here. ...and perhaps should be. MGD WOW, said she was 27 and was 60??!! Well that is wayyyyyyyy more than an age issue, that is just seriously lying. A whole different ball of wax. I am 44, I say I am 44. When I turn 45, I will say I am 45......so on and so forth. I prefer to keep it honest and let those that do not like the truth fall by the wayside early on. Hell, I would not WANT to be twenty-anything again! I love being where I am in life right now. Besides why string anyone on with a line of bullshit?

LadyHugs -> RE: One Older Man's View on Age (10/6/2006 7:42:22 AM)
Dear Ladies and Gentlemen; As for 'hot' sexy older chicks-- Its called menopause! LOL (The heat flashes are awful--causes blushing and women aren't blushing over what is said...its just heat escaping!) For 'hot sexy older guys'--its femopause. Seems like men always put women on 'pause.' LOL Respectfully submitted with a lot of humor, Lady Hugs

LadyHugs -> RE: One Older Man's View on Age (10/6/2006 7:49:24 AM)
Dear LaTigresse, mgdartist, Ladies and Gentlemen; I agree with LaTigresse, this is more than an age difference, its about lying. In this lifestyle, communication and honestly so, is so very important. What some of us do, is at times dangerous. Computers in a way, allow such lies to take place behind the screen/monitor. Only way to really get to know a person, is without those crutches to hide behind and meet face to face. But, I do understand not having a web cam--I don't. I don't want to have to put on make-up, dress all the time for a web cam. Its a part of privacy I want to keep. Like LaTigresse mentioned though; when I grow older, so does my age on profiles. Respectfully submitted for consideration, Lady Hugs

LaTigresse -> RE: One Older Man's View on Age (10/6/2006 7:56:01 AM)
Dear LadyHugs, I am sure everyone feels this way and those that are nearby, get to. BUT, if I lived closer to you I would very much love to get to know you in person. I adore your wit. Thank you for all the knowledge, smiles and laughter! Your the best! LeeAnn

mgdartist -> RE: One Older Man's View on Age (10/6/2006 8:32:26 AM)
hmmm, obviously lying, and thought it was called "posing" in this context. but this is all academic. i just wanted to know if my reaction to all this and other inducements vis-a-vis "age". while not lying per se, is far from forthcoming. guess ya'll maybe missed this: my age blog mgd

LTRsubNW -> RE: One Older Man's View on Age (10/6/2006 6:59:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NastyDaddy If a 26 year old man married a 13 year old girl half his age, how old will she be when he is 50? Both trains will arrive in San Diego at 11:36.

LTRsubNW -> RE: One Older Man's View on Age (10/6/2006 7:00:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NastyDaddy and she's still 13 years younger than him. (Serious?) (I think my calculator is experiencing fibrulations).

FirmhandKY -> RE: One Older Man's View on Age (10/6/2006 7:24:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mgdartist hmmm, obviously lying, and thought it was called "posing" in this context. but this is all academic. i just wanted to know if my reaction to all this and other inducements vis-a-vis "age". while not lying per se, is far from forthcoming. guess ya'll maybe missed this: my age blog mgd Went to you blog to read your comments, but when the unwanted and unasked for music started, I immediately closed my browser. FHky

LadyHugs -> RE: One Older Man's View on Age (10/6/2006 10:43:20 PM)
Dear LaTigresse, Ladies and Gentlemen; I wish I had the time, opportunity to visit around the many places as to be more 'hands on' to those who I could help and or cause a little bit of joy in their lives. I hope to survive my duties as care giver, as to resume my travels and give presentations, demonstrations, round table discussions and or do anything to help bring positives into the community. If I had any advice to offer, it would be; be true to yourself, don't forget to laugh and find excuses to laugh. Know when to be serious but, just enough to maintain it. Do try, not to let the toxic world invade your piece of heaven, peace and privacy. Hugs do more than give temporary bondage--its embracing you for just being you. Allow hugs to give you some love, affection, kindness, civility and recognition and a 'welcome home your safe feeling.' To me, everybody from the lowest to the highest are important to me. Everybody is worth a hug. Respectfully submitted, Lady Hugs

twicehappy -> RE: One Older Man's View on Age (10/7/2006 7:00:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterC46910 Ok, just for the few that think I posted because it seems I can't get the young hot chicks anymore My first Master was 33 years older than i, the second who i spent most of my life with was 31 years older than i, when i went looking for another after the 2nd passed away i was looking for someone no younger than 55 or so,and i was 36. My ad read greybeards (using the biker definition of a greybeard) are preferred. I would never have assumed you were having difficulty getting younger women. I am 43 and Master is 51, he is the only man i ever even dated that close to my age, hell he is not even grey yet though using biker terminology he would be considered a greybeard. So you never really know what age your partner can end up being; for me i just preferred a certain maturity level and acquired skill in a man. (Note: no i was not looking for a Daddy Dom thing, i just prefer the look and attitude of a greybeard. )

losttreasure -> RE: One Older Man's View on Age (10/8/2006 4:55:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mgdartist hmmm, obviously lying, and thought it was called "posing" in this context. but this is all academic. i just wanted to know if my reaction to all this and other inducements vis-a-vis "age". while not lying per se, is far from forthcoming. guess ya'll maybe missed this: my age blog mgd Annoying music aside, I did go to your blog. I'm sorry... but I don't think age is your problem.

adaddysgirl -> RE: One Older Man's View on Age (10/8/2006 9:45:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: losttreasure Annoying music aside, I did go to your blog. I'm sorry... but I don't think age is your problem. i have to agree with this. As for me, i would never even think about talking with someone who would not disclose their age (or their weight, or their marital status...perhaps amongst other things). It's bad enough that you have to weed through the ones that lie about such things, but to not even have that information available when somone first contacts you? Then to ask such things and get shit about it? To me, that would be the ultimate waste of time. i would never have continued that discussion as long as those subs did [sm=ugh.gif] Daddysgirl

Dnomyar -> RE: One Older Man's View on Age (10/17/2006 5:08:16 AM)
Im one of the old people in here. I have no problem with how old or young someone is. We all have limits we would like respected. So is someone has an age limit then respect it and don't flame them.

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