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Lockit -> RE: Older and Larger Dommes (6/2/2009 9:15:53 AM)

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ORIGINAL: xXMasterXx

I'm not real attracted to bbw...I like fit and healthy...but to each there own


Says the guy in the bathroom mirror...

I'll have you know, I worked out four hours a day and was very fit and was ninety to ninety five pounds untill the illness that was always there hit and all sorts of things went nuts.  It was guys like you that dumped me becasue I was sick and it didn't fit their pretty little picture.  And you know... every one of them wanted me back, including the dominant one's.  I am hard to replace... they weren't.

I know women bigger than I am that are far more fit and healthy.  You can't always know when looking at a stick... what's under that bark.

But you just showed who you were.  Not because you aren't attracted to the bigger woman, but because you took such great pleasure in announcing it.




PrincessDonna -> RE: Older and Larger Dommes (6/2/2009 3:19:35 PM)

Experience enters into it somewhere too,older women display traits of much more experience in D/s matters being mothers,aunts,godmothers,caregivers ,etc.




xXMasterXx -> RE: Older and Larger Dommes (6/3/2009 1:56:28 AM)

Lockit...I'm sorry I thought that was the point of the thread to voice our opinions on the subject...I must have read it wrong I'm sorry if I offended...I prefer older Dommes if that means anything because they are mature and know what there doing but looks do matter to me I love the hour glass shape.I would never leave a woman I was in a serious relationship with because she got sick and that goes both ways."guys like you "...you don't know me...I'm VERY loving person if you got to know me




GYPZYQUEEN -> RE: Older and Larger Dommes (6/3/2009 10:22:41 AM)

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ORIGINAL: xXMasterXx

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but looks do matter to me I love the hour glass shape
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Aren't you the man who is saying in the weight loss thread..that if you "took in "a woman who was overweight you would have her lose the weight?..
when I take in a man I usually get him to lose the attitude

GQ




Lockit -> RE: Older and Larger Dommes (6/3/2009 10:31:35 AM)

An hour glass figure often becomes a larger hour glass.  A woman knowing that time brings about changes and knowing her man finds this life growth as distasteful is going to be afraid that she would be less loved if life and age had its way with her.  So xXMasterXx, you are saying two different things in your comments and sending a mixed message.  As long as your hour glass stays this size hour glass, I find you acceptable... but if your hour glass grows... I will push you to diet or whatever becasue I find anything larger distasteful and something that I won't accept.

You are correct xXMasterXx, I don't know you.  But in your few words, many things can be seen.  Mostly those few words you have chosen to use.  I do not compare you with anyone else as I have never had anyone who felt my weight or lack thereof as a problem.  It was fickle hearts when it came to other changes that was in my life and a fickle heart is a fickle heart.  I will love you this way... but find you distasteful in this other way.  Still a fickle heart.

And you cannot offend me.  I can evaluate what I think of your words or take on things.  It makes no matter to me what you think and feel and how you live or love.  I just made comment on what I thought of your words and the take on them that they represented.  Just as you did in your first post.

A loving person loves the person, sick or skinny or over weight.  How would you like it if time or health took its toll upon you and you got a gut or a tool that didn't work as well as it used to or you went bald?  Would you like to be found distasteful and be expected to change it?  Or wouldn't you like to be loved just because you are who you are?




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Older and Larger Dommes (6/3/2009 10:31:36 AM)

Just so we all know, he told me that I am NOT a BBW.  Which I am not... but still, I offer up a WTF?    I looked pretty damn fabulous, back before the prednisone, and those other meds that say "may cause weight gain". 




YourhandMyAss -> RE: Older and Larger Dommes (6/3/2009 10:37:58 AM)

Yup, that would always be fun, Even when I was skinny I was still curvy though, I had 34 c breasts in fourth grade, and I had nice hips.

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ORIGINAL: Morrigel

I like being tall enough that I don't need high heels and big and strong enough that I'm not afraid to walk down the street, definitely.  But if I was a tiny domme I would find some way to enjoy my tiny-ness, for example by playing WAY more horsey, riding, and stepping-on-people games.  [:D]

So far as physical stature difference between me and the man goes--I tend to prefer bigger or taller men.  Mostly because there's nothing hotter than bringing a big strong man to his knees.  [;)]

--M




YourhandMyAss -> RE: Older and Larger Dommes (6/3/2009 10:50:05 AM)

The same could be said for young people depending on the person. I am 26 and my 27th is in November. I fit a lot of those words, I am funny, I am tolerant, I can be very open minded, it depends on the situation,  and what that intails. I am open to people's different view points too. I may not agree with them or may not want to date the person holding the viewpoints, but I won't pooh pooh them just cause I am young. I am extremely sure of myself, and what I want and what I don't want, and what will and won't work. I know myself very well. I laugh a lot too, and I don't take myself to seriously either, infact I tend to laugh at myself first, while the other person is wondering do I laugh or would that be rude.



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ORIGINAL: Dennis80401

Young women are still unformed. The older, larger Domme has a special appeal for those of us who are more seasoned ourselves. She is more tolerant, wiser, funnier and definitely more attractive. She is open to more and different viewpoints and is sure of herself because of her experience. Definitely classier and more fun to be with. She doesn't take herself so seriously and can laugh a lot.




YourhandMyAss -> RE: Older and Larger Dommes (6/3/2009 10:55:37 AM)

Why does being 5'9 make someone an amazon, I'm 5'5 and that's only 4 inches shorter than 5'9 and I'm actually not much shorter or taller than your average woman.
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ORIGINAL: MistressRouge

I am not BBW, but amazonian 5 foot 9 iches in height and curvey and just turned 38.

I will not be in My prime as a Domina until I am least 50 years old, that is when a Domme comes into her own I feel, not 40!

My thoughts anyways [:D]




subtlebutterfly -> RE: Older and Larger Dommes (6/3/2009 11:09:02 AM)

Yer all beautiful in your own special way[;)]




PeonForHer -> RE: Older and Larger Dommes (6/3/2009 11:28:39 AM)

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ORIGINAL: subtlebutterfly

Yer all beautiful in your own special way[;)]


True.  But no-one can please all of the people all of the time.  Women, no matter what they look like, will always have their knockers.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Older and Larger Dommes (6/3/2009 11:30:00 AM)

I love you, Peon.  Which is why I want to hurt you EVER so badly!  [:D]




PeonForHer -> RE: Older and Larger Dommes (6/3/2009 11:31:20 AM)

Blast - it worked better the second time.  Didn't think that bit of slang had made it across the pond, actually.




Lockit -> RE: Older and Larger Dommes (6/3/2009 11:36:35 AM)

LOL




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Older and Larger Dommes (6/3/2009 11:59:59 AM)

Knickers, knockers, we have it all over here.  Just watch out when using the word FANNY.  [;)]




PeonForHer -> RE: Older and Larger Dommes (6/3/2009 12:07:17 PM)

I'll have a fag while I'm thinking about that comment.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Older and Larger Dommes (6/3/2009 12:08:36 PM)

oooh have a clove and think of me!!

(NASTY HABIT btw!!)




Lockit -> RE: Older and Larger Dommes (6/3/2009 12:08:53 PM)

We all know you smoke dude...




PeonForHer -> RE: Older and Larger Dommes (6/3/2009 12:14:22 PM)

I'm a sixty- bad puns-a-day man.  Nope, it's not good for me, or anyone around me.




Lockit -> RE: Older and Larger Dommes (6/3/2009 12:15:16 PM)

You just need to be spanked... at least!




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