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victortheo22 -> Newbie - do professional dommes enjoy mild session (1/20/2005 9:49:18 PM)

Hi, am a total newbie in minnepaolis- zero experience in BDSM - main fantasy is around spanking bondage and humiliation through use of a strap on - however am also an anal virgin - and straight - now a strap on session might be very painful if the strapon is anything more than a little wide -at least initially

Would a professional domme be interested in hosting such mild session or no ?

Eager and curious



MadameDahlia -> RE: Newbie - do professional dommes enjoy mild session (1/20/2005 10:12:56 PM)

That probably varies from ProDom to ProDom.

Some might have a sadistic streak and be quite partial to heavy scenes where a lot of pain is involved.

Some might enjoy the lighter sides of BDSM and are thus partial to clothespins instead of needle or fire play.

I guess you'd just have to hunt around for the type of ProDom interested in the sort of things you fancy.



SwitchNCgal -> RE: Newbie - do professional dommes enjoy mild session (1/20/2005 10:31:35 PM)

would Strap-on play be considered prostitutiion?



MadameDahlia -> RE: Newbie - do professional dommes enjoy mild session (1/20/2005 10:43:08 PM)

That depends on the laws in your area I believe.

It does involve penetration of an orifice so if one pays for that sort of thing in a scene it may be a criminal offense. I believe there was mention of a ProDom's dungeon raided in Canada not too long ago.




ProtagonistLily -> RE: Newbie - do professional dommes enjoy mild session (1/21/2005 6:32:45 AM)

quote:

would Strap-on play be considered prostitutiion?


Not in New York I don't believe, but then again, Strap On play doesn't necessarily imply penetration.



ProtagonistLily -> RE: Newbie - do professional dommes enjoy mild session (1/21/2005 6:37:58 AM)

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Would a professional domme be interested in hosting such mild session or no ?


Honestly, I don't know that many Pros (1 real life) and I'd think if you were paying for a session, you, as the consumer, would have some say in what you got.

However, there are some fine BDSM organizations in Minnesota that you may find what you are looking for in, rather than going the Pro route.
http://www.domsubfriends.com/cgi-local/wwwdir/db.cgi?db=org&uid=default&state=MINNESOTA&view_records=View+Records&ww=on

Good luck.

Lily



GoddessJules -> RE: Newbie - do professional dommes enjoy mild session (1/21/2005 6:45:13 AM)

A pro session in my opinion is a good way to get your feet wet *provided* you find a good, reputable prodom. Lily is exactly right, you will get what you pay for. In a business, it is easier to work with an existing repeat customer/client bases than to have to continuously look for new ones. There for in the end, it goal is to leave the client satisfied and wanting to come back again.

I'm not aware of the law surrounding if it is prostitution or not, but I do know that in every pro dungeon I've been in, I have seen anal play toys.

J



victortheo22 -> RE: Newbie - do professional dommes enjoy mild session (1/21/2005 11:26:19 PM)

Thanks everyone your suggestions are really useful !

Would anyone have any personal reccomendations on the pro Dommes in Minneapolis and surrounding areas




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