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CBT - 10/7/2006 1:11:57 PM

rreddog

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I never see much chat anywhere specifically on CBT. It makes me wonder if this particular enjoyment is peculiar or not. Do many people engage in the focus on balls alone as a means of control? Such as being tied helpless while the balls are worked over with rulers, belts, books, etc, etc, for a long period of time while instructing the poor soul of the oral he will be providing when the relentless assualt is spelled. The only relief granted is for oral satisifaction, but only after the balls have been sorely tested. This type of activity. Is is fairly common or is it individualized?

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RE: CBT - 10/7/2006 1:17:14 PM

BitaTruble

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Judging by the emails I get, I'd estimate that 90 out of every 100 males (who don't identify as dominant) on this site have the same or a similar fantasy they use to fuel their wanking. Whatever floats your boat.

Celeste

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"Oh, so it's just like
Rock, paper, scissors."

He laughed. "You are the wisest woman I know."

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RE: CBT - 10/7/2006 1:33:50 PM

DoctorDubious

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Greetings all funseekers (sore balls or not) ....

I used to get the biggest kick
outta attendin' psychologist conferences
(I called em sick-ologist conventions)
back in the '80s and '90s
when Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) was all the rage.

Amused me no end to
stroke my chin and muse agreeably
when my therapist colleagues raved about the effectiveness of CBT.

A small pleasure perhaps,
but damn I enjoyed telling some tight-ass moralistic prude that
"trying a little CBT for yourself' would be a great thing ...

DD

PS... saw the LA opening of Shortbus last night.
It showed real-sex, real-love, and real-kink as funny, human,
exciting, silly, orgasmic, frustrating, flawed, pointless, redeeming, exciting, boring ... all at the same time.

It also features the clueless floggings of a pro-domme
who clearly knew dick-all about how to whup on her boyz.

I liked it a lot.

So did Manohla Dargis of the NYT.

To quote "As utopian visions go, it doesn't get much better
than Shortbus, a film in which all you need is love --
and sex, lots and of mutually, sometimes collectively,
pleasurable sex....."
http://movies2.nytimes.com/2006/10/04/movies/04shor.html?ref=movies

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