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Mavis -> RE: Time out (10/11/2006 7:50:26 PM)
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i missed the politics.. but might point out that in addressing topics, examples come from all areas, W/we often do touch on politics, religion, recipes for good cookies or soup... anything that is focused on furthering the discussion of the topic is intruduced. if it becomes part of the discussion, it's picked up and run with. If it's disruptive, it's usually left to die, the place is largely self-moderating.
On to the topic, i don't know about a time out persay, But i have a situation where sometimes my company is contracting Master. W/we have to make a conscious decision to change hats during business discussions. It's not always easy. It sometimes has repercussions in that i react to shadows.. a tone of voice used in business talks might reverberate with either me or Him.
There are times i have to address an actual "fault" in Him, for the sake of a project, ask Him to tone down this attribute, or buff up that one, and it's an interesting exercise in self control. Can Y/you imagine how hard it is to not just run with that power once i have it? LOL. "weeeeee!"
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ORIGINAL: missturbation
Do you think it would be easy to go back into dom/me sub / slave relationship after?
To answer the re-adjustment question, yes, that was hard... It took quite a while for U/us to realise the need to clearly demarcate the role switch by hanging up or parting company even if only by one room for 30 mins, and continuing our M/s interactions as a wholly separate convo, or there was bleed-over.
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