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i have been in search of the Holy Grail - 10/8/2006 12:04:32 PM

heirpi

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i was collared for almost 8 years and the path of freedom has been treacherous...vanilla just isn't working (it is almost painful). i am having trouble meeting a Mistress who is interested in collaring...it seems to be all about $ and not obedience, loyalty and devotion. Any suggestions for someone in the Pasadena/LA area/
Humbly in Search of the Holy Grail,
heirpi

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RE: i have been in search of the Holy Grail - 10/8/2006 12:46:32 PM

BlkTallFullfig

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You're going to be even harder to find by mistresses interested in collaring a submissive/slave since you are listed as a switch... There obviously isn't anything wrong with that, but many women have search parameters set for sub/slave. You will obviously need to go through the work of finding women you think are worthy, writing to them presenting yourself for considerationl.
Good luck, and welcome to the boards as this is a good way to be seen by Fem Doms. M

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RE: i have been in search of the Holy Grail - 10/8/2006 1:20:36 PM

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Your area has a huge real time community. Get out and meet people real time...get involved in the groups...serve the community. I'm sure in the process, you will catch someone's eye.

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RE: i have been in search of the Holy Grail - 10/8/2006 6:33:03 PM

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NETWORK!!! Get out from behind the computer and join your local groups. Thought networking here can be a good thing as well. The more you are seen either way is always a good thing. Changing your profile from 'switch' would be good as well, unless you are sure you wish to or are able to switch. It takes a special person to play the fense and do it well.

Good luck to you.

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