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RE: You're not the One - 10/10/2006 10:01:41 PM   
BitaTruble


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ORIGINAL: Aileen68

What if you aren't looking for the One? 


Then just have fun with #'s 2 - 100.

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RE: You're not the One - 10/10/2006 10:06:12 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well, IMHO… ‘playing’ is a lot like tennis or bowling or fishing.  Sure, there’s a Zen to it…and it can be fun as hell; even if one doesn’t play in tournaments (for Da One).
 
Some play erotically with BDSM, some play sexually with BDSM…mostly I just play with BDSM…while I look for da One. 
 
For me, there’s a difference; one is playing, one is D/s...but both are real as breathing.
 
beverly

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RE: You're not the One - 10/10/2006 10:10:04 PM   
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‘playing’ is a lot like tennis or bowling or fishing


the downside to these events is...ya gotta have the right equipment...LOL


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RE: You're not the One - 10/10/2006 10:13:34 PM   
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Status: offline 		Perhaps you are one of the more honest ppl here!  Good hunting.

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RE: You're not the One - 10/10/2006 10:15:26 PM   
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but of course, michael, I dooooo:  various whips, canes, knives...  and more

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RE: You're not the One - 10/10/2006 10:15:38 PM   
JerseyKrissi72


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Status: offline 		You are very honest about what you want, I respect that. not everyone wants a long term relationship...

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RE: You're not the One - 10/10/2006 10:15:50 PM   
michaelGA2


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Status: offline 		i have been told i need to tone down my honesty...hence the chances in my profile...many have told me my previous ad was too honest and over-informative...guess honesty isn't always the best policy, huh?

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RE: You're not the One - 10/10/2006 10:19:28 PM   
JerseyKrissi72


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Status: offline 		In my eyes, honesty is THE ONLY POLICY. I am always 100 percent with everyone they meet..and if they can listen to the story of my life within the first ten minutes and not walk away, im good to go  There can NEVER be secrets...never. Keep being honest and the right one will find you.

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RE: You're not the One - 10/10/2006 10:25:08 PM   
Bearlee


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Status: offline 		michael, sometimes one feels frustration and spitting it out feels like 'being honest'. 
 
Your new pics are delightful...but I had not looked at your 'new' profile.  Brovo!
 
Actually, this one seems to have even more info (WHY you can't relocate)...and seems more fun, to boot! 
 
Good luck, kiddo!
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RE: You're not the One - 10/10/2006 10:33:02 PM   
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Status: offline 		"Not the one.  You're not the one.  Can't talk.  Won't talk.  You're not the one."
                                                                  
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Sorry.  I't late and I'm tired and I get in a weird mood when I'm tired.  I think I'll go to be now.

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RE: You're not the One - 10/10/2006 10:38:11 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68

What if you aren't looking for the One?  Not everyone here is searching for that long term commitment.  Some are just searching for one that they can play intensely with.  Does that make me a fake?  Or am I just as real as you?


You are real....honest especially about what you are looking for. My wife and I are looking for both a long term relationship with someone, but we also enjoy meeting new people and enjoying different aspects of BDSM with them. This does not always equate to sex, sometimes it is just fun to tie someone up and flog them.

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RE: You're not the One - 10/10/2006 10:39:25 PM   
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ORIGINAL: michaelGA2
i have been told i need to tone down my honesty...hence the chances in my profile...many have told me my previous ad was too honest and over-informative...guess honesty isn't always the best policy, huh?
There's honesty, than there is in your face daring you to dislike me because I'm crass honesty.
You have the right equipment , yah just need to find the one who can use you where you are, lol.    M

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RE: You're not the One - 10/10/2006 10:46:20 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68

What if you aren't looking for the One?  Not everyone here is searching for that long term commitment.  Some are just searching for one that they can play intensely with.  Does that make me a fake?  Or am I just as real as you?

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RE: You're not the One - 10/10/2006 10:54:20 PM   
CrazyC


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Status: offline 		There is just one- "One"? Wow and this whole time i was just learning from all my relationships be the casual or serious, M/s or vanilla. This might be because i feel all those i create a relationship with are special. They are all "soul mates" or "the One" and are there to serve a purpose in diffrent time of my life.

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RE: You're not the One - 10/10/2006 11:04:50 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68

What if you aren't looking for the One?  Not everyone here is searching for that long term commitment.  Some are just searching for one that they can play intensely with.  Does that make me a fake?  Or am I just as real as you?


You say you are not looking, but what if he finds you? Whatcha gonna do about that?

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RE: You're not the One - 10/10/2006 11:38:19 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Bearlee

michael, sometimes one feels frustration and spitting it out feels like 'being honest'. 
 
Your new pics are delightful...but I had not looked at your 'new' profile.  Brovo!
 
Actually, this one seems to have even more info (WHY you can't relocate)...and seems more fun, to boot! 
 
Good luck, kiddo!
beverly


i have a vanilla life here and am also financially unable to move. of course, there's got to be a better place than here...ANYPLACE is better than here.


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RE: You're not the One - 10/11/2006 1:30:19 AM   
meatcleaver


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Status: offline 		I'm not searching for anyone and if I was I wouldn't be searching on the internet. What is with all this 'Let's get to know each other first.' business?  When you meet someone new in real life the whole thing that makes it interesting is that you don't know each other and the fun is getting to know each other. I'm not going to sit at a computer chatting for months to then be told to take a hike when I can be told in the first couple of minutes in real life.

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RE: You're not the One - 10/11/2006 2:09:37 AM   
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RE: You're not the One - 10/11/2006 2:25:09 AM   
ExSteelAgain


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Status: offline 		Aileen, heh, don't worry, you will find lots of Doms with the same philosophy.

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RE: You're not the One - 10/11/2006 3:04:04 AM   
SirLordTrainer


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68

What if you aren't looking for the One?  Not everyone here is searching for that long term commitment.  Some are just searching for one that they can play intensely with.  Does that make me a fake?  Or am I just as real as you?


Extremely real, Ive lost track of how many sub/slaves who have visited Me & My girl over the years, for no other reason other than they knew they were going to get a well-rounded session out of it. Typically, the girls who visit say their 'tired of all the players, bs, wannabes, and inexperience'. Which is fine by Me, as I may be Poly but Im not presently seeking to Own. No reason why they cant continue to grow and have fun while seeking ''their One''.

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