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Ceremonies - 10/10/2006 11:32:52 PM   
MasterNdorei


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Status: offline 		i have been to only 2 collarings, and would like to hear about other's events that were celebrated with a ceremony. As an onlooker or participant, what parts seemed to best express the meaning of the ceremony? i would like to hear from those who had/attended public ceremonies, and those celebrated in private. Id it was your ceremony, where there any parts you would do differently if you could?

Humbly,
Master's dorei
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RE: Ceremonies - 10/12/2006 9:14:58 PM   
Daddysredhead


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From: Northern (yet still part of the South) Virginia
Status: offline 		We had a very private ceremony, just the two of us.

We had soft music playing in the background, a candle, a single white long stemmed rose, my "collar" (a pretty toggle closure necklace with a heart pendant on it), a plain silver band ring, and each other.  We spoke our vows and our hearts to one another, I presented myself to Master, knelt before Him, took His collar and His ring (right hand, wedding band to come hopefully one day soon), and He presented me with the rose, and claimed me as His slave.  While I was kneeling and bent forward with my face to the ground, He also branded me with His mark on my tush.  It didn't hurt nearly as much as I thought it would, and it sort of made the whole thing complete for me, as that was a huge fear of mine, and I found the trust to allow Him to do this without hurting me terribly.  I don't think I would have done anything differently because it was so intimate and special.  It still makes me smile... 

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RE: Ceremonies - 10/12/2006 9:25:09 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		http://www.collarchat.com/m_574595/mpage_1/key_collaring/tm.htm#574600
collaring and wedding ceremony

http://www.collarchat.com/m_291301/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#291301
Collar vs Wedding Ring

http://www.collarchat.com/m_247668/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#247668
ring or collar, what's the difference?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_151638/mpage_1/key_collar/tm.htm#151638
Collar Ceremony

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RE: Ceremonies - 10/12/2006 11:03:44 PM   
MasterNdorei


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Status: offline 		DaddysRedHead~*
  Your ceremony sounds wonderful. Thank you for telling me about it. Without hijacking my own thread, may i ask what kind of brand you received? i was strike branded over the summer, and it is unusual for me to run into others who are branded, so i am curious...

LA~*
  Thank you for the links. It is a great help that you are always able to offer them.

i hope to hear from others...
Master's dorei

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RE: Ceremonies - 10/13/2006 9:18:50 AM   
Daddysredhead


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ORIGINAL: MasterNdorei

DaddysRedHead~*
Your ceremony sounds wonderful. Thank you for telling me about it. Without hijacking my own thread, may i ask what kind of brand you received? i was strike branded over the summer, and it is unusual for me to run into others who are branded, so i am curious...



Thank you, Dorei.  It was very special.  I was also strike branded.  While this is a less painful type of branding than cautery branding, the mark usually doesn't last as long.  Mine is not as dark as it was when I first had it done, and Master has told me that we will redo it when it gets to light.  He just told me today, actually, that He would like to renew our vows on the 30th of this month (our 6 month anniversary of our collaring ceremony) just to remind us of the promise that we made each other.  On this day, He said that He may give me a slave name as well.  I think it's all very special... 

*now back to our regularly scheduled posting* 

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RE: Ceremonies - 10/13/2006 6:42:28 PM   
littlespike


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From: Austin
Status: offline 		Hi MasterNdorei

When my Mistress collared me last year on my birthday, it was really a private thing.  We had a fetish party the night before.  But on my birthday we went for a drive in North Hollywood.  Later we stopped at a dogie store and she bought me a little tag for my collar.  Slave #002s; if found please return to Goddess Selene.  Later that night i was walking on Hollywood Blvd and had my slave number tattoo(ed) on my left ankel.  She used to joke for months about when i called her and said that i had my slave number tattoo(ed) on my ankel, "Mistress i had my slave number tatoo(ed) on my ankel".  i have been her slave for almost a year and a half now....

But the party the night before was much less private.  As a birthday present she lighted me up like a birthday cake.  Four needles in my chest and candles in the needles.  The birthday candles fit into the end of the needle thingies.  There i was strapped to a spanking bench with hot wax dripping from the needles in my chest. 

littlespike

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RE: Ceremonies - 10/13/2006 6:49:59 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		Ours was extremely private.  Just me, angel and the collar.  He knelt, and I asked him if he was sure about what he wanted. He said he was.  I kissed his forehead and told him when he heard the click of the lock, that would mean he was mine forever.  He squeaked, which is his excited noise. I lifted his chin, locked the collar on him, and kissed him. 
He has been mine since.  We are working on my move down to his area, where he will eventualy be moving to 24/7.  I was going to make him wait until graduation, but the long distance relationship was rough. I gave him the gift early as a promise that I was serious about keeping him  permanently.  As long as I knew I was keeping him, I didnt see why not.

Just my 2 cents

DV


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RE: Ceremonies - 10/13/2006 8:39:53 PM   
MasterNdorei


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Status: offline 		Daddy'sRedHead~*  i am going to start a thread about branding. i hope you will join the posts there, as i would like to continue the conversation if it pleases you. LittleSpike~*  Thank you for posting! i loved reading how you took the intiative to have your slave number marked permanently on your ankle. What a gift to the One who owns you! The living birthday cake sounds amazing. i am going to remember this when suggestions come up for remarkable birthday ideas. DiurnalVampire~*   i love that you did not wait to show your commitment to the one who serves you. There comes a time when people know their comitment is permanent. Not that my opinion matters, but i give you a wild round of applause for following your heart, and honoring the timing between Y/you both. Humbly,Master's dorei

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RE: Ceremonies - 10/13/2006 8:46:22 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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From: Nashville, TN
Status: offline 		Thank you dorei. 
If youve seen some of my other threads, there is a lot going into the relationship I have with him.
He was collared on our 6 month anniversary, and he will be brought into my house on our 1 year. We arent sure where things will go after that, but I have my ideas.  Those are, however, waiting for graduation.

DRH - you WILL let us all know what hapens on the 30th, wont you? 

DV

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RE: Ceremonies - 10/13/2006 9:03:33 PM   
littlespike


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From: Austin
Status: offline 		Thanks dorei....littlespike

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RE: Ceremonies - 10/14/2006 8:57:27 PM   
sweetnurseBBW


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From: North Carolina
Status: offline 		I been to collarings that were like elaborate weddings and some private. Ours was just us two and very private. This was much more meaningful to me.  Some want to show off and some dont. What works for some doesn't work for others.

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RE: Ceremonies - 10/14/2006 11:49:02 PM   
mtumwawaBwana


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Status: offline 		my Master has a very festive celebration planned for "His" party. if He allows, i will post the highlights , as well as how i fared through the brandings.


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RE: Ceremonies - 10/15/2006 7:39:43 AM   
Daddysredhead


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Status: offline 		Dorei ~  I would love join you on your new thread. 

DV ~ I will definitely keep those who are curious informed of what happens on the 30th. 

Mtum ~ Slather girlie, you know that I love you to pieces and hope that your Master will allow you to share the details and maybe a photo of your brands. 

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