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SwitchNCgal -> RE: how to approach r/l friends (1/24/2005 11:00:12 PM)
Ohhh I like the last one!!![:)] I'm stealing it and not giving credit so there![&:]

Paulnz -> RE: how to approach r/l friends (1/25/2005 1:57:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: proudsub quote: I suggest you get to know her much better. This is done by carrying on conversation, and then by asking her to see you apart from just at bowling. Once you know her, you can begin bringing up BDSM related topics. She is in a group that often goes to lunch after bowling and i have been invited but never gone, maybe i will go next time.[:)] Yes, definitely get to know her in another setting. It provides a different angle on the person.

Redb -> RE: how to approach r/l friends (1/25/2005 5:07:26 AM)
Why dont you just say to her once day... "so are you Vanilla or what ?" Its the kind of code thing that only someone in the scene might understand and if she looks at you knowingly and a bit stunned, you can say "i just wondered" and give her a grin and a wink and hope she gets back to you on it. If she looks at you like yer nuts, you can come up with some excuse about icecream flavours !! It worked for me when i suspected my neighbour (and good friend) of being involved. I was right and he broke up laughing when i said it and he shouted "i KNEW you were a Domme !!!!!!". Phew !!!

proudsub -> RE: how to approach r/l friends (1/25/2005 8:24:49 AM)
quote: It worked for me when i suspected my neighbour (and good friend) of being involved. I was right and he broke up laughing when i said it and he shouted "i KNEW you were a Domme !!!!!!". LOL!! I'm thinking of telling her that i really like the way she dresses--always heels, low cut tight shirts and tight pants, and thong (it shows when she bends over lol). She also wears a lot of black and has long black hair.

Darthbetta -> RE: how to approach r/l friends (1/25/2005 8:34:41 PM)
just ask her if she has a flogger.............. if she looks puzzled, just say "cause you should.... every strong woman needs one in her toy box" :D and leave it at that.

Ojedieu -> RE: how to approach r/l friends (2/4/2005 6:21:57 PM)
You could always just sketch a replica of the SSC symbol on a notepad -- the scoresheet (if it's not electronic), etc. If you want the real thing, there are lots of places on the net that sell it as jewelry too. Just do a search for "BDSM jewelry" on Google, and you'll find a few. I've thought about getting it in a necklace. The uninitiated only think it's some mutated yin-yang symbol and it's a good way to open a conversation with those who know what it is.

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