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inform me - 1/24/2005 1:17:56 PM

informme

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hello i am new at this whole idea but was interesting in becomeing a dom. i was wonderind in anyone knew of some one i could learn off of of if they have any pointers that could set me in the right track.

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RE: inform me - 1/24/2005 2:00:22 PM

TallDarkAndWitty

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Buy a copy of John Warren's "The Loving Dominant." It is a great book for novice doms.

Then talk to as many people as you can. Get involved in your local scene. I have never been to a BDSM munh/party/event where the people were not at least willing to help out the new folk.

Enjoy,
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RE: inform me - 1/24/2005 2:47:16 PM

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Hi Informme, welcome to Collarme. Your question is a common one so you might want to consider searching the message boards to see what others have asked and been told in the past.

Or even just start reading the message boards... they are fun and educational at the same time.

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RE: inform me - 1/24/2005 2:53:15 PM

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first off do some research on our message boards and send those certain doms messages on the ones that strike you as being educational. Other than that, look around and try to find your local BDSM community so that you can watch sessions and such.

Enjoy and welcome to collarme.com

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RE: inform me - 1/24/2005 4:47:00 PM

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Hi and welcome to the forums at CM!

Here on the forums we love to discuss all aspects of life and the lifestyle! Its a great place to learn about different aspects of the lifestyle and find out what is a good fit for you.

So jump on in, the water is fine!

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RE: inform me - 1/25/2005 11:46:46 AM

informme

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thank you all for ypur help

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RE: inform me - 1/28/2005 2:46:44 PM

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Hello inform me,
I am Catmandu, I've forever been in the life, welcome. Being Master or Mistress is something that comes from with in (you will know if you are)so, therefor, you don't really need to know the how so much as the fine tunning of it. Center your self, look inside you find what you will and won't or can and can't do set your limits and direction of which you will travel. Use a kind heart and stern moral and always be willing to learn never feel that you know it all because none of us do. If you find what and who you are inside the rest comes easy. Be well and I wish you all the luck should you need anything feel free to message me.

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RE: inform me - 1/28/2005 10:11:43 PM

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Hello and welcome..
I came across this site the other day and found it to be wonderfully informative and very very well written.. I have personally enjoyed it!

http://www.bestslavetraining.com/Welcome.htm

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