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AmazonInk -> RE: Rape Scenerio (10/16/2006 3:12:22 AM)
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Have to agree with what has been said here already.
A rape scene is a thing that can be so fraught with 'issues', it really should be worked out before hand. As with any scene, but particularly here... Limits should be discussed and agreed before hand (find out about hard and soft limits, if you haven't already, and really think about what yours are). And because, this seems to be new to you, and therefore you may not honestly KNOW what your limits are or will be, fantasy and real happenings can be such different things! Make sure that safe words are agreed and stuck to.
The simplest ones are:
"Green" means {Oh yes, keep it coming} (this is rarely needed, but can be useful if a Dom/me is unsure about your responses and needs reassurance, it happens!)
"Amber" means {not quite sure about this, getting close to a limit or just over it, but keep going til I tell you otherwise}
"Red" means {OK, I'm telling you otherwise now, STOP!}
If this Dom won't comply with your hard limits (anal penetration, or the kind of anal penetration he has in mind, if that is one of yours) and agree with safe words so you can find your limits, and push your boundaries while feeling safe too, DON'T PLAY WITH HIM [:@]
Perhaps this is fairly elementary stuff to most here, but it's good to hear it refreshed every so often [;)]
Ms. Amazon
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