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Scat play - 10/8/2006 4:09:22 AM   
Chainman69


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Ive been visiting a female dom for about 6 months. I have always had this fantasy of being pooed on and made to eat. Recently we have tried this.

Last week she shit in a dogbowl and ask me to put it in my mouth, but i got close to it, licked it a bit but couldnt do it. Yet the next day i was fantasising about eating her shit and it turned me on so much.

Has anyone had this situation where a fantasy turns you on so much and you realy want to do it, yet at the moment it can happen its difficult.
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RE: Scat play - 10/8/2006 4:45:21 AM   
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can i dodge your actual question and ask what turns you on about the idea of eating poo?

(no i haven't been in that situation ie. faced with a fantasy and backing out... not that i can think of anyway...)

i'm genuinely interested though.   feel free to email me if you'd rather not go into it here. 

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RE: Scat play - 10/8/2006 4:58:55 AM   
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(I won't get into the whole matter of safety and precautions/risks. Nor, I hope, do people make any judements regarding this activity-to each their own remember)
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Has anyone had this situation where a fantasy turns you on so much and you realy want to do it, yet at the moment it can happen its difficult.

There are many situations that can come up, where something that has been fantasized about extensively, can be difficult to actually live out.  There are also some fantasies, that truly are better left as fantasies, and NOT attempted.   That doesn't mean they cannot be talked about/threatened/simulated etc. 

Remember, the most powerful sexual organ you have is your mind.

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RE: Scat play - 10/8/2006 5:01:53 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Chainman69

Ive been visiting a female dom for about 6 months. I have always had this fantasy of being pooed on and made to eat. Recently we have tried this.

Last week she shit in a dogbowl and ask me to put it in my mouth, but i got close to it, licked it a bit but couldnt do it. Yet the next day i was fantasising about eating her shit and it turned me on so much.

Has anyone had this situation where a fantasy turns you on so much and you realy want to do it, yet at the moment it can happen its difficult.


I don't think this is unusual. I have a fantasy about being locked and chained up in a cellar or dungeon. Master suggested the other day that we could try something like that. As he has just taken over a new business unit that is empty and dark and dingy he thought that would be a great place to try as he would be in the unit next door and able to watch over me. Great I thought until I went down there with him for some other reason and realised that there was no way I could sit there with all the spiders and bugs that are around the place. So fantasy = fantastic fun. Reality = no way but I can still dream about it (unless Master feels evil enough to disregard my spider fears LOL)

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RE: Scat play - 10/8/2006 5:48:16 AM   
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When fantasy and reality collide, we often don't get what we expect. Sometimes it's better, sometimes not, usually it's surprising in some way.

Whatever you choose to do, please remember basic health concerns. Take care.

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RE: Scat play - 10/8/2006 5:52:26 AM   
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Like Susie, I think that it's probobly not uncommon - some fantasies work better as fantasies - symbolically, it perhaps reflects a desire to be humiliated perhaps, or some unresolved childhood conflict - children are fascinated with stool, poop and fart jokes are a staple of childhood humor.

Your fascination might have something to do with where it comes form rather than the substance itself - try having her have a BM on your chest or something, ala, "Not Another Teen Movie" (that cracks me up, toilet humor again), and do clean up: e coli bacteria can make you very ill.

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RE: Scat play - 10/8/2006 6:03:34 AM   
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Its hard to explain why im into scat.
I supose in short,i feel that if a Domme uses me as her Toilet,in my mind she is telling me this is all im good for and im agreeing.

Obviously when i had tasted scat for the first time,it was alot different to the fantasy and couldnt believe i was actually eating a mistresses scat.
I didnt think it was very nice,and did feel abit disgusted with myself when i got home and thought about what ide done.
But years later i feel much different about it,now i have no problem with the taste,and have stronger interest in scat than before.
Obviously it does matter who the Domme is,if i feel no attraction towards them,then Scat just becomes Shit.
If i feel some attraction towards the Domme,just as a guy would be attracted in a way that he might want to have sex with this women,i feel the same way about wanting to eat her scat.
Sory but that is me.

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RE: Scat play - 10/8/2006 6:18:33 AM   
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There are some things in life that are meant to be Just a Fantasy.  You can imagine all you want, but many learn the truth about not liking it once they taste the real thing.

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RE: Scat play - 10/8/2006 8:13:56 AM   
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i personally see it as a control thing.   Giving power to Another and obeying the command is the root of the fantasy not the actual act itself.  There is also some eroticizm in what is taboo---Daddy/daughter for example.   Incest in our culture is a big taboo and how many really want to be intimate with their biological father however the Daddy/daughter role play is one that is practiced by quite a few in the lifestyle.   These are just my thoughts and it is not my intent to slam anyone.

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RE: Scat play - 10/8/2006 9:11:00 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Squeakers

i personally see it as a control thing.   Giving power to Another and obeying the command is the root of the fantasy not the actual act itself.  There is also some eroticizm in what is taboo---Daddy/daughter for example.   Incest in our culture is a big taboo and how many really want to be intimate with their biological father however the Daddy/daughter role play is one that is practiced by quite a few in the lifestyle.   These are just my thoughts and it is not my intent to slam anyone.


Daddy/daughter role play is VERY rarely an expression of a desire to enact an incest fantasy- I'd wager less than 5%.

Of those in the scene who DO have incest fantasies, almost always what they try to do is seek ACTUAL biological partners in the scene- mothers/daughters, sisters and the like.  A daddy/daughter relationship as referred to in the scene almost never has an incestual component to it.

That being said, plenty of fantasies can be difficult to be enacted in real life and plenty should never be (like my breeding fantasies).

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RE: Scat play - 10/8/2006 9:26:51 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

That being said, plenty of fantasies can be difficult to be enacted in real life and plenty should never be (like my breeding fantasies).


Well, there's always religion. I knew one woman who was torn between being a sex toy, and churning out fundie babies, lol.

I think she eventually went into management.

In truth, the breeding fantasy is one that deserve some attention - having kids is part of life, I'm a single father and there is a dearth of discussion relating to how to reconcile family life with lifestyle - the posting restriction may have something to do with that, but for the record I personally am of the opinion that they need to make the choice that are right for them, when the time comes, and I'm leery of exposing them to any strong influences until they're old enough to assimilate it.

How you go about making them is another subject entirely - I've had a vasectomy, so if a sub/partner of mine wanted children, I'd have to figure something out. Hafta be a PM/IM discussion, I suppose.

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RE: Scat play - 10/8/2006 9:30:34 AM   
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This post may also skirt the line w/respect to posting restictions, but I've changed so many damn diapers that anything to do with scat or diapers is just something I'd rather pass on, thank you, it has no erotic connotations for me whatsoever.

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RE: Scat play - 10/8/2006 9:35:24 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Amaros

This post may also skirt the line w/respect to posting restictions, but I've changed so many damn diapers that anything to do with scat or diapers is just something I'd rather pass on, thank you, it has no erotic connotations for me whatsoever.



Agrees with you 100%.

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RE: Scat play - 10/8/2006 9:35:35 AM   
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I habve to admit I'm the same, worked in care for a long time so for me anything to do with cleaning up human waste I look on in a purely professional sense, could never imagin it being sexual.
In regards to fantasys, I have some that i have done, some that i would never do (those are the kind that are far better remaining in the world of fantasy as I have some rather extreme ideas sometimes) - I've not yet come up against one that I long for and want to do then not been able too however I am sure at some point it will happen.

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RE: Scat play - 10/8/2006 9:47:59 AM   
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having tried both scat and pee in a limited setting....it has me curious for a more substantial experience also.
i agree you need to have some feeling for your domme or it wouldn't be the same thing.
to me its and act of showing feeling....in the offering to receive and giving...not the humiliation part of it.
would like to find a partner to share it with,

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RE: Scat play - 10/8/2006 9:59:44 AM   
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I think what I was getting at, is that perhaps you want to "eat shit" in a metaphorical sense, i.e., objectified, reduced to a receptacle - a woman cannot "penetrate" you, or inject you with her reproductive essence in quite the same sense as a man can - perhaps you should learn to get her to gush when she orgasms and consume that substance - I think you need her to "feed you", in some sense, it may even have to do with being forced to eat your vegatables as a child, that somehow got mixed up with potty training, who knows?

Otherwise, you may be making Skinners mistake, and focusing on the end result rather than the process: i.e., Skinner made much of the rat pushing the button, but failed to note the rats exploratory behavior before pushing the button, sniffing around, mapping the cage, etc., which is a significant aspect of the entire process, more significant is some ways, than actually pushing the button.

Operant conditioning is based on a stimulus/reward pattern, in this case, the reward is not as rewarding as you thought it might be - time to experiment: "sniff around", if you don't mind the pun, and see if you can identify a reward that displaces the current fantasy, and yet satifies the need.

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RE: Scat play - 10/8/2006 11:50:20 AM   
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Has anyone had this situation where a fantasy turns you on so much and you realy want to do it, yet at the moment it can happen its difficult.

Yes, this has happened quite a bit with various fantasies.  But then part of my dynamic with Master is in doing things that are intensely difficult.  For some of the more difficult tasks, he prepares me be introducing it to in conversation (or as a threat), and this gives me time to think about it and process my thoughts on it. I will typically be assigned a visualization exercise, in which I must mentally and emotionally (to the best of my ability) put myself in that situation, and write about it in detail - every little detail that happened, and how it made me feel to imagine it like that.  I always succeed at performing the task in these visualizations.  In doing so, I am creating a mindset that is free of fear, and full of eagerness to succeed.  And I am able to contemplate as many thoughts as I can about the task, without actually having done it yet.

As for your situation, maybe it would be easier if it was fed to you, putting you in a passive mode, as opposed to being active about it and feeding yourself.

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RE: Scat play - 4/24/2008 1:30:44 PM   
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the same thing happened to me.i couldn t swallow it.but then i kept thinking about it...i d love to try again. do you know mistresses in london who do this?

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RE: Scat play - 4/24/2008 1:34:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: littleveniceworm

the same thing happened to me.i couldn t swallow it.but then i kept thinking about it...i d love to try again. do you know mistresses in london who do this?


You pulled up a two year old topic just to troll for a scat pro?

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RE: Scat play - 4/24/2008 1:44:34 PM   
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I think that in fantasy the poo doesn't stink, the dungeon isn't cold and clammy (or have spiders) we can be imobile for extended periods without having the need to itch our nose or our legs cramp up or we can be chained in bed overnight without having to pee or shift possitions.

Reality really takes the glamour out of those fantasies, doesn't it.

Ooops should have looked at the date before responding, ah well.

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