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AltKey -> Hi, all (1/19/2005 10:11:27 PM)

I guess this is my obigatory introductory post.

I've been lurking for a little while, but afraid to introduce myself. Blame a little alcohol on my introduction.

I've been a little afraid of public reaction to my post. I don't want to be just another lame guy trying to cheat on his wife. I love my wife dearly, and wouldn't cheat on her to save my life. Besides, she has a hard and fast rule that I can't bring anyone home unless she can be involved :)

In all seriousness, that's an impession I'd like to avoid... so if my post is a little too wide-ranged, please forgive me.

So, introductions... I am a 30 year old man, and married. I have confessed some of my interests to my wife, but perhaps not their extent. She is very understanding and accepting, but society being what it is, it's somewhat threatening to me to admit to some of my interests, even with her. We have experimented a little, but I'm still working on admitting just the full extent of what I suppose I would term "my kink." I guess that doesn't really make sense from a purely cognitive point of view, given that she has plenty of kinks of her own, but meh... we aren't purely intellectual beings, are we?

I would probably term myself a submissive, though in practice I would likely land firmly in switch territory. My wife is also submissive, so I frequently find myself playing the dominant role. She is less willing to explore the dominant role, so that is where I frequently find myself. I guess that's the more traditional role, but I do find myself somewhat wishing to explore the other half of my personality...

I suppose I joined the community looking to meet people and make friends who have the same interests as my own. It seems like meeting people who have the same interests and needs that I have might give me the strength to investigate and pursue them myself... which is probably silly, given wifezilla's open mind and dedication to tolerance, but since when has rational thought had anything to do with human behavior?

Since I'm really looking to reach out and make friends -- not just hook up -- I suppose I should mention things outside my prurient interests... so here goes: I am a bit of a nerd. I read entirely too much (though that seems to be the norm in this subculture, from what I've seen). I am a programmer by trade. I am a musician by passion. I play guitar in every spare moment. I have a family to which I am fanatically devoted. And I have no idea what else to say... those things are my entire world.

I guess that even in print, I come across as the quiet type who reads rather than going out partying.... can't even put a good foot forward in print. Oh well... hopefully some of you actually like interacting on some kind of interesting level...

So, yeah... I guess the short version is: "Hi."

Some introduction, huh?




MissFem -> RE: Hi, all (1/19/2005 10:13:39 PM)

Hi and welcome.....did ya bring food...the new kids always bring the food




AltKey -> RE: Hi, all (1/19/2005 10:21:35 PM)

Naturally I brought food... though, owing to my Irish heritage, it's Guiness, and... well, Guiness. Anything else you want is entirely doable, but will require prior request :)




MissFem -> RE: Hi, all (1/19/2005 10:23:00 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: AltKey

Naturally I brought food... though, owing to my Irish heritage, it's Guiness, and... well, Guiness. Anything else you want is entirely doable, but will require prior request :)



just a twinkie for now will do




AltKey -> RE: Hi, all (1/19/2005 10:23:52 PM)

Done and done.




onceburned -> RE: Hi, all (1/20/2005 3:31:30 AM)

Hi Altkey, it was a nice introduction...actually one of the better ones. [:)]

Welcome to Collarme. Between the chatrooms and the message boards a person can stay very busy here... and have a lot of fun at it.

I hope you enjoy your stay here and visit us often.




theroebabe -> RE: Hi, all (1/20/2005 5:15:35 AM)


Hi and welcome to the forums at CM!

Here on the forums we love to discuss all aspects of life and the lifestyle! So it is a great place to meet and make friends. Also to see whats going on in your community etc. So jump on in, the water is fine! [:o]

Yes it was a lovely intro and told us about you as a person which is great! Thanks for taking the time for sharing a part of yourself and i hope that you get what you need from your experience here.





AltKey -> RE: Hi, all (1/20/2005 11:36:36 AM)

Thanks for the warm welcome... public and private reaction to my post have been friendly and supportive... and given my frequent bouts of shyness, I really appreciate that. I guess my nervousness about posting was unnecessary :)

Great community here, from all indications. I'm glad to be getting involved.

Thanks again!




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