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calling all masochists - 10/13/2006 10:04:10 PM

EbonyFtshGoddess

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i'm curious.

who considers themselves a masochist?

i'm not trolling, but how much can you take? what is the most harsh torment you've endured? as a masochist, do you have any limits and what are they?

i'm curious.

i just had a HEAVY s/m interaction tonight and i enjoyed it to no end. i was just curious to hear from males (actually or masochistic females too.. not to exclude the girlies).. that consider themselves masochists.

i was trained from 16-19 as a masochist then later i was trained not to dish anything out to my slaves that i couldn't handle myself. as a result i don't use ANY toy or whip or anything that i haven't already felt on my own flesh..(please let's not get on the age i started into BDSM ok?.. that's not the basis of my query)

i'm just curious to hear from people that truly identify as a masochist.

in addition, what do you enjoy about being a masochist?

for me when i'm in m/ mode.. i don't get off on orgasms. i enjoy taking the MOST pain i can.

ok.. i'm all ears.

peace and love.. i'll check back on sunday after my surf venture up north.

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RE: calling all masochists - 10/13/2006 11:03:11 PM

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quote:

i'm not trolling, but how much can you take? what is the most harsh torment you've endured?

The most I have taken so far is nipple play that left me so bruised my nipples were engorged for a week with purple bruising and it was an intense rush. Binder clips make nasty clamps

The deepest subspace was brought on by face slapping, and it did not take a very hard slap to send me there... although this can be a dangerous endeavor.... kiddies should learn about it before trying it at home.

He has bruised my ass fairly well, but he has not beat me to the end of my endurance level, and I do not know what that is exactly. He is not into just brute force, he has more finesse than that. My Nipple experience predates my Daddy and my relationship

quote:

i'm just curious to hear from people that truly identify as a masochist.

I enjoy pain so I classify myself as a masochist, and I am enjoying the journey that will lead me on....

quote:

in addition, what do you enjoy about being a masochist?

Subspace, the rush of it, the sexual aspect... if my Daddy wants to get me instantly wet all he has to do is hurt me

Have fun on your trip Ebony

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RE: calling all masochists - 10/14/2006 12:00:15 AM

gypsylee

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i consider myself a masochist. but i don't get sexually aroused by pain. and my response depends on the type of pain eg. certain types of stinging actually relaxes me... childbirth, pancreatitis and backache just f'en hurts.

i don't 'enjoy' being flogged or having nipple clamps on or whatever but it's a sure fire way of putting me into subspace.

outside of bdsm activity, i love the adrenaline rush of body piercings. i got my tongue redone after 10 months and it was so full of scar tissue that it hurt like all hell cos the guy had to use so much force to get it through (initial tongue piercings are one of the least painful). i was whimpering like a baby and came very close to losing consciousness. but afterwards i was on the biggest adrenline high.

yeahhh. bring it on.

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RE: calling all masochists - 10/14/2006 12:10:18 AM

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I haven't had very much exotic pain play. Most of my pain has come at the end of a paddle, cane, or other percussive devise. I was never sure about classifying myself as a massochist. All I know is that my past Dominants whip arms tended to wear out before my ass did (not a safeword uttered yet). I'm usually left wanting more and harder in the end. Of course, it might be that my Dommes were either overly compassionate, or had weak arms. I don't know, but how does one compare or measure pain?

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RE: calling all masochists - 10/14/2006 2:30:21 AM

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For some reason I enjoy pain and seek it out, I'm into sport so its probably the endorphin junkie in me. Heavy thuddy things are my favorite way to warm up but after that contrasting sharp with dull pain keeps things interesting. A couple of times I've been a bit concerned about how much bruising or other damage is being caused and I've learn't there are some activities that cause too much injury if taken to the point where I need to use a safeword- that being said there are plenty of great and safe ways to cause serious pain and if I trust the person I'm playing with I enjoy play continuing past the point where I'm crying out for it to stop. This also means I can let my body react naturally without having to concentrate on not safewording- it might sound strange but even when I'm in this state and want it to stop there's still part of my mind wanting to know just what it would feel like if things were wound up a bit further. I've got limits- there are things I wont do and things that arn't safe if pushed to far but so long as its safe I'm usually keen to try it.

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RE: calling all masochists - 10/14/2006 2:47:12 AM

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I do not consider myself a masochist; in fact, I am quite the baby when it comes to pain. Now, for some reason, I seem to be drawn to those who enjoy inflicting it; so my not being a masochist has very little bearing on my relationships.
The most I have ever endured? A beating I took as punishment for saying no to my late Master. It went on for about 10 minutes; him whipping a belt across my ass; until I finally gave in to the pain and did what he wanted.

Now, even though I don't call myself a masochist, I do enjoy the feel of the cane across the butt, legs and lower back. The one time I actually asked for this, he took it seriously and literally. It went on for about 15 minutes. After about 5 of those I was begging him to stop though

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RE: calling all masochists - 10/14/2006 3:05:23 AM

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Masochism......i found this on my own at a really young age. i remember my 'rents would cane the crap outta me for getting in fights at school or other serious things. i used to be scared s**tless when the cane was brought out....but i remember when i was around 13, my mum threw a few strokes at my legs and i found it enjoyable...not in an erotic sense though..i mean, at the age, i didn't know the difference between cum and pee lol...but i just liked being beaten up.
Sadly, the cane did eventually break

lol

In the present, on a regular basis, i do enjoy inflicting pain on myself - but nothing that'll leave scars or make blood trickle down my body. i'd still have to say though that those caning memories are the most painful experiences ever...don't get me wrong, i'm not a mentally tormented kid who blames everything on his childhood lol...if anything, i'm glad i got smacked around when i was kid because it put me in place and God knows what i would be now if i wasn't.

i don't know why i enjoy it - believe me, i just sat here for 10mins thinking why. The best i could come up with is pain is pleasure for me.

(i've been a member for more than a year and yet, i only discovered this forum today)

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RE: calling all masochists - 10/14/2006 7:47:47 AM

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I would consider myself a masochist, but it seems to depend on what kind of pain is being inflicted. I can't take much stinging pain, but can take a lot from something like a belt, or a flogger.

With the more blunt force, I do go into subspace pretty easily.

Probably my biggest experience with this was a flogger. It was used on me probably a half hour or so, not sure since I was so out of it. I was sore for days, but during it I had such a high I didn't want it to stop.

I have had some tatts done, and some piercings. I know that one of the tatts, I got such a rush off of, I craved the pain. My piercings weren't that way, maybe the nipple ones, but that could have been as much from the two cute guys that were doing the poking.

I look forward to exploring this part of myself a bit more, I do like to see what I can take.

I love the rush, the pleasure, the feeling of floating I get when it throws me into subspace. There isn't anything like it.

Masters Akasha

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RE: calling all masochists - 10/14/2006 8:08:23 AM

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I am considered to be one of the heavy masochists in my local community. I absolutely love being beaten. Floggers, paddles, evil stick, singletail, crops, canes, hairbrushes both sides, abrasion mitts, clamps, clothespins, etc. I haven't yet found my tolerance limit for pain. I have been beaten until I bled in 4 places and still wanted more. As long as I am properly warmed up, I can take quite a bit and love stingy and thuddy both. It just translates to pleasure for me and not always a sexual or sensual pleasure. It just feels good and makes me fly. My last tatt I got sent me partially into subspace which I wasn't expecting at all. I guess I'm just one of those wired to find most pain pleasurable to some degree.

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RE: calling all masochists - 10/14/2006 8:13:55 AM

nkapadia42

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hi ..
is there any mascohist in india.I m looking for someone who is intereted in getting caned
Regards

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RE: calling all masochists - 10/14/2006 10:42:07 AM

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I am so far from being masochist that it isn't even funny...

well I do like biting though.. :P

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RE: calling all masochists - 10/14/2006 11:35:14 AM

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I would never classify myself as a masochist, but apparently I am good at taking pain. Sir has told me, many times, that I can take more than anyone he has seen and not seem to have ill affects... I guess I take after my father in that my pain level is pretty high. I can get bruises and cuts and not know where they came from...

I have a tendency to desire pain, but not really ask for it. Sir usually knows when I am in need of being spanked or pinched or clamped or whathaveyou... (his pleasure). Prior to meeting Sir I was flogged and whipped, but didn't really react to it much. Prior to that, I used to inflict some pain on myself during "private play" - using binder clips and such... there's never been a time, that I can remember, where I wasn't experimenting with something that was one step beyond what I did before... There have been bruises, marks, etc but I usually have no idea that they are there until I'm told to look.

But... I am not a masochist. LOL

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RE: calling all masochists - 10/14/2006 1:40:15 PM

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Yep, I do enjoy a certian amount of pain. Why? Oh, I'm not really sure. But I've discovered that with warm up pain can be very pleasureable. It amazes me how much of a turn on it is everytime it happens. Bitting, flogging, crops, paddles, whips, ohhhh nice hehe. And I'm always wanting to experince new things!

I have bled once. I was being whiped unfortunantly it was by my ex who I discovered knew nothing about the proper safe way to flog some one. The whip wraped around my shoulders and struck my cheek, at the time I didn't notice. That's a problem I have, I don't know when to stop because I don't actually feel the total amount of pain until later on. My adrenalin rushes fast, and easily.

I get bruises, and cuts like afeathr and don't even realise it. I sleep hard, and will wake up the next day with a bruise or cut (my cat, or my finger nails) on my leg and not notice it until I dress, or just happen to glance.

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RE: calling all masochists - 10/14/2006 2:03:49 PM

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I don't necessarily consider myself a masochist but I can take quite a bit before Master brings me back down to earth. Sometimes I feel like I can take more than at other times, especially if I am already feeling kind of excited.

The first time I was punished for disobeying my Master, I remember thinking, "this won't be too bad, I've felt all the other stuff He has done to me and it was pretty hot." Well, can I just tell you that it only took a minute or less to realize the INCREDIBLE DIFFERENCE between the sensual and disciplinary uses of His belt....

(Not something I care to repeat..)

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RE: calling all masochists - 10/14/2006 2:27:29 PM

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Fast reply
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The kiss of the leather strap extends much deeper than my skin. It surpasses superficiality, the slap and sting settles and soothes my very core. I absorb each blow with joyous heart.

Pain relished rather than endured becomes an opiate, a time warp, an explosion that illuminates the darkness of space. It is like Christmas and the 4th of July all in one; shiny paper wrapped around bursting lights/colors/sounds.

My limbs stretched outward, I am buoyed upon the warm waves of sensorial bliss. I am surrounded by his cruel attentions, I absorb the pain he bestows. He allows me to feel it all within the safety of his presence. He is my lifeguard.

Every searing blow ignites and quenches the same fire. My body and mind pulse with his rhythms, the heat intensifies to a small hot coal within my center and flares outward. I am the volcano, splashing hot liquid throughout the universe. We burn together but are not destroyed.

I am his canvas; he paints vivid red and purple blooms, a violent still life. He rains chaos upon my body until we are both appeased. He conducts the opera; I hit the high notes with perfect pitch; an aria of tears.

I hear the pleasure and pride in his voice and I feel submissively feminine, completed, and valued.

And then his arms around me, he is the comforter and pillow, ‘Let me be the Man,’ He says, ‘and you the woman.’ Yes, Sir, gratefully, yes.

I drive home still cuffed, my nipples clamped, tender ass wiggling on the car seat. The miles between his house and mine are not far enough to feel less than owned.

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RE: calling all masochists - 10/14/2006 10:19:24 PM

EbonyFtshGoddess

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fast reply so here goes:

i read through everything and i can't wait to reply tomorrow when i'm not all tired and pooped out ( we had a goddamn storm hit here in california and i don't feel comfortable in storm surf so i just dragged my ass back home). lol i MUST be a masochist, i still attempted to paddle out! but, like all masochists i guess we have our limits and it's good to recognize them.

i couldn't wait to get back to read the replies to this thread though. i LOVE hearing from masochists. and i'd love to hear from people whom are both sadistic AND masochistic like myself.

i'll reply more in depth tomorrow after a few hours of sleep.

ciao for now

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RE: calling all masochists - 10/15/2006 2:28:18 AM

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Haven't found my pain thershold yet and I make several subs squirm just watching, then again I can enjoy a root canal as well. Ebony, I have the same belief you do, I would never dish out something that I couldn't take hence why I don't keep a chainsaw in the dungeon :P

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RE: calling all masochists - 10/15/2006 3:54:40 AM

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I'm also considered one of the more intense masochists in my community. I love being whipped with a singletail and usually finish the scene with my upper back completely covered in blood and welts. A couple of years ago, the Dom who whipped me dubbed our scene the "Passion of the Christ" scene.

I won't be all macho and pretend the pain feels good to me--it fucking hurts!--but it's liberating. The whip-wielder forces me to unleash my raging beast, and that's a marvelous kind of freedom.

If I'm being whipped and it's been a long time since the last time, usually the first couple of strikes make me think, "Why the hell did I remember this as being enjoyable? I'm not a pain junkie. I'm a big pussy! Please let me out!" But then I start to breathe deeply, focusing all my attention on my breath, and as the next few blows land, things start to get good--now I'm back in that sweet place where I can drop my inhibitions and be the sweaty, thrashing, screaming man-animal.

I'll admit that I like being watched--and the more people, the better. I like them to see my muscles writhing under a sheen of sweat, to hear me screaming out the black passion that exists in my heart always, but which I must usually keep hidden away. I like them to see me bleed and shake. Here is me, I think as I cry. Now you see me as I see myself. What do you think? Do you still like me?

Have you ever heard the Henry Rollins song called "Love Song"? The one where he alternately screams, "I want you, I hate you"? At the end, he completely loses his sanity for a minute--he's just an animal in pain who happens to be holding a microphone. That's me being whipped. That's how I sound, or how I think I sound.

I love having women fawn over me, trace their hands gently over my wounds, once the scene is finished. Maybe this will sound over-dramatic, but it feels incredibly good to think, "They just saw me as I really am, and they don't hate me. They saw underneath my cuteness and my muscles and glimpsed that ugly rage, and they still want to touch me."

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RE: calling all masochists - 10/15/2006 12:57:59 PM

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quote:

i'm not trolling, but how much can you take? what is the most harsh torment you've endured? as a masochist, do you have any limits and what are they?

I can take as much as Master gives out. The most harsh would have to have been needle play. I don't have any hard limits when it comes masochism; just soft limits, like fire play.

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in addition, what do you enjoy about being a masochist?

I enjoy the satisfaction i get from pleasing Master when i push myself to endure more and more torture/pleasure.

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RE: calling all masochists - 10/16/2006 9:05:01 AM

EbonyFtshGoddess

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i can relate to a lot of what people have said in their replies. especially the part about not actually liking the pain or getting off on it. for me it's more about being able to endure it.

but then there is some pain that i actually like inflicted on certain parts of my body.. but damn i hate any nipple torture. i turn into a little whiny bitch.. but nearly anything else i can endure.

it's like.. ok.. you can bruise me, cut me, pierce me.. make me bleed.. flog me to hamburger.. but um.. can you take these nipple clamps off?

does anyone notice that while being able to take a lot of pain in some areas.. you find yourself unable to take as much pain in others?

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