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ProtagonistLily -> RE: Whipping (1/30/2005 6:52:24 AM)
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The original quote that started this all:
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I am married and have met someone recently and I desire to be whipped. Is there a way for me to be whipped without leaving any marks?
terry
Though a miriad of sarcasm, and some good stuff, this thread has digressed to this:
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Thank you for your responce Ma'am.
I guess I just might as well come out and say it.
What made you think that my wife has no knowledge of this?
How did you come to this conlusion?
First of all, don't call me Ma'am. You haven't earned that privledge. I came to that conclusion because of 1) the nature of your original post, and how you said NOTHING about your wife knowing about this situation and 2) you made no attempt to rectify this in the subsequent posts, when several of us included in our responses that we felt you were sneaking around. So, if you don't say otherwise, what else could we possibly think?
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You probaly assumed that because I don't want marks so she won't find out. Maybe that is wrong Ma'am (Humbly and respectfuly). I find it very funny how a simple question on whipping gets so much attention. Very funny. I must be honest and say I enjoy it in a dark way.
Your pleasure or humor, is surprisingly of no consequence to me. Though your disrespect when you publically laughed at me, and now with the sarcastic, insincere 'humbly and respectfully' has been dually noted. "Humbly and Respectfully" are just words if they are used to be nasty or in an insincere manner, as yours have been. Using them in such a way not only disrespects me, as a person, it disrespects all the other submissives out there who use these words sincerely.
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I am greatful as always for that you have taken time to give knowledge and wisdom to me and I am greatful with all my heart.
Terri, I have this bridge in Brooklyn I'll sell you on the cheap.....
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But I must be hounest your assumptions are way off.
Of course they are...as you've stated before. And as I've stated, this is your fault, not anyone elses. I'm a lot of things....clairvoyant ain't one of them.
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Respectfuly and Humbly It would be nice if you could stay on topic Ma'am.
It is just a question, just an answer is required.
This translates into "Just give me the answer I want so I can go do what I want...." Sorry, it doesn't work like that here at the CM boards.
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I quote back to you the same as I have to another Wonderful Domme that gave me a wonderful responce.
Maybe your the one who is wrong this time.
Totto Pamela
Most humbly and respectfuly
aman2bwhipped
Thank you Terri, for the tongue in cheek attemt to put Ma'am in her place. I'm not here for your approval. Nor, am I here to be laughed at and made fun of as you saw fit in several of your previous posts.
Backtracking as you have in this post about your wife, is fairly obvious. In a lifestyle who's cornerstone is honesty, you have failed to be convincing that your wife knows about this. If she did, then why would you be bringing this issue to a bunch of strangers, so to speak. But I've been down off the turnip truck long enough to discern the differance between 'Knowledge" and "Consent". So, if you have allowed, from your original post, to have others infer that you are doing this behind your wife's back, it's clearly a communication problem on your part and no one else can be accountable for inferring otherwise.
Again, I'm not sure what handbook you are working from, but I have yet to see one that says 'you want to be taken seriuosly? Laugh at the Dommes.'
So while you are trying to find a very specific answer to the question you posed, perhaps if you articulated it in such a way that gave everyone the facts, you might get more useful answers. But then again, as it's been stated of late, there are many of us who aren't interested in men who are sneaking around on their wives. If this is not the case, then I would suggest that you be more specific in your details from the get go.
Lily
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