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RE: Chemo Starts Today.... ughhhhh - 10/16/2006 8:48:43 PM

truesub4u

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ORIGINAL: michaelGA2

after seeing several members of my family go through chemo, i think i would rather take my chances with the cancer...but that's just me.

I aways knew you were an idiot... thank you for clarifying it for me.... and with that statement.. i could hope you end up going thru it... but I won't.. i'll hope you never have to go through anything like this at all... I wouldn't wish this on anyone... (ok maybe osma.... but hell that's a different subject all together)....

Micheal.... I just hope you never get sick....with your attitude... the sympothy party will be a lonely one...

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RE: Chemo Starts Today.... ughhhhh - 10/16/2006 8:52:05 PM

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well excuse me for having an opinion. i have seen many of my family go through chemo and still die, some in extreme pain from the "therapy" so where's the up side to this? and, by the way, don't be so hateful of those who's opinions do not match your own. we can't all bow down to the norm.

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RE: Chemo Starts Today.... ughhhhh - 10/16/2006 9:05:22 PM

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Chemo kills a lot of people.
That is a fact.

Michael is entitled to his assessment and to his opinion, although perhaps this was not the best place and time to express it.

True, nobody wishes you anything but blessings and a positive outcome.

Edited to add that my father just started chemo too, True. You are in good company and I will remember you every time I send up a prayer for him.

< Message edited by justheather -- 10/16/2006 10:01:49 PM >

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RE: Chemo Starts Today.... ughhhhh - 10/16/2006 9:09:26 PM

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my great grandmother suffered intense pain for six months during chemo and died a painful death...so this was a personal observation...let's hope nobody has to either witness such travesty or endure it...all for naught.

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RE: Chemo Starts Today.... ughhhhh - 10/16/2006 9:13:19 PM

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Next time you moan about how lonely you are, Michael, and how hard it is to connect with someone, remember this thread. It might explain somethings to you. And try this: "Its not always about ME".

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RE: Chemo Starts Today.... ughhhhh - 10/16/2006 9:16:51 PM

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i won't even justify that with a rebutal...

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RE: Chemo Starts Today.... ughhhhh - 10/16/2006 9:19:39 PM

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Jessica -- I'm so sorry for your continued struggle. May you find strength in knowing that many are thinking of you.

Unforgettable
she is a mother who can think only of the welfare of her children.
she is a wife who wonders if her husband will still love her.
she is a daughter horrified of the thought of breaking the news to her aging parents.
she is a sister, a soulmate, the best girl you know.
she is a friend; a real bosom buddy.
she is a neighbor who now needs a friend.
she is an executive who has lost her control.
she is an employee who wonders how she will keep her job, pay her bills, take care of her child, while trying to recover.
she is a patient who fears losing her life.
she is a doctor who must now save her own life.
she is a beauty who now feels like a beast.
she is a beast who never did feel beautiful.
she is famous and now wishes she wasn’t.
she is a stranger who you can’t see, but she can see you.
she is a person whom you have yet to meet.
she is you, she is me,
she is... unforgettable.

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RE: Chemo Starts Today.... ughhhhh - 10/16/2006 9:21:04 PM

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STOP IT!!!
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Dear True,
I pray that you will respond well to the treatment and will be well soon.

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RE: Chemo Starts Today.... ughhhhh - 10/16/2006 9:22:18 PM

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From one who had chemo and radio for 18 months and is still here to tell the story, could we please just agree to disagree and start to play nicely together now. This started out as hugs and kisses for a collarme companion, and would be a blessing if it returned to the same.
Life is too short for this much negative emotion.

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RE: Chemo Starts Today.... ughhhhh - 10/16/2006 9:24:49 PM

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Ours prayers are with you both. There are always a few people who cant just be supportive, but who find it necessary to turn a negative light on everything. We can only hope they never need the support, it might be a bit lacking when they find themselves in need.

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RE: Chemo Starts Today.... ughhhhh - 10/16/2006 9:34:44 PM

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ture,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. I have recently been diagnosed with adrenocortical cancer a rare and deadly one. While at this time I don't have to do chemo I sometimes wish I was if you can imagine. I am lucky in that they think they got every thing in surgery. But this form of cancer usually comes back and does not respond well to chemo or radiation. If it did I would be doing both as a preventative but since it doesn't my doctors don't see putting me through it and feel it is not worth the risk from the damage it could cause.

I pray for the best out come for you and hope that the chemo does not make you feel to sick.

aurora

P.S. has anyone thought about trying to farm a on-line BDSM cancer suport group? One where we could discuse the issues of not being able to serve the needs of our Dom/Masters or the dificulties in finding one who will take on a ill sub/slave along with the fear and anger that having cancer causes and the dificulties of living with it.

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RE: Chemo Starts Today.... ughhhhh - 10/17/2006 1:44:02 AM

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Hi true

How did it go? If youre up to answering that is - I hear that stuff can make one really ill.

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RE: Chemo Starts Today.... ughhhhh - 10/17/2006 3:38:38 AM

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I wish you well n you'll be in my prayers stay strong, I know you'll beat it just kick the damned thing in the ass

Wishing you all the best too, aurora

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RE: Chemo Starts Today.... ughhhhh - 10/17/2006 4:43:45 AM

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Adding my warm wishes, strength and positivity to you. I look forward to reading many many more posts on here from you in the future.

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RE: Chemo Starts Today.... ughhhhh - 10/17/2006 8:09:27 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyEllen

Hi true

How did it go? If youre up to answering that is - I hear that stuff can make one really ill.

E

Today was my last treatment... i go in the 24th to discuss the surgery date... they said no choice in matter... it didn't get me as bad as first time back in 2001. I was real sick from the treatments then...

They told me during this surgery.. they'll be scrapping the spine. The Neuropothy makes things a little harder to deal with .. but we'll get thru this.. they're keeping good spirits up on this.. which makes me do same... no ones looking at me all sad like... shaking their heads... so i'm feeling good about this too. I'll let ya know when they schedule the surgery.. I'll know by the 24th... thanks all.. hugsssssssssssssssss to you all...

Jessica

Edited to add....... ((((((((((((((((((((((((aurora)))))))))))))))))) keeping you in my thoughts... my prayers as well....

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RE: Chemo Starts Today.... ughhhhh - 10/17/2006 8:21:19 PM

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True - I hope you realize that many people have you in their thoughts and prayers (if not prayers, then healing thoughts). I hope you will remember to be kind to yourself and also do things to get in a good mental place -- meditation, visualization. Live Strong.

And ignore the negativity in this thread, please.

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RE: Chemo Starts Today.... ughhhhh - 10/17/2006 8:22:48 PM

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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

True - I hope you realize that many people have you in their thoughts and prayers (if not prayers, then healing thoughts). I hope you will remember to be kind to yourself and also do things to get in a good mental place -- meditation, visualization. Live Strong.

And ignore the negativity in this thread, please.

Ditto!

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RE: Chemo Starts Today.... ughhhhh - 10/17/2006 9:07:06 PM

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Thanks for the update, True. Stay true to yourself, and positive always. Keep us posted. We're routing for you.

(for old time's sake...)

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RE: Chemo Starts Today.... ughhhhh - 10/17/2006 9:21:23 PM

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true.. sorry you have to wait until the 24th to get schedule.. those little things like waiting can make ya crazy! Hope continued strength for you.. and as was mentioned before.. it's no cake walk, but things sure have changed in even two years.

:)

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RE: Chemo Starts Today.... ughhhhh - 10/17/2006 9:29:45 PM

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ORIGINAL: truesub4u
Today was my last treatment...

I'm so glad that this part of it is over for you! I was surprised to see your post, I guess I know very little about chemo. As you know my sister is battling breast cancer and undergoing chemo too. She just finished her last treatment but she has been on it for 6 months. I guess I didn't realize that there are different courses of chemo. I know from seeing what she has gone through that chemo is no picnic, I am really happy to know that you don't have to endure that part any longer.

I'm keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Keep up those good spirits!

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