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RE: My profile must suck - 10/10/2006 8:17:14 AM   
CrappyDom


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quote:

I am not attracted to women much larger than a size 12


I do not say that size 12 is a hard limit and the only woman who has ever worn my collar was 5'3 and a size 16 and anytime I see someone who look similar my cock gets hard.

However, I wanted some sort of limit in there because I was getting responses from women I would not wish to be seen with in public.  Harsh but true.

As for my weight, I am 6'2 and much of that weight is muscle and I look thinner than most dominants in the scene and wear a suit better than almost any of them.

So this is probably the end of this thread as it degenerates from here.

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RE: My profile must suck - 10/10/2006 8:18:05 AM   
Bearlee


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LOL   I'd have to agree Katy; but aren't we funny creatures?  Some of us here (not me) actually like long hair on men.  Go figure...I just figure it's proof there IS somebody for everybody!

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RE: My profile must suck - 10/10/2006 8:21:35 AM   
WindOWillow


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Status: offline 		Maybe you could change your name to "Crabby" Dom. You seem really testy. Lotsa women are put off by impatient, cranky guys.

< Message edited by WindOWillow -- 10/10/2006 8:22:08 AM >

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RE: My profile must suck - 10/10/2006 8:27:35 AM   
Bearlee


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Status: offline 		Nawwwww, I think he's just being a little sensitive.  Hard to go from the winner of male eye-candy to having your profile torn apart!  Still, you did ask for it, CD...
 
In that it's obvious some are reacting badly to the 'size' issue   ...perhaps that is a clue to the problems with your profile for which you asked help?
 
Keep in mind you are well liked here, CD...I don't think this is falling apart...I think people are earnestly trying to help.
 
bearlee

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RE: My profile must suck - 10/10/2006 8:32:52 AM   
WindOWillow


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Status: offline 		Well, he is cuter than a jar of buttons.

Still, he's cranky.

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RE: My profile must suck - 10/10/2006 8:36:59 AM   
Bearlee


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LOL     Awwwwwwwww!  Common CD... don't be cranky! 


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RE: My profile must suck - 10/10/2006 8:37:40 AM   
Aileen68


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RE: My profile must suck - 10/10/2006 8:49:46 AM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		6'2" is very nice.
Many tall girls really appreciate a tall guy.


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RE: My profile must suck - 10/10/2006 10:04:54 AM   
Bearlee


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AND... many of us prefer a guy carrying a bit of extra weight too.  I have a fear of locking hipbones with a skinny guy (think rutting deer...)
 
Perhaps it's because I'm taller too, but I can't imagine enjoying being 'topped' by a guy who, while fucking me, was too tall to also kiss me at the same time... 
 
bear

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RE: My profile must suck - 10/10/2006 10:13:06 AM   
juliaoceania


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quote:

But you're right, people like what they like.  I just always thought people with such great disparities in height/weight ended up together in spite of themselves.  I'm a size 14 and am 5'8" tall...250# would be a lot of weight to have on top of me. 
 

 
My Daddy is the largest man I have ever been with, for some reason I have always seemed to hook up with people my height and only slightly heavier....I love it when he crushes me...MMMMMMMMMMMM , seriously, I get breathless.. and I am into that

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RE: My profile must suck - 10/10/2006 10:36:36 AM   
mstrjx


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RE: My profile must suck - 10/10/2006 10:40:20 AM   
Bearlee


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Noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!

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RE: My profile must suck - 10/10/2006 10:41:34 AM   
CrazyC


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Status: offline 		oh my....i like a man with weight too. something about feeling cared for and protected, but not too much weight. (there comes a point when the weight actually shows how much they care for themselves.) And thank you for explaining the weight thing, 16 is the smallest this hour glass figure can fit into, who is 5'5". Just my feminest tendencies come out...so sorry if it was harsh about not liking the size.

Did i mention that i liked most of everything else on your profile? you sound like a straight forward type of guy, with a sence of humor. And to think you can put the fear of God/ You in me be just speaking is a good visual.

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RE: My profile must suck - 10/10/2006 6:04:42 PM   
windchymes


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RE: My profile must suck - 10/10/2006 6:30:56 PM   
losttreasure


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quote:

ORIGINAL: CrappyDom

So, what say you all?


Okay, CD... here's my two cents...

First, the name.  Yes, it's a sucky name.  Humor or not, a person wouldn't know that unless they read the forums and found out.  I know I didn't.  Please do NOT change it to "Master" anything... sorry (and apologies to anyone having "Master" in their name right now), but it screams "wanker".  How about just "CD"?  It appears to be available.

As for the profile, I do have one question. 

What is it you are looking for? 

I honestly can't tell from what you've written.

Are you just wanting a friend that you scene with?  Are you wanting a non-exclusive dating relationship with SM play on the side?  Are you wanting a part-time sub?  Are you wanting someone you just meet for SM scenes?

Or are you looking for a woman with whom you are physically, emotionally and intellectually attracted... that you can take pleasure getting into her mind... that you can demand service from... enjoy pushing to new heights... and love nurturing?

But she's not supposed to get attached to you?  Or have any expectations?



< Message edited by losttreasure -- 10/10/2006 6:59:16 PM >

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RE: My profile must suck - 10/10/2006 6:52:53 PM   
gypsygrl


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Status: offline 		I looked at your profile after I had seen you post in the forums and immediately thought, oh god, I wanna be just like him when I grow up.  I love the name.  Every time I see it, it gives me a chuckle.  I even thought about changing my moniker to shittysub.

What you say about yourself is clear, to the point and gives me a clear sense of who you might be in real person.  I also sypmpathise with the ambivalence about juggling studenthood with relationships and bd/sm sorts of activities.

Given all this, would I mail you if you lived closer?  Absolutely not!  I'd be too scared. Your profile has nothing to do with that, though.  Its just that my immediate response to a Dominant I find interesting is to lower my eyes and back away until he gives some indication that he wants something.  Its a real dilemma.

Anyway, if you feel that your profile captures  important information about yourself, and provides a reasonable portrait of who you are, I would say its fine the way it is. 

I wear a size 8, by the way.  You should know that clothing manufacturers do funky things with sizes so women feel good about themselves when buying clothes.  Presumably, it encourages them to spend more.  If this were the 1950's I'd be a size 14.







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RE: My profile must suck - 10/10/2006 6:57:39 PM   
KatyLied


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quote:

How about just "CD"?


May have a very limited appeal to subs just wanting cross dressing doms.  I know if I see CD in anything here I immediately think: cross dresser


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RE: My profile must suck - 10/10/2006 7:03:38 PM   
losttreasure


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quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

quote:

How about just "CD"?


May have a very limited appeal to subs just wanting cross dressing doms.  I know if I see CD in anything here I immediately think: cross dresser



Hmmm... the purple satin is very pretty, but I don't think it counts as cross dressing. 


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RE: My profile must suck - 10/10/2006 7:04:49 PM   
Emperor1956


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quote:

wyndchimes (who makes Me laugh):  After reading this thread, I'm thinking of starting a consulting service where I take lost and wayward dominants and rehabilitate them.  I'm calling myself The Dom Whisperer


hee hee.  But it won't work.  You know you have to yell at Us and often hit Us over the head to get our attention.

I do like all the posts on liking men with weight on them.  I'm large.  Rotund.  Ample.  "Bigger"  Oh fuck it, I'm FAT.  But it does My already over-inflated ego (and that ain't all that's overly inflated *waggle waggle*) good to see those comments.  I don't suppose any of you also like toothless alkies?  Who need a job?  but I digress....this is supposed to be about CrappyDom.

CD:  I like the name.  Always have.  and I agree with you that someone who seriously is put off by it probably doesn't have the humor in her to make her worth your time. 

As for that "size 12" reference, I guess I don't understand why it is there.  CD, lets just you and I talk, OK?  Everyone else tune out, leave the room, just for a bit.  OK?  Now, man...

1.  You have told us you've loved "larger" women, so clearly it is not any sort of hard limit.  Why throw it in there?  Makes you look shallow, dude.  And chicks dig "not shallow".  Trust Me, they do.

2.  You say you want a woman who loves her body...do you mean it?  If so, ride with it -- if she's 5' and 180 lbs and sexy as hell and loves herself AND loves you, you can't do much better. 

3.  Here's the big one:  You say you put the size 12 range in there because you can't see yourself in public with a "bigger" girl?  I don't believe it.  You seem autonomous and very unconcerned with the views of "others" in every other part of your life -- are you really worried about what some dweeb thinks of you because you don't have Ms. Hardbody Size 4 on your arm?  If you ARE really concerned, I have to say I'm surprised -- I thought you were beyond/above that. 

The truth?  I don't think your profile is lacking at all.  My sainted dead gay brother told Me you gotta kiss A LOT of frogs before you find your prince.  I think he was right.

Either that, or its your disdain for Gor that's keeping the chickies away....they LOVE that kajira shit, y'know.  

E. (tongue planted firmly in ... cheek?)

< Message edited by Emperor1956 -- 10/10/2006 7:53:21 PM >

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RE: My profile must suck - 10/10/2006 7:08:18 PM   
Emperor1956


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quote:

katylied:  I know if I see CD in anything here I immediately think: cross dresser


Yah, Me too, unless its CD followed by "ROM".   Y'know what's worse?  All the time I run into people who are talking about CBT -- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy.  And I miss 1/2 a sentence whenever I hear it because I think "WHOA!!!   CBT!  Yah!"

But I digress...

E.

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"What's for breakfast? What do you say, Piglet?"
"I say, I wonder what's going to happen exciting today?"
Pooh nodded thoughtfully.
"It's the same thing," he said.

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