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a question of restraint - 10/10/2006 5:58:17 AM   
canupleaseme


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hi i am looking for some advice with regard to underbed restaints.  Unfortunatly i dont have a bed suitable for restraint corner to corner and after searching the internet for actual kits and finding them quite expensive i am just lookin for ideas that other people have used.  I am havin my first session with my new submissive on friday and want everything to be perfect and fully restrained so any ideas would be greatly appreciated
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RE: a question of restraint - 10/10/2006 5:58:48 AM   
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lots of rope <GRIN>

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RE: a question of restraint - 10/10/2006 6:01:22 AM   
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ha ha yeah i thought about that but on a dummy run i couldnt make it quite as secure as i wanted too

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RE: a question of restraint - 10/10/2006 6:12:52 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: canupleaseme

hi i am looking for some advice with regard to underbed restaints.  Unfortunatly i dont have a bed suitable for restraint corner to corner and after searching the internet for actual kits and finding them quite expensive i am just lookin for ideas that other people have used.  I am havin my first session with my new submissive on friday and want everything to be perfect and fully restrained so any ideas would be greatly appreciated
thankyou


This may or may not be helpfull but here goes.......the book "Screw the roses, send Me the thorns" has loads of D.I.Y ideas for restraint and is available on the "I.C" website. Good Luck.

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RE: a question of restraint - 10/10/2006 6:18:22 AM   
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thankyou halloweenwhite i never thought to look on ic  i havent been on there for ages

can anyone also tell me how to put a signature on these things lol
x

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RE: a question of restraint - 10/10/2006 6:28:15 AM   
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Youre welcome and as for signatures you just go to the "Edit profile" link and you can do it there.



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RE: a question of restraint - 10/10/2006 6:33:54 AM   
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thanking you kindly :)

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RE: a question of restraint - 10/10/2006 7:30:58 AM   
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Buy a four poster :)  It's the only acceptable form of bedding for kinksters.

Otherwise, you can make "rope" from duct tape that can be suitable for at least a few nights usage and simply wrap/tie it around the bedposts.

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RE: a question of restraint - 10/10/2006 7:36:56 AM   
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Master has 2 ropes under the matress.  He can quickly hook the rope to ankle and wrist restraints and i'm immobile.  The restraints get put away and the rope is hidden by the comforter so the kids don't ask questions.  Since i make the bed, they serve as a gentle reminder.

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RE: a question of restraint - 10/10/2006 8:49:16 AM   
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luckyalbatros and safesaneplay2
thankyou for the ideas particually the duct tape one   i am so excited already about it all i havent played for about a year and a half it all feels so new again lol 

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RE: a question of restraint - 10/10/2006 9:13:34 AM   
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I have a rod iron bed, so there can be many poses for my slave . I use handcuffs, either metal or fur lined, or I'll use silk neckties. For some reason those seem to almost always work out. But if it was my preferance I'd choose handcuffs or ankle/wrist restraints and loop them with rope.

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RE: a question of restraint - 10/10/2006 9:38:23 AM   
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well if things all work out how i hope them to i shall be getting that four poster bed soon

also another quick question in case anyone reads this probably very boring thread compared to most of the other lol  
i am tryin to find a hood , i dont like the masks that are tight to the face i dont want eye holes just a nice leather or similar hangman type hood   ive found a few on some sites but not like i am looking for does anyone know any good places i can look
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RE: a question of restraint - 10/10/2006 9:54:28 AM   
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If all you have to work with is a mattress, a couple of long straps, long enough to go around the entire mattress can be prety quickly fabricated, and you can also run another pair longitudinally to secure better from slippage, and you can tension them with bungee cords.

Nylon webbing straps can be found in a variety of widths, strengths, and even colors - Black for instance - by the foot or yard at most military surplus stores, who also usually carry rope of all varieties.

They should also sell some hardware: speed clips, D-rings, etc., usually behind the counter, to accessorize.

Get a stitching tool, which they should also have, if not, most places that sell outdoor equiptment carry them - it's a large needle holder with a reel and a bulb shaped handle, usually hollow with a screw of end-cap and you store the needles, etc., inside the handle.

It's equipped with heavy waxed thread, that you can use to stitch any hardware in place without needing to know too much about sewing - it's a lock stitch, you drive the needle through, then pull out a length of thread, withdraw the needle, then drive it through again, pull back slightly so that the thread makes a loop, then thread the end you pulled out through the loop, withdraw the needle, to tighten the loop, and repeat.

A simple X pattern works, enough to take the amount of tension you're going to put on it.

Otherwise, many smaller sewing supply shops will do stitching, try the Yellow pages for one that fits your requirements, but make sure you lay it all out and mark the strapping where you want it to be sewn.

This webbing can also be used to fabricate harnasses, restraints, etc., even floggers.

You can use a stud finder to locate a rafter, and measure to help locate the others - they'll typically be on either 16" or 24" centers for the larger ones, and use lag screw eyebolts available at hardware stores if you desire suspension. These can also be used on a wooden Captains bed, or similar, Waterbed, etc, and there are also flush mount or hinged D-Rings available that attach with wood screws.

A Good hardware should also carry a wide variety of hardware, pullys, clips, etc., Use your imagination, but be sure to test the anchors before you use them - especially ceiling anchors, it's best not to put too much weight on them, i.e., large wooden frames, etc. If you do, use several to distribute the weight more evenly, a frame can be hung using rows of eyebolt anchors.

If it's your house, you might be able to get into the attic crawlspace to assess the situation: shore up the joists, install cross beams to distribute the weight across more joists, tie into the rafters, and even install can lights, etc.

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RE: a question of restraint - 10/10/2006 9:55:51 AM   
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One of those sewing shops can fabricate a hood to your specifications, just tell them it's part of a Halloween costume.

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RE: a question of restraint - 10/10/2006 9:57:13 AM   
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a rope under the matress sandwiched between the box spring with loops overhanging where it meets the side.

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about 4 to a side is about right (please do not disparage my graphics)

but I hope you get the gimmick.

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RE: a question of restraint - 10/10/2006 10:02:54 AM   
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The quickest and easiest thing to do is purchase some very long tie down straps, long enough to go around the entire mattress or bed. They sell them at Wal-Mart, etc., in the automotive section - they have rubber coated hooks, and rachet assemblies for tensioning.

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RE: a question of restraint - 10/10/2006 10:18:17 AM   
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I love the ‘TCH II’ hood on this site:  http://www.medicaltoys.com/gagsblind.htm  (but there are several others as well)
 
What’s cool about it to me is that it laces up the back and has buckled eye-covers so one can make it tight or loose and with or without the blindfold.  Also, the mouth cover is not a gag; which I prefer…though one could be used with it, too.  Versatility rocks!  LOL
 
 
Another idea is to make your own hood with Duct Tape.  One can pull a stocking over a head, and wrap the head, however tightly, with multiple layers of tape.  When finished, use safety scissors to cut the hood up the back of the head, add grommets and a shoelace to re-tie when needed. 
 
Oh...the ratcheted truck tie-downs are pretty good, too.
 
Have fun…

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RE: a question of restraint - 10/10/2006 10:54:07 AM   
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wow thanks so much everybody   this is going to be great :)  am just about to go look at the hoods and if i dont find anything then the fancy dress shop is a perfect idea

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RE: a question of restraint - 10/10/2006 11:15:48 AM   
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I saw some of the rachet with straps at the local dollar store . You just need to adjust your vision when you go in some stores, you will be amazed at what they sell when you use a different view.

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RE: a question of restraint - 10/10/2006 11:42:14 AM   
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You can buy an under the bed restraint system from www.extremerestraints.com  I have it and use it in hotels alot. It is wonderful and fits up to a King size mattress, you can use the restraints that come with it, or swap them out for your own. I personally use my leather ones with it.

Good luck,
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