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MasterWildnHard -> RE: Drawing Out Submissiveness (10/6/2006 4:59:03 PM)

I have found in my experience that a look and a whisper can cause a sub to respond more effectively than any physical or loud voice could ever accomplish. 




kyraofMists -> RE: Drawing Out Submissiveness (10/6/2006 5:49:45 PM)

In order to understand my answer, I think I have to explain what I see as submission.  For me, it is simply about obedience or yeilding to the will and authority of another. 

What inspires me to obey another?  Certain demonstrated character strengths will earn my obedience.  Some of the most important to me are integrity, honor, open-mindedness, critical thinking, courage and love.  When someone actively demonstrates these traits, I will be inspired to obey them.  These days there is only one person in my life who has earned my obedience.  Now, whenever I am obedient to anyone it is because that is what he expects of me.

Knight's kyra 




babysburnin -> RE: Drawing Out Submissiveness (10/6/2006 9:28:06 PM)

I am much more submissive when it is not demanded of me, when I feel I am being treated well.  I am "naturally" submissive in this case.  I will submit to my Dom, to make Him happy ... both scenarios are good for us.  I like the first best, he likes both, needs the second.




juliaoceania -> RE: Drawing Out Submissiveness (10/6/2006 9:30:43 PM)

Welcome back! I have missed your posts!




babysburnin -> RE: Drawing Out Submissiveness (10/6/2006 9:33:04 PM)

Hugs - thanks!




SweetSarijane -> RE: Drawing Out Submissiveness (10/7/2006 9:38:46 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: babysburnin

I am much more submissive when it is not demanded of me, when I feel I am being treated well.  I am "naturally" submissive in this case.  I will submit to my Dom, to make Him happy ...



That's how it is for me. You put it better than I could. [:)]




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