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my balls hurt - 10/8/2006 2:12:02 AM   
underlimited


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Status: offline 		Hi there,
A question for subs/slaves like me. i am starting a training with a Dominant Mistress.
It seems Her favourite play is to tease me and deny me cumming (for days). The only
problem is that after i get really hard and get ready to ejaculate (and i don't), then
my balls hurt (until i cum). i had similar problem in past, but after cumming, they no longer hurt.
So i am guessing too much cum in them make them hurt!?
Is this something that's normal or should i consult a doctor?

To make my point clearer. If i jerk off and/or have sex, my balls don't hurt. But if i do it FOR A LONG
time without cumming, then this pain develops in my balls which doesn't go away UNTIL i cum.

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RE: my balls hurt - 10/8/2006 4:04:54 AM   
Aileen68


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Status: offline 		Blue Balls.

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RE: my balls hurt - 10/8/2006 4:17:42 AM   
Nikolette


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Status: offline 		Well first of all....

ha ha ha hahaha haha


okay .. now that my sadisic laughter has subsided... *snorts* sub.. sided... ooh my.. nm.

okay for REAL now...

Yes Blue Balls. I'm a little startled you haven't heard of them before but *shrugs* whatever. Just from a sloppy Google search of "are blue balls dangerous" I got this:

http://magazines.ivillage.com/cosmopolitan/experts/carnal/qas/0,,638355_590357,00.html

Which indicated that they aren't dangerous.

I'd say any discomfort that lasts say several hours to over night is probably unsafe though- depending. Or if its really intense pain for that matter, also not safe, probably. However I'm not a doctor, and I don't have balls.

I think you should just... you know... inquire with your own doctor about it if its stressing you out.


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RE: my balls hurt - 10/8/2006 4:49:57 AM   
MistressMaamNH


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Status: offline 		Baby batter backup ain't gonna kill ya.

Just think of enduring the discomfort as a tribute to your Mistress' pleasure.
(Pain is just weakness leaving the body)

If you are truly concerned about long-term damage to the prostate....respectfully suggest/request that your Mistress practice the art of 'milking' you.....fun for all involved :)

MMNH


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RE: my balls hurt - 10/8/2006 5:22:50 AM   
gypsylee


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ORIGINAL: Nikolette

Well first of all....

ha ha ha hahaha haha


okay .. now that my sadisic laughter has subsided... *snorts* sub.. sided... ooh my.. nm.


  yeah. i was thinking the other day how male subs probably have it worse in the frustration dept. than us girls. muahahahaa.

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RE: my balls hurt - 10/8/2006 6:16:47 AM   
Iskander


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Status: offline 		Regardless, go see a doctor. A friend had sore balls every now and then, he ignored it till the pain made him double up in agony... Went to the docs and lost half a ball to testicular cancer..

I've practiced orgasm withholding for a few weeks at a time in the past, it got uncomfortable like an itch ya can't scratch, but it never hurt...

Remember, no-one here is qualified or able to give you acurate medical advice..

Iskander..


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RE: my balls hurt - 10/8/2006 11:43:13 AM   
underlimited


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Status: offline 		Yup it sounds like blue balls for sure.

i've never really looked around to find about it. i guess i never really had to worry about 'not being allowed to cum'....... as for pain, yes it can get reaaally bad if i keep hard for about 6 hours without cumming.


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RE: my balls hurt - 10/8/2006 12:03:55 PM   
pinkee


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Status: offline 		Maybe *i* have not been observant enough, but as far as *i* know, balls do not actually turn the color blue.  Some do seem darker if i only let Him go to 2nd or 3rd base, but *i* have never seen the color blue.
 
So, Gentlemen, can Y/you enlighten me?  Do balls actually turn blue?  <incurably nosey, lol.>
 
pinkee

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RE: my balls hurt - 10/8/2006 8:06:36 PM   
AquaticSub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: underlimited

Yup it sounds like blue balls for sure.

i've never really looked around to find about it. i guess i never really had to worry about 'not being allowed to cum'....... as for pain, yes it can get reaaally bad if i keep hard for about 6 hours without cumming.



Be careful with that. Having an erection straight for more then 4 hours (like the Vigra commericals talk about) can be dangerous. The blood clots or something (I don't remember perfectly what) and fucks up the tissues. What basically happens is that you never get a hard on again.

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RE: my balls hurt - 10/11/2006 4:44:55 PM   
talltxsub


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Status: offline 		Yes, they actually can get blue.  It's from the engorgement of the blood supply.

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RE: my balls hurt - 10/11/2006 7:37:12 PM   
LTRsubNW


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quote:

ORIGINAL: underlimited

Hi there,
A question for subs/slaves like me. i am starting a training with a Dominant Mistress.
It seems Her favourite play is to tease me and deny me cumming (for days). The only
problem is that after i get really hard and get ready to ejaculate (and i don't), then
my balls hurt (until i cum). i had similar problem in past, but after cumming, they no longer hurt.
So i am guessing too much cum in them make them hurt!?
Is this something that's normal or should i consult a doctor?

To make my point clearer. If i jerk off and/or have sex, my balls don't hurt. But if i do it FOR A LONG
time without cumming, then this pain develops in my balls which doesn't go away UNTIL i cum.




(This is like...news?)

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RE: my balls hurt - 10/11/2006 7:44:49 PM   
LASub4Real


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ORIGINAL: pinkee

Maybe *i* have not been observant enough, but as far as *i* know, balls do not actually turn the color blue.  Some do seem darker if i only let Him go to 2nd or 3rd base, but *i* have never seen the color blue.
 
So, Gentlemen, can Y/you enlighten me?  Do balls actually turn blue?  <incurably nosey, lol.>
 
pinkee


They can appear slightly blue in caucasians due to their light skin color and a slow deoxygenation of the blood that has built up in the scrotum. But they'll never turn bright blue... unless they've been painted.

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RE: my balls hurt - 10/11/2006 10:31:25 PM   
HarryVanWinkle


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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub
Be careful with that. Having an erection straight for more then 4 hours (like the Vigra commericals talk about) can be dangerous. The blood clots or something (I don't remember perfectly what) and fucks up the tissues. What basically happens is that you never get a hard on again.


Actually, the physical danger from having an erection for too long is brain damage.  This is caused by hypoxia due to too little blood getting to the brain.  As God said to Adam, "I've got good news and bad news.  The good news is that I've given you both a brain and a penis.  The bad news is that I've only given you enough blood to use one of them at a time." 

< Message edited by HarryVanWinkle -- 10/11/2006 10:32:27 PM >

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RE: my balls hurt - 10/11/2006 10:52:17 PM   
joyinslavery


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Status: offline 		Testicular cancer???

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RE: my balls hurt - 10/11/2006 10:52:50 PM   
MsKatHouston


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quote:

Well first of all....

ha ha ha hahaha haha


okay .. now that my sadisic laughter has subsided... *snorts* sub.. sided... ooh my.. nm.


I'm glad I'm not the only one who got a bit of sadistic pleasure in that. 

Seriously it is doubtful there is anything significant but we're not doctors here.  If you are concerned, call up your physician and ask. 

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RE: my balls hurt - 10/11/2006 11:29:48 PM   
cynthiamarie


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From: Bluefield, WV, USA
Status: offline 		I'm sorry, I shouldn't be laughing so hard over this since you're in pain...*goes off into gales of giggles again*

I vote with the prostate milking.  It will take away the pain but you'll still be going mad with horniness.

Ty for bringing this intense moment of clarity...now I know where that LOOK springs from when I've tormented someone for hours, didn't milk their prostate, and didn't let them cum.   Nobody told me how much they HURT... *wide evil grin and fans herself*  This sounds as bad as when my G-spot swells up, after I've had a dozen or more orgasms and I can't...take care of that.  I get pain and problems peeing for 3 days afterward.  See?  It's not just men who get "blue balls". 

 I don't know why, but this made my day.   



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RE: my balls hurt - 10/12/2006 12:34:23 AM   
TomNE


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ORIGINAL: cynthiamarie

I'm sorry, I shouldn't be laughing so hard over this since you're in pain...*goes off into gales of giggles again*

I vote with the prostate milking.  It will take away the pain but you'll still be going mad with horniness.

Ty for bringing this intense moment of clarity...now I know where that LOOK springs from when I've tormented someone for hours, didn't milk their prostate, and didn't let them cum.   Nobody told me how much they HURT... *wide evil grin and fans herself*  This sounds as bad as when my G-spot swells up, after I've had a dozen or more orgasms and I can't...take care of that.  I get pain and problems peeing for 3 days afterward.  See?  It's not just men who get "blue balls". 

 I don't know why, but this made my day.   





This doesn't really sound like blue balls, more like "over sexed" *grins*

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RE: my balls hurt - 10/12/2006 1:04:31 AM   
Bluebird


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From: Las Vegas
Status: offline 		To the OP - I am sorry that your pain makes me smile - no really, I am!  But the thought of you bound to a post wearing nothing but your cowboy hat, ropes, and a boner with a sorrowful look on your face - well, that DOES make me smile!  (and then the 6 hours comment ... ok, off to dreamland for tonight!)
 

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RE: my balls hurt - 10/12/2006 5:57:09 AM   
jimbo747


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RE: my balls hurt - 10/15/2006 6:02:48 PM   
LTRsubNW


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quote:

ORIGINAL: underlimited

Hi there,
A question for subs/slaves like me. i am starting a training with a Dominant Mistress.
It seems Her favourite play is to tease me and deny me cumming (for days). The only
problem is that after i get really hard and get ready to ejaculate (and i don't), then
my balls hurt (until i cum). i had similar problem in past, but after cumming, they no longer hurt.
So i am guessing too much cum in them make them hurt!?
Is this something that's normal or should i consult a doctor?

To make my point clearer. If i jerk off and/or have sex, my balls don't hurt. But if i do it FOR A LONG
time without cumming, then this pain develops in my balls which doesn't go away UNTIL i cum.


Lemme see if I understand this question:

If you don't cum (for multiple weeks) it hurts.

If you cum, shortly after...it doesn't hurt.

(Am I fairly close on this?)

Uhmmmm...Tim...you're a guy.  (That's the way it's supposed to work).

Call me if you have any further questions.

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