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LadyHugs -> RE: looking 4 mistress so difficult (10/14/2006 7:31:28 PM)
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Dear jayslave7, Ladies and Gentlemen;
Lad, one reason why most dominant women do not do cyber, it is very impersonal. In addition, when you're off line you're free as a naked jay bird in January. That is conditional submission, to which is intermitten. It would be like learning how to drive a clutch/manual transmission--as, it is jerky and uncomfortable for all.
Another thing about 'learning' and or 'training' to be a slave/servant and or submissive, that dominants are particular on how they wish their slaves to serve. So if I taught you my method, another dominant would not understand it and totally change what I taught. Much like customizing, it really is a personal 'choice' of a dominant; how their slave/submissive/servant serves. I am very formal protocol minded, so those who aren't might find it awkward.
Best slave education you will get, is from those fellow slaves among you who are 'actively' serving or have served in the past. There may be an academy that you might find interest, to which is good for the basics but, again--higher level of service is all dominant's choice and no dominant dominates the same way. Of course this will be a great frustration to any slave eager to learn or to 'train up.'
In the meantime, you may wish to research with several 'servant' sights, such as the International Guilde of Professional Butlers, Emily Post and other 'books' and or publications on such. Serving meals, ideas can be achieved by inquiries to the Internet, such as serving tea, etiquette of the table, knowing what glass goes with what beverage; setting the table, linens used, types of china or place settings and the like. Advice columns on how to host/hostess a party and such. Learning little things, like using non-scented candles at the table is proper candle etiquette, not using candles unless the table is in need of light, mostly during the evening or on dark gloomy days. How to place the candles as to cast light on the guest's plate and how height plays a part in such. The tricks of the trade, is to burn off the wax on the wick and let one drop fall into the candle holder, then place the candle and set it--the wax will cool and seal to the candle taper's base, keeping it steady and still--no matter how much the table is jostled. Things like that.
So, in summary--there are things you can do, as to add to the enhancement of serving qualities without lowering your worth to online 'role play.'
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs
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