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Technique???? - 1/21/2005 12:11:22 PM

sub4hire

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To change the pace a bit here on the board's and to get back to what everybody loves. Play.
While we all don't get to play as much as we would like. I think we are all in agreement we all like to play.

So, for the first topic I'd like to ask all of the Dominants here about spanking.

What are your techniques? How long is your warm up if you do a warm up?
Do you avoid any area's? Favorite implement. Things like that.

Now, I had a Dom do a demo on me on spanking at a play party several year's ago. This coming from a person who actually hates being spanked. I loved it. So, I asked Doug if he would have apprehension to learning from the other. Of course he did not. So, he trained Doug how to spank like him.

Everyone does it different. It will be nice to hear all the different variations.

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RE: Technique???? - 1/21/2005 3:25:55 PM

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For the most part, I like to spank with my bare hand. There is nothing like skin on skin contact. I also have a nice heavy leather paddle that makes a great smacking sound and leaves nice marks that I enjoy using too. My slave swears she hates the paddle, but her body says something different.

My slave doesn't need much warmup, but it helps my hand if I warm up a bit.

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RE: Technique???? - 1/21/2005 6:02:21 PM

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We weork different shifts so I am usually in bed before he gets home. Usually all it takes is him pulling the covers back, snuggling next to me and saying "Daddy's home"
I'm ready to go after that

Sorry, I just realized that this is the Ask a Master section. I didn't even pay attention, I apologize.

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RE: Technique???? - 1/21/2005 10:30:37 PM

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quote:

Ask a Master section. I didn't even pay attention, I apologize.

Like it matters?

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RE: Technique???? - 1/22/2005 5:53:16 AM

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My favorite position for a spanking is for her to be across my lap, at a diagonal, over one thigh. This way my right arm can wrap around her waist, or pin her hands, and my left leg can hold her legs in place. I am right handed, but most often spank lefty for some reason.

I don’t have a set technique, but I’ll usually start with some caressing, holding her cheeks, squeezing slightly, rubbing, just a bit. Not for too long, just to give her time to settle in. I’d think my most common opening is two swift strikes- one to each cheek, right in the ‘sweet spot’, hard enough to sting, sort of grazing, lifting each cheek. Then my hand goes to the small of her back, holding her there while the sting fades to burn.

I’ll begin again, lighter now, still with a bit of a brushing stroke, starting out at the flanks, across the peaks, working from one side to the other, rather than left, right, left, right. The cadence picks up as I do this, till I am at a steady rapid pace, and I work in to the sweet spot again, going a bit lighter, and settle into a rhythm.

When she is really feeling it I will drop a few harder, slower paced right into the sweet spot, until her body really torques up- then I stop and settle her in again.

Sometimes it stops there- sometimes it doesn’t…

Spanking is a funny thing for me. I'll flog, whip, clip, twist, bind, beat or wax just about anyone. Spankings are different, more intimate, closer.

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RE: Technique???? - 1/22/2005 7:51:47 AM

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Thank you Estring and Topcat for your answers.

The spanking that I had asked the Dom to teach Doug.
Was something like. A rubbing with his hand first. Doug had a habit of hitting with the part of your hand right behind your knuckles. Damn that hurts bad.
Anyway, Michael curved his hand a bit. Not a full cup but slightly cupped. Made the same noise. Something about the way his hand was cupped though. It didn't hurt quite as much. That is until it was over and your whole ass was beet red and on fire.

For me it is a nice sneakier way to get a spanking. Hehe.

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RE: Technique???? - 1/22/2005 3:15:25 PM

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It all depends on who, when, and why.
I enjoy useing my hand, my belt, and my switch which is made out of a graphite golf shaft. But whips, chains, paddles, and cains are still at my side.
It's all in the moment for me. If it a session or scene I perfer doing warm ups with my wire tassels, hand, belt, then my heavy vynal flogger.
If I'm spanking because of a displeasment or a punishment, I'll just use my switch, belt, or hand depending on where we are.
Having them bondage is great. But I really enjoy it when I have them slightly bend down and hold on to a bar. I tell them to not move and they take it.
On a nicely burning red ass I end the session with a topping of cold lemmon/lime juice.

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RE: Technique???? - 1/22/2005 4:22:47 PM

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quote:

my switch which is made out of a graphite golf shaft.

OMG we have one of those that Hubby uses to line up with when practicing at the driving range, never thought to have Him use it as a switch, hmmmmmm.

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