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RE: Do you ask or tell a submissive ? - 3/7/2005 12:07:08 AM

Augusten

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I prefer to force them to tell them their fantasies. Make them ask for it. Play a Socretesian role. Ask questions. Dig dep. This will make you aware of your subs deep fantasies. You can incorporate them, leaving you in a position of power while satisfying both of you. This usually makes the sub more comfortable with their dom. And because the dom isn't the one telling his point of views. The dom is left in a shroud of erotic mystery.

Keep in mind that what your sub tells you is his fantasy is not necessarily what he is ready for.

Yes I use the pronoun 'he' for everyone. I'm a faggot. Get use to it.

(in reply to sydneycouple)