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Ladies: what is it about submissive men which you love? - 10/8/2006 2:17:45 PM   
undergroundsea


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Ladies: what is about submissive men which you love? If there was one peace of advice you could give to a man wishing to be a submissive in the relationship, what would it be?

Cheers,

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RE: Ladies: what is it about submissive men which you l... - 10/8/2006 2:29:36 PM   
Jasmyn


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Status: offline 		I tend not to think of men in terms of 'submissive' though it's nice to know if this is his trip we could be a match made in heaven ... but what I do enjoy is the male submitting ...and how much they can and will give of themselves .. when you get into their heads and he's so wired and intune with you... begging, wanting, desperate to please you, humble and in awe, pleading, devotion and surrendering..his vunerability.

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RE: Ladies: what is it about submissive men which you l... - 10/8/2006 2:36:37 PM   
MistressDolly


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Status: offline 		I like and respect men who are submissive becuz they are  strong and intelligent.  Men who submit have to be  strong enough w/in themselves to be able to put aside their ego and give up control.   I respect them for that.  Men who submit are also intelligent becuz they are in on the secret -  - they know  what amazing things can happen to them with they do submit to female dominance. 

I also love submissive men becuz they LOVE and cherish women and will do anything to  serve, obey, worship and adore her to the moon and back!  What girl wouldn't love that?

Women have always known what is best for men  and it's the smart men who have figured it out. 

There is nothing better than LOVING FEMALE AUTHORITY.  Nothing.

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RE: Ladies: what is it about submissive men which you l... - 10/8/2006 2:39:28 PM   
sissifytoserve


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ORIGINAL: MistressDolly



Women have always known what is best for men and it's the smart men who have figured it out.




Not always.

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RE: Ladies: what is it about submissive men which you l... - 10/8/2006 2:57:52 PM   
MistressDolly


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I thought EVERY WOMAN ALWAYS knows what's best for men.

Come on now.

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RE: Ladies: what is it about submissive men which you l... - 10/8/2006 2:59:13 PM   
sissifytoserve


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Men or women...there are always going to be people who want to screw you over.

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RE: Ladies: what is it about submissive men which you l... - 10/8/2006 3:06:51 PM   
mantis65


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ORIGINAL: sissifytoserve

Not when some of them are out to do you in.

Men or women...there are always going to be people who want to screw you over.


This is why you never date female Ninjas its just in their nature to try to kill you from time to time but that’s what makes them so sexy.

I would stick to non assassin types  

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RE: Ladies: what is it about submissive men which you l... - 10/8/2006 3:08:05 PM   
sissifytoserve


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RE: Ladies: what is it about submissive men which you l... - 10/8/2006 3:10:23 PM   
MistressDolly


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ORIGINAL: sissifytoserve

Not when some of them are out to do you in.

Men or women...there are always going to be people who want to screw you over.


I think everyone knows this.

If you've had experience with a Domme who tried to screw you over, it's not becuz she was a "domme", it was becuz she was an asshole. 

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RE: Ladies: what is it about submissive men which you l... - 10/8/2006 3:19:05 PM   
sissifytoserve


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Status: offline 		But aren't "all women are the superior gender"?

I don't buy that for a second.

I judge a person, male or female equally by their merits.

Both have the propensities to be god/godesses AND Devils/Demonesses.

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RE: Ladies: what is it about submissive men which you l... - 10/8/2006 5:51:57 PM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		Most submissive men are strong and not afraid to be who they truly are in their submissive natures. They realize that not all men were meant to be dominant and not all females are meant to be submissive, its all individual. I find sub males to be the sexiest because they go out to please a woman and care about her needs as well as his own. Who doesn't want a man who is willing to pamper her and please her sexually? The submales I have met have been intelligent and have a good sense of humor, two traits that are very high on my list.

Also they are just plain SEXY

~Lashra


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RE: Ladies: what is it about submissive men which you l... - 10/8/2006 6:05:05 PM   
Keyholderwanted


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RE: Ladies: what is it about submissive men which you l... - 10/8/2006 6:11:54 PM   
Keyholderwanted


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Status: offline 		You come off resentful towards women.  Are you bitter because you're not a woman?  Or did a woman scorn you that bad? 

Most women are good souls.

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RE: Ladies: what is it about submissive men which you l... - 10/8/2006 6:28:59 PM   
DivaDuchess


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Status: offline 		Not so much resentful ... perhaps just burned once too often.  Either by man or by woman, both sexes are very capable of dealing out horrible things to intentionally hurt someone else.  However, when there is a submissive male or slave male, it's truly beautiful to see them give up themselves to another who is tagged the 'weaker sex' for the sake of that person's pleasure.

My 2 cents



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RE: Ladies: what is it about submissive men which you l... - 10/8/2006 7:43:13 PM   
mantis65


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Status: offline 		There are women that are not right for me that don’t mean they are assholes just not right for me. I go for the artistic sort with a dark sense of humor and a sadistic imagination the Goth punky types or artists. I tend to not get along so well with the religious types or vegans just don’t have much in common with me.

There are the types that are hostile but they are far rarer than the ones that I simply have nothing in common with. In real life anyway maybe the ratio is different online  

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RE: Ladies: what is it about submissive men which you l... - 10/8/2006 7:55:02 PM   
WetHotGoddess


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Status: offline 		I like the way they blush easily, act shy and stare at the floor.  I like the way they listen attentively to what I like and don't like and make sure they do the things that please me.  I like the way they follow directions and strive to make me happy.  it takes a lot of discipline and self respect to submit.  Not all are capable.

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RE: Ladies: what is it about submissive men which you l... - 10/8/2006 7:59:53 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		I know what I love about MY submissive man, not to say that it applies to all of them.
What I would suggest to any boy that wishes to be the sub in a relationshp is to learn his Lady.  Find out what she likes and doesnt, and dont try and guess. 

DV

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RE: Ladies: what is it about submissive men which you l... - 10/8/2006 9:14:09 PM   
LotusSong


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Status: offline 		The one thing that I absolutely love about a submissive male.. is that he is willing to set aside his ego and listen to me when I try to teach him something.

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RE: Ladies: what is it about submissive men which you l... - 10/8/2006 10:00:07 PM   
UtopianRanger


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Women have always known what is best for men  and it's the smart men who have figured it out. 


I had to chuckle after I heard this quote from Ted Turner on the radio the other day :

'Men should be barred from public office for a hundred years in every part of the world. It would be a much kinder, gentler, more intelligently-run world. Men have had millions of years and we’ve screwed it up hopelessly. Let's give it to the women.’"

I wonder if there might be some truth to what he is saying? Too bad we're never going to find out. lol



 - R




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RE: Ladies: what is it about submissive men which you l... - 10/8/2006 10:22:48 PM   
BlkTallFullfig


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Ladies: what is about submissive men which you love?
Simply that he chooses to be submissive to his lady.  That he is strong enough to be original and not follow what society says should be his role if it does not fit him. 
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If there was one peace of advice you could give to a man wishing to be a submissive in the relationship, what would it be?
Know yourself, look up submission and consider what it means for you, reconcile it with your ego, your family and your religion; than find a woman you can love and respect enough to follow/surrender to, and let the chips fall where they may.   You cannot go wrong being a gentleman in my book...  After that simply pay attention to her, learn her so well that you can begin to anticipate her needs/wants.   I don't believe there can be anything better in this world than a well choreographed D/s relationship dance.   M

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