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Male Chastity - 10/15/2006 12:43:12 PM   
kinkygacpl


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Bare with me, as I may have posted this in the wrong forum. Please, feel more then welcome to move it if need be.

I am in a relationship with my partner and we have been discussing perhaps using some sort of male chastity on him, perhaps a cb3000. We would like to know as much as possible about male chastity. After much online reading, we're looking for possibly some details of real life encounters. We have found that many sites are more into selling their product then anything.

We would like to know a few things:

What is the comfort factor for active males?

Health factors?

Pinching? Fitting? Best types?

Pros and cons of chastity belts?

We would love to hear from anyone that's ever used, or been a keyholder, or has any personal experience on this.

Thanks so much for reading!

Edit: As we are young kids still in college, we're on a bit of a budget. We've agreed that we can probably spend the $170 the average cb3000 costs, but probably not much more.

Thanks!

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RE: Male Chastity - 10/15/2006 12:49:50 PM   
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I'll reply in detail in a bit but this site may have some good infor for you

http://www.tpe.com/~altarboy/newstuff.php

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RE: Male Chastity - 10/15/2006 12:50:23 PM   
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If it's comfort you're looking for, try this one:

http://www.designbyfreak.com/adult/cage.htm



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RE: Male Chastity - 10/15/2006 12:52:29 PM   
kinkygacpl


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Thanks very much! We await your detailed response. :)

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RE: Male Chastity - 10/15/2006 4:22:39 PM   
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ok the link I gave you will give you a lot of information regarding experience and particular devices.  You may want to check into that and get some various opinions.

The thing about chastity devices is that what works wonderfully for one will be terrible for another.  I have used on men the CB2000, 3000, curve and various forms of a KTB.  I have had both positive and negative experiences with all of them.  Some are too uncomfortable, some are too easy to get out of, some are noticeable.  Also, those very same complaints one has will be the opposite for others because everyone's activity level, clothing, comfort and anatomy are different.  I know that wasn't a lot of help but really the only way to know if it will work for you is to try it.  They are expensive, though and it's disappointing when you get one and it does not work for you. 

If you are looking at long term, I would suggest getting experienced at milking for prostate health.  When in doubt, have a heart to heart with your physician.  You may feel uncomfortable but trust me, they've heard it all.

Now, why use a chastity device?  Do you want it on all the time?  Can you practice orgasm control based on the honor system?  Personally, that is what I do the most but I do like a chastity device available to me for various reasons also but mostly as a more immediate reminder that I control his sexuality.  However, I do not find it practical or just my thing to do it all the time. 

For various opinions on decices, the link I gave might give you insight but as a woman, I have never personally worn one lol.  Maybe some of the males who have worn them can give you opinions on particulars based on their experiences.

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RE: Male Chastity - 10/29/2006 2:39:58 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MsKatHouston

ok the link I gave you will give you a lot of information regarding experience and particular devices.  You may want to check into that and get some various opinions.

The thing about chastity devices is that what works wonderfully for one will be terrible for another.  I have used on men the CB2000, 3000, curve and various forms of a KTB.  I have had both positive and negative experiences with all of them.  Some are too uncomfortable, some are too easy to get out of, some are noticeable.  Also, those very same complaints one has will be the opposite for others because everyone's activity level, clothing, comfort and anatomy are different.  I know that wasn't a lot of help but really the only way to know if it will work for you is to try it.  They are expensive, though and it's disappointing when you get one and it does not work for you. 

If you are looking at long term, I would suggest getting experienced at milking for prostate health.  When in doubt, have a heart to heart with your physician.  You may feel uncomfortable but trust me, they've heard it all.

Now, why use a chastity device?  Do you want it on all the time?  Can you practice orgasm control based on the honor system?  Personally, that is what I do the most but I do like a chastity device available to me for various reasons also but mostly as a more immediate reminder that I control his sexuality.  However, I do not find it practical or just my thing to do it all the time. 

For various opinions on decices, the link I gave might give you insight but as a woman, I have never personally worn one lol.  Maybe some of the males who have worn them can give you opinions on particulars based on their experiences.


I know for me a device for chastity falls into the bondage area that I love so much.
in reality being a certified locksmith if I want out I can get out of any of them.
so it does take alot of mental chastity control. but the feel of an actual device does help the feeling of being helpless to do anything about it. But it takes the mind to back that up.

Buck




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