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ORIGINAL: subterrain

I have found Ds to be an interesting journey thus far. I long to find the one man who is my Master and my love; vanilla on the outside with a creamy perverted center ;)

There are days when I wonder if this is even a possibility but I am not sure i could go back to vanilla dating. In many ways I feel as if i never can now, like i would be lying to myself and my potential mate but i also feel it is like trying to find a needle in a haystack going the collarme or alt route.

Any advice on where to meet like-minded people or how to approach this without going to munches or doing the lifestyle stuff? Announcing my desire to be spanked and bound at Starbucks while waiting for my non-fat latte seems somehow over the top ... any other ideas?

Its funny how when you finally feel you know what you want it can't come soon enough.