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Comments - 10/10/2006 2:36:37 AM

MissyRane

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What area the worst comments/answers/actions you've gotten from your sub/slave in real life or your former subs/slaves and what were the consequences?

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RE: Comments - 10/10/2006 5:31:33 AM

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The word ... NO

When given, the punishment varies. I don't really have a standard punishment. Most of them depend on the circumstances and surroundings when the infraction is done.

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RE: Comments - 10/10/2006 7:15:09 AM

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Avoidance, I despise it. In my opinion it is just a passive agressive no. I finally gave up and said goodbye.

A prospective that was supposedly madly in love with me did not feel she was getting enough attention. She began "talking" to another. While she was not MINE as of yet and while I am not a jealous person and I certainly had no issue with her talking to other people........I did have a problem with her lying about the nature of their "talking". In my opinion if I have strong feelings for someone I am not going to keep a few back-ups waiting in the wings all while misleading each of my intentions. As for consequences, she and I are still friends but there will never be anything more.

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RE: Comments - 10/10/2006 9:40:38 AM

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Lying -- they were kicked to the curb and all evidence of said relationship torn up and burnt. When asked to give information about them to others (they were foolish enough to list me as a reference) I've said "You don't want my opinion because I never have good opinions of liars."

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RE: Comments - 10/10/2006 9:46:20 AM

DiannaVesta

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Oh jeesh there have been many but one that sticks out today is a slave I allowed to move in after 6 months of phone training. Through phone and email he was instructed to do daily task which involved meditation, diet, etc. Anyhow, finally he comes to me and at the end of the day I asked him about one of his rituals and how it was going. He tells me that he modified it !!!!!!!!!!!! Well that was the wrong answer. The whole 6 months he never asked permission or informed me that he modified one of MY instructions.

He was shown the door.

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RE: Comments - 10/10/2006 9:48:12 AM

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Same as Tammy - lying, with some cheating thrown in for fun. He was kicked to the curb - to my knowledge, he slept in his car for a few days before moving in with his grandfather ... I have no idea where he is now, and I don't really want to know at this point. I also reported his behavior to his work site (he worked at a high school, and one of the 'women' he was cheating on me with was legal - barely, and still a minor - I wouldn't have been able to handle the guilt if he had done something to one of the girls at the high school).

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RE: Comments - 10/10/2006 10:09:57 AM

Lashra

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"I only let her Dominate me twice because I need YOU to be mean and strict like she was, can't you undertand that?" he said tearfully after I found out he was seeing another Domme after being mine for 5 years. My answer to him? "No, I do not understand. If you want a 24/7 leather clad doll of a Mistress who beats you on demand and is strict only because your to lazy to take care of your own life go buy one. Now hand me the collar and be on your way...."

He suffered the worst case of sub frenzy I've ever seen but I do think he learned something from that. At least, I hope he did I haven't spoken to him since.

~Lashra

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RE: Comments - 10/10/2006 10:18:51 AM

DiannaVesta

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oh oh or the one that speaks badly about another mistress. I hate that shit.

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RE: Comments - 10/10/2006 11:01:03 AM

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Thank you ladies

it's good to get a little insight into things....I'm sorry to hear about these experiences :/ ..strange how so many have such a difficult staying true to themselves and others

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RE: Comments - 10/10/2006 11:04:27 AM

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The very first slave to approach me to be his mistress was delighted when I accepted and said "Oh.. I can teach you how to be a real Bitch Goddess!"

He was gone in 3 days. Not my kind of gig.

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RE: Comments - 10/10/2006 11:09:28 AM

MissyRane

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LotusSong

There very first slave to approach me to be his mistress was delighted when I accepted and said "Oh.. I can teach you how to be a real Bitch Goddess!"

He was gone in 3 days. Not my kind of gig.

LOL!!!!!

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RE: Comments - 10/10/2006 11:10:27 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LotusSong

There very first slave to approach me to be his mistress was delighted when I accepted and said "Oh.. I can teach you how to be a real Bitch Goddess!"

He was gone in 3 days. Not my kind of gig.

HEY, you took that out of context - besides, I was REAL drunk ROFL

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RE: Comments - 10/10/2006 11:22:07 AM

LotusSong

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ToGiveDivine

quote:

ORIGINAL: LotusSong

The very first slave to approach me to be his mistress was delighted when I accepted and said "Oh.. I can teach you how to be a real Bitch Goddess!"

He was gone in 3 days. Not my kind of gig.

HEY, you took that out of context - besides, I was REAL drunk ROFL

Actually it kinda worked.. the more I thought about his comment.. I did feel myself getting "bitchie".

What can I say..he was a switch.. I was young and stupid.. Just not as stupid as he thought I might be.....:)

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