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birthday ideas - 10/4/2006 2:34:48 PM   
nightrosemom


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Status: offline 		I was wondering, my Master's birthday is coming up this month and i was trying to figure out something lifestyle related to get him, i have a few ideas...but was hoping to get more.  So, what have you gotten your dom or Master for his birthday or christmas...or for the Doms that post on this forum...what would you have liked to get?

Thanks

His little angel
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RE: birthday ideas - 10/4/2006 2:42:36 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		I've gotten toys, registrations to big events, special trips.  And I've also just given normal gifts- CDs, books, tickets to concerts.  Whatever will make them happy and that gets USED- I hate getting just stuff that sits around.

I know some subs gift their dom with an extreme scene or a special scene they've been wanting to do for awhile, like finding another chick to fuck with him watching.

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RE: birthday ideas - 10/4/2006 2:44:49 PM   
mstrjx


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Status: offline 		Ah, the beauty of submission.

You get a spanking for your birthday.

You ALSO get a spanking for his.

Ain't life grand.

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RE: birthday ideas - 10/4/2006 2:55:17 PM   
zebrastripes


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ORIGINAL: nightrosemom

I was wondering, my Master's birthday is coming up this month and i was trying to figure out something lifestyle related to get him, i have a few ideas...but was hoping to get more.  So, what have you gotten your dom or Master for his birthday or christmas...or for the Doms that post on this forum...what would you have liked to get?

Thanks

His little angel


Get him something he will truly enjoy and don't think that means it has to be BDSM related.  Remember this is his birthday not yours.   The last gift I gave to a Dom for his birthday was a CD player for his car.  He needed one so it seemed the perfect gift.


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RE: birthday ideas - 10/4/2006 3:15:46 PM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		Well you could cook something for him  not exactly lifestyle but My Master has a sweetooth so for our 6 months together i made him brownies he enjoyed them.  I think the best thing is to get him something he likes even if it is not lifestlye related.  Or if it has to be lifestyle maybe you can get him a new toy he can use on you.

Matt's littleone

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RE: birthday ideas - 10/4/2006 3:23:38 PM   
nightrosemom


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Status: offline 		lol He is spoiled, he gets sweets all the time lol...it is my first birthday with him so i want it to be special. I found a link on here to a website that has a christmas paddle, and i looked at some of them and i think i might get him one for Christmas.  money is kind of tight right now, so my options are limited as far as toys go...plus we dont have a credit card or debit card yet so i cant order anything off line. He wants me to get my hood peirced quite badly so i was thinking about getting that done for Him, or giving Him a gift card type thing to a pericing shop and tell him he can do what ever he wants with it...Or, he likes working on his cars, so i thought i might get him somehting for his car, but i am clueless on cars, so i would have no clue on what to look for. lol i don tknow!! lol thanks for the ideas...more are welcome

*giggles*

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RE: birthday ideas - 10/4/2006 3:23:52 PM   
BitaTruble


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Status: offline 		I like to do things which are homemade. Himself had a birthday a few weeks ago and I made him a scrapbook. We are huge picture sluts and take stills of just about everything so I had a lot of material with which to work. I just selected a bunch of pictures of different scenes then made little miniature floggers, cuffs and stuff out of scraps of leather and card stock and made up 10 pages with little jokes, sayings and stuff around each picture. He really liked it and as I'm not very artsy-craftsy it was truly a labor of love. :)

I also made him a homemade chocolate cake ... he really liked that, too. :)

Celeste

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RE: birthday ideas - 10/4/2006 5:06:10 PM   
skalover


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Status: offline 		What is the most extreme act that you've always hated, been afraid of, or just refused to do that you could possibly allow for one birthday scene?

What about for 24 hours, your only limits are no permanent damage and nothing illegal? No guilt.

What about you let him film a scene?


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RE: birthday ideas - 10/4/2006 6:51:46 PM   
nightrosemom


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Status: offline 		I like those ideas...that i will have to think about.

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RE: birthday ideas - 10/4/2006 9:44:25 PM   
RedSavageSlave


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Status: offline 		On my first Masters first birthday we spent together, my roommate at the time was a professional photojournalist. He had a friend who was a professional make up artist and they agreed to help me do a photoshoot.. all I had to pay for was the film and development costs of the pics..

I was able to get a 13 x 10 portrait style picture of me posing with my collar that he gave me.. very classy and he loved it. If you would like to see the pic to get an idea of the style, just email me.. I would be happy to send it so you can see.



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RE: birthday ideas - 10/4/2006 9:52:35 PM   
MySweetSubmssive


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Status: offline 		For the first birthday I spent with my late husband, he said that he would fan me from the moment I woke up until the moment I went to sleep.  I thought he would give up after an hour or two, but he did it ALL day with a six foot long palm frond ... at home, at the store, and at the Renaissance festival we went to.  Finally, that night, I requested him to stop.  It was the least expensive and most decadent gift I've ever received.  I adore attention, cossetting and kowtowing, and I got it in abundance!

MSS

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RE: birthday ideas - 10/4/2006 10:05:42 PM   
behindmirrors


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Status: offline 		I got my Dom a couple music video DVDs he had been talking about for weeks on end, and woke him up with oral sex. He said it was a very good birthday.

behindmirrors.

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RE: birthday ideas - 10/4/2006 10:24:53 PM   
spanklette


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Status: offline 		For my Daddy's birthday, we were a little strapped for money...so I could only afford a new riding crop, not all of the elaborate gifts I wanted to give Him.
 
To drag the whole thing out, I sent Him on a scavenger hunt through the house. All of my notes would clue Him on to another hidden clue taped to one of His favorite toys I had hidden. I also taped pennies with the year He was born on all of the clues. It turned out to be a great time.

Of course, I'm not sure if He was more excited about the riding crop or the fact that the hunt was over. Either way, we had a good time testing it out. 

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RE: birthday ideas - 10/5/2006 3:51:13 AM   
sweetsubie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

I like to do things which are homemade. Himself had a birthday a few weeks ago and I made him a scrapbook. We are huge picture sluts and take stills of just about everything so I had a lot of material with which to work. I just selected a bunch of pictures of different scenes then made little miniature floggers, cuffs and stuff out of scraps of leather and card stock and made up 10 pages with little jokes, sayings and stuff around each picture. He really liked it and as I'm not very artsy-craftsy it was truly a labor of love. :)

I also made him a homemade chocolate cake ... he really liked that, too. :)

Celeste


Thats such a sweet idea Celeste! i got my Master an abba cd lol

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RE: birthday ideas - 10/5/2006 7:50:54 AM   
sweetsubie


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Status: offline 		its my Birthday next week so im giving my birthday to Master, im going to take him out and treat him all night and give him cards and presents, i cant believe i didnt think of this sooner!! i hope he likes my idea.
sorry that doesnt really give you many suggestions

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RE: birthday ideas - 10/5/2006 2:38:42 PM   
Saint


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Status: offline 		The Master of the House I am apprenticed to had a birthday recently. I ended up coordinating with the other students in order to purchase him a 50 dollar steak branding iron with his house initials on it from Williams Sonoma. I then purchased a piece of maple wood and stained it for use as a backdrop. LOL He definately enjoyed the uniqueness of it!

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RE: birthday ideas - 10/5/2006 8:52:24 PM   
proudsub


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Status: offline 		Things i've done:
A gift certificate to our local adult store
Bondage videos
Coupon book of sex related acts from the adult store, or you can make your own
Whip cream, chocolate sauce and cherries (these were put to good use)

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RE: birthday ideas - 10/6/2006 7:10:16 AM   
jimbo747


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RE: birthday ideas - 10/6/2006 11:14:17 AM   
nightrosemom


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Status: offline 		I think i am going to put  many of the ideas together.  I have been thinking long and hard about it (my job is very boring so i have lots of time to think) I think what i will do is make one of his favorite dishes, pepercaush (not sure how to spell it) have his sister watch our daughter, buy some candles and place them throughout the house, and living room, have two dinner candles on the table, have it set with the food out and everything.  and have a note on the door for when he gets home from work ( i dont work that day so it helps in preperation) that says he cant come in, and tell him to go somewhere, (i am thinking his mom's) and the door will be locked so he cant get in (i am going to steal the key the night before after he goes to bed) and then i will have another card or note for  him at his moms, telling him what time he has to be at the house, i will be kneeling at the door, collared, and dressed for him when he walks in, the table will be set and candles will be burning...

i think i am also going to get him a flogger, i am not sure yet though, he has been wanting one for quite some time.  or I might give him the money to buy the peircing he wants me to have. haven't quite figured it out...*smiles*

let me know what you think

thanks for all of the ideas...if there is anything you think would be good to add to what i have so far, let me know

His little angel

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RE: birthday ideas - 10/6/2006 11:17:01 AM   
michaelGA2


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Status: offline 		my birthday is in 10 days and it will probably be another vanilla year. i wish i could move to a larger city. there are very few Mistresses here where i live, so the chance of getting a none-vanilla b-day spanking is nil

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