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RE: unruly slave - 10/12/2006 10:56:57 AM

LadyHugs

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Dear madamrose1, Ladies and Gentlemen;

First, I must admit my concern about hanging a man by their testicals when they are on their toes. IF there was some stretch left as not to tear, then I would be ok with it. Physical harm can be done if not planned and a back up emergency release isn't present to avoid injury that is beyond consensual. There is a difference between hung by the balls and hanging things from the balls. And, any bondage on another should not be left alone. Too much can go wrong.

That said, I have to say; that in my mind's eye--the slave isn't a slave but, a manipulator for attention. Manipulation is a form of control, to which action on their part, causes a reaction on your part. Especially on the negative. You enable the behavior when there is a reaction, as I see it in my mind's eye--it is a bait, forcing a dominant into a reaction. I would ignore them and next form of manipulation, they're out the door with the other rubbish.

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Lady Hugs

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RE: unruly slave - 10/12/2006 11:08:44 AM

GirlyDevil

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I agree with sissypinky

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RE: unruly slave - 10/12/2006 2:31:53 PM

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I'm with Tom, ignore him. Don't give him the time of day. Make him crawl and suffer THEN dump his ass! lol

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RE: unruly slave - 10/12/2006 5:42:29 PM

madamrose1

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Thank you A/all for your advice, any punihments ideas are well welcomed!!!

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RE: unruly slave - 10/12/2006 6:11:09 PM

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ORIGINAL: MistressDolly

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Oh honey, lock it up, lock it up, lock it up.

<feigning the most naive face possible> I am not convinced depersonalizing him by calling him an it, and putting him in a cage will help much.

;-)

Cheers,

Sea

Hi undergroundsea, I realize you don't know me, so giving me the benefit of the doubt wouldn't be something you would contemplate off hand, but, no sweetie, I am not calling him a "thing". Goodness! I believe all of us should be respected and all of us deserve to be happy.

That being said, I meant putting him in chastity.

My post was entirely in jest ;-) I knew what you meant. I made a pun of sorts by using a different meaning of the words, partially in pretense that I am too naive to know that you were suggesting chastity, and partially to pretend I am deflecting attention from that unthinkable suffering that chastity is. Each was intended in spirit of humor.

Cheers,

Sea

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RE: unruly slave - 10/13/2006 4:37:42 AM

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Not long after I posted my last response on this question ... a friend of mine, whose slave is a bit (okay he's overkill) overbearing, called. Apparently he 'refused' to obey, bringing her out of her workroom to deal with him. After about 15 minutes of ranting, he just kinda grinned at her and did what she had told him to do. She ... called me *lol*.

I took my manacles, four post bolts with bevelled tips and my ballgag with me ... they are my favorites and easily hidden in my purse. I had to ask her if she were opposed to ... FOUR holes ... in her walls. She told me 'no' ... I went to work.

When I was through with my little ... setup, her slave looked a little less likely to be ... overbearing. However, too little, too late. He was ordered OUT of his clothing ... he was then put in the manacles, which fashioned as they were, had him spread eagle in the corner. He actually looked like a flying squirrel *lol* ... I put the ballgag in his mouth, turned the stereo on, walked out and closed the door. Not only did he have no contact with her, but ... he was silent as well.

THREE HOURS LATER ... he was released. He got to his hands and knees and begged her forgiveness. That was almost 2 days of blessed silence ago. Not only that, perfect (for him) obediance. I left my setup at her home. She can use it as a coat rack when she has vanilla's over ... for her slave ... he knows better and I'm out a set of cuffs and one of my ballgags *lol*

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RE: unruly slave - 10/13/2006 6:49:03 AM

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DivaDuchess, that was lovely and what a great friend you are :)

Maybe he can work off his debt to you for the gift of the gag and manacles. Need any heavy lifting, lawn work, etc? :)

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