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Punishment ideas - 10/15/2006 8:14:58 PM   
niceshyquietone


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Status: offline 		Hi, my Master and i are in a long distance relationship.  i am away for a year while He is in Texas.  He has asked me to find others who might have some interesting or good ideas on punishing me while being so far away from Him or even good ideas for when He comes to visit.  So i would greatly appreciate any ideas that You may have! 
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RE: Punishment ideas - 10/15/2006 8:16:49 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Long distance and punishment

http://www.collarchat.com/m_555442/mpage_1/key_long%252Cdistance/tm.htm#555476
How do you cope?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_399208/mpage_1/key_long%252Cdistance/tm.htm#399230
Long distance relationships...how do you all make them work and overcome the obstacles that arise?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_358232/mpage_1/key_long%252Cdistance/tm.htm#358330
When the Master is away

http://www.collarchat.com/m_243191/mpage_2/key_long%252Cdistance/tm.htm#243396
Online or Distance relationships

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In Between Visits

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LDR and sickness or death

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RE: Punishment ideas - 10/15/2006 11:02:10 PM   
shadevarr


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Status: offline 		Hmm, punishment isn't something that I see as being sought after but it really depends on how the dynamic is structured. Some of the more common things I have seen done is self-applied nipple clamps while on a webcam for your master, writing long emails detailing everything you have done that day using proper english or what I consider one of the cruelest things do to in a LDR, restrict the amount of time spent together.

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RE: Punishment ideas - 10/15/2006 11:14:33 PM   
MistressTexas


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Status: offline 		kneeling on kitty litter or sprinkling some in the shoes will aggravate on a very basic level.

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RE: Punishment ideas - 10/15/2006 11:45:56 PM   
shadevarr


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kneeling on kitty litter or sprinkling some in the shoes will aggravate on a very basic level.
 Ohh, that is nice!

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RE: Punishment ideas - 10/16/2006 1:25:20 AM   
MistressTexas


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Status: offline 		lol completely accidental discovery as well.. my kitten just likes to fling the stuff everywhere though.

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RE: Punishment ideas - 10/16/2006 4:13:18 AM   
DivaDuchess


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Status: offline 		I've used rice ... hmmm ... the kitty litter idea sounds very ... good.

1.  Some other things ... a clitty clip, set on high.  Get on web cam ... subbie may NOT touch it.  They have to just sit there, don't move, not a single bit for 60 minutes.  Don't make a sound.

2.  Order her/him to a public place with vibrator in hand or just the hand.  Find a bathroom, take her/his pants off, lock the door and lie on the floor.  She's to climax 10 times on the floor in the middle of the restroom.  She must act quickly before the guards unlock the door *lol*.  Same with the guy, only he must stroke himself off without visuals aside from his imagination, 10 times.

Those are from my 'journal' ... *lol*.  I will say I've bailed a slave out of jail for 'indecency' charges once or twice.  If I have to do that ... Wire money? ... Oh don't even go there.  Needless to say, when we are back together and IRL, I settle up with them *lol*.


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RE: Punishment ideas - 10/21/2006 1:10:33 PM   
gypsylady2007


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Status: offline 		One thing that My Master enjoys is my writing stories pertaining to BDSM and then submitting them to Him.  He enjoys this more than anything.  Most of the time I will put myself as the main person in the event or circumstances.  The ideas are endless!

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RE: Punishment ideas - 10/21/2006 1:14:15 PM   
gypsylady2007


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Status: offline 		One thing that My Master enjoys is my writing stories pertaining to BDSM and then submitting them to Him.  He enjoys this more than anything.  Most of the time I will put myself as the main person in the event or circumstances.  The ideas are endless!

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RE: Punishment ideas - 10/22/2006 2:27:59 PM   
MagiksSlave


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Status: offline 		I just wana knoe why this is like the 10th thread on the same exact subject /situation in the last 2 or so weeks.....

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RE: Punishment ideas - 10/22/2006 2:37:41 PM   
Kalira


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Punishment HURTS. Why would you go out of your way to find ideas for it? Just curious lol.

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RE: Punishment ideas - 10/22/2006 2:44:25 PM   
mistoferin


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ORIGINAL: Kalira

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Punishment HURTS. Why would you go out of your way to find ideas for it? Just curious lol.


Maybe they plan on being a really bad submissive. I'm not sure why so many seem to think that they are not doing D/S or M/S rght if there is no punishment involved. Personally, I don't understand why there would be a need for punishment in relationships between mature and responsible adults who are accountable for their own actions.

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RE: Punishment ideas - 10/22/2006 2:53:46 PM   
candycoatedtoxin


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Status: offline 		Because sometimes punishment isn't really punishment at all. Sometimes these misdeeds are completely made up. Like being too sexy. Ten lashes. New ideas keep the fun alive in a couple.

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RE: Punishment ideas - 10/22/2006 2:57:40 PM   
Kalira


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ORIGINAL: candycoatedtoxin

Because sometimes punishment isn't really punishment at all. Sometimes these misdeeds are completely made up. Like being too sexy. Ten lashes. New ideas keep the fun alive in a couple.

Hmm..ok

No comment

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RE: Punishment ideas - 10/22/2006 3:08:50 PM   
mistoferin


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ORIGINAL: candycoatedtoxin

Because sometimes punishment isn't really punishment at all. Sometimes these misdeeds are completely made up. Like being too sexy. Ten lashes. New ideas keep the fun alive in a couple.


Ummmm....that wouldn't be punishment....that would be PRETEND PLAY.

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RE: Punishment ideas - 10/24/2006 7:44:03 AM   
Zaxius


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Status: offline 		To me there is a distinct difference between Punishment and Play. My sub and I have it where she can REQUEST a bdsm "Session" any time she wants one. If Im feeling up to it I will ablige her. This removes the desire from the sub to "Act up" or be bad just to get what she craves (IE a good spanking). Punishment is different and she knows the difference. when she truly displeases me, she can expect to be punsihed. Punishments are usualy harsher physicaly and also a lot harsher emotionaly and mentaly. This is how I divide the two anyways.

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RE: Punishment ideas - 10/24/2006 8:26:00 AM   
akisha


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ORIGINAL: DivaDuchess

I've used rice ... hmmm ... the kitty litter idea sounds very ... good.

1.  Some other things ... a clitty clip, set on high.  Get on web cam ... subbie may NOT touch it.  They have to just sit there, don't move, not a single bit for 60 minutes.  Don't make a sound.

2.  Order her/him to a public place with vibrator in hand or just the hand.  Find a bathroom, take her/his pants off, lock the door and lie on the floor.  She's to climax 10 times on the floor in the middle of the restroom.  She must act quickly before the guards unlock the door *lol*.  Same with the guy, only he must stroke himself off without visuals aside from his imagination, 10 times.


italics mine

I have a friend that gets his girl to kneel on lego. not nice hehe

I'm responding mostly to #2. Serious ick factor here. Public bathrooms are sooo dirty. personally i'd take a caning before i'd lay on the floor of a public bathroom . Plus public bathrooms have little ones in them.

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RE: Punishment ideas - 10/24/2006 3:24:19 PM   
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One thing I never understood was punishment in a sexual way that causes them pleasure?
Why punish a sub in a way that they enjoy, even pain to sexual organs (depending on the sumissive) is often arousing mentally to them.... doesn't this just defeat the point of punishment? There are exceptions to this... having a dildo longterm inside the submissive (be it anal or or in her vagina) tends to be quite painful and will do the job of punishment.

The ideas for kneeling on lego, etc are good ones imo, as they actually force the submissive to rethink their actions (hence the point of punishment no?)


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RE: Punishment ideas - 10/24/2006 4:41:25 PM   
emdoub


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ORIGINAL: DevilsVendetta
One thing I never understood was punishment in a sexual way that causes them pleasure?
Why punish a sub in a way that they enjoy, even pain to sexual organs (depending on the sumissive) is often arousing mentally to them.... doesn't this just defeat the point of punishment?

To them, it's that it's punishment - it doesn't really matter what the punishment is.  Punishment underlines that their life is a place where someone has the power to punish them, and that's going to be satisfying no matter what the punishment is, or how much they hate that.  Against this, the dominant is powerless to do anything but accept it.

This doesn't mean that they want punishment, or that punishment will be ineffective in a Behavioral Modification regime - just that a part of them is going to get off on it, no matter what.

It's not the same as if they are roleplayers, playing at made-up "offenses" which must be "punished" with a delightful torment, with is another thing entirely (and loads of fun to the folks who get off on that).

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RE: Punishment ideas - 10/24/2006 5:20:08 PM   
waiting4you06


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Status: offline 		how about sleeping on the floor....or restricting privileges that we so often as subs take for granted....standing in the corner at attention and not slouching often works as does sleep deprivation and or sensory deprivation providing that you don't need the sleep that bad....like you both are off work and can sleep later...it will make the sub/slave realize that their actions are not good and can lead to unwanted results....just a thought.....also, a sub and or slave will punish themselves more often than the dom or master does....simply because they know they have disappointed or done something bad and punishment is needed....at least that is how i am.....simply just knowing that is punishment enough.....

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