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Babybuddy -> a little ?? (1/25/2005 2:26:32 AM)
[8\|]I have discovered over time, that there is a limited number of women who enjoy my lifestyle, ie; Mistress/Mommy. My question is this, is it the diapers that are such a turn off?, or is it because we bABies are so needy?.

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: a little ?? (1/25/2005 2:51:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Babybuddy [8\|]I have discovered over time, that there is a limited number of women who enjoy my lifestyle, ie; Mistress/Mommy. My question is this, is it the diapers that are such a turn off?, or is it because we bABies are so needy?. I'm fairly new, so take what I say with a grain of salt; I've been able to visualize/get excited by most things I've read about/seen in BDSM, but for me, the diapers are something I cannot reconcile with having on my sub/slave, because this would also be a person I might engage self with sexually, and the two (diapers/sexual arousal) for me don't mix. M

ProtagonistLily -> RE: a little ?? (1/25/2005 7:02:14 AM)
quote: I have discovered over time, that there is a limited number of women who enjoy my lifestyle, ie; Mistress/Mommy. My question is this, is it the diapers that are such a turn off?, or is it because we bABies are so needy?. Yes. Lily

MaitresseEden -> RE: a little ?? (1/25/2005 7:08:59 AM)
Motherhood is a role that woman are traditionally confined to. Often time without much choice or assistence. The freedom to sexually express ourselves with out worry of parental responsbilities and obligations is what it truly freeing. Hence the avoidance adult babies. Why play with something we are obligated by societal norms to do anyway. Ms. Eden

LdyAuburn -> RE: a little ?? (1/25/2005 10:16:52 AM)
AB's tend to have demanding needs. In regards to meeting women who enjoy that style of role play in sydney a lot of the functions have AB's attend. A local bdsm house (an excellent one ) had an AB night quite some years ago and had quite a few AB's turn up. I suppose it is like any other fetish, it is difficult to meet people who have similar ones, who are the right age, location etc. So if you are looking for someone who wants only an AB with no service example your choices are more and more limiting. Same as someone who only enjoys canings for example. Doesnt like flogging. Choices get limited. good luck in your search

stormiKnightBEAR -> RE: a little ?? (1/25/2005 10:57:34 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Babybuddy [8\|]I have discovered over time, that there is a limited number of women who enjoy my lifestyle, ie; Mistress/Mommy. My question is this, is it the diapers that are such a turn off?, or is it because we bABies are so needy?. buddy, stormi is responding to your question even tho she is kajira. stormi once ran a club, a nice fellow contacted stormi and wanted info about the club, which stormi supplied. There was a gathering of the club coming up at stormi's location. Since he had supplied references that supported him and his reputation/behavior, stormi invited him to the gathering. The members and stormi were ok with the whole footed sleeper idea, even unphased by the fact that he happily volunteered the type of diaper he liked. What did unnerve stormi to the core, was him announcing that he had just wet his diaper and him asking since the members were all paired with their respective slave/subs and he didn't want to seem forward to them.....If stormi would "like" to come and change his diaper. When stormi recovered from the shock she took him aside and firmly/quietly informed him, no that she was a) not Dominant, b) had raised and potty trained two children who were now adults and c) that she had never been so embarrassed in her life and how dare he do that in front of herself and others that he did not know. While sure that his behavior was not the norm, stormi will note that he did come out several times to a local dungeon. Not sure exactly what did or did not happen there, but he's not been there in a while. If you don't mind, might stormi ask you a question? Can you tell stormi what the ...... attraction or fetish is? How it works... not sure that is a good question. But in short for those of us who do not understand it, can you educate us? Thanks for sharing your thoughts and allowing questions as well. Feel free to respond off board if you'd like. stormi property of Master Bear [email protected] (Master) [email protected]

RosaB -> RE: a little ?? (1/25/2005 2:49:52 PM)
Contrary to not wanting to babysit a sub that approaches me like stated in another thread, I kind of like the idea of play with a diaper boy. My major problem is when it comes to changing chitty diapers, I didn't want to change those for a real baby, including my daughter, I sure as hell don't want to change a poopy diaper for a grown arse healthy man. I'm not big on anything that comes out of the ass when it comes to play. The other thing that bothers me, is what was mentioned, by M, the fact that I generally enjoy a sexual aspect to my play with someone that I would be overly affectionate with and it's a bit of a problem for me telling a baby, I want to do certain things with him. Take for instance, I was doing a scene with a gentleman whom I had told I like to play mommy/child kinkiness with, but when we actually did the play and he said something to the effect of Mommy doesn't want me to tell anyone and it's our little secret, my stomach turned upside down, it made me feel naucious. I know now, certain statements would have to be off limits for me to play out adult child scenerios. I don't mind the studend teacher, parent child play within limits, but I definately have to draw a line in some areas of playing mommy to adult babies. The nuturing part of it I enjoy, but keep your stinky diapers to yourself please. I just have a thing about fecal matter. Pee I can deal with to a limited degree.

GoddessDustyGold -> RE: a little ?? (1/25/2005 4:00:54 PM)
recent and quite extensive thread on this subject you may wish to review. adult babies It is the neediness of the adult babies. I will do Pro Mommy sessions. I can deal with it for a short while, but as I stated in the past, and has already been stated here, I have already raised My kids.

Babybuddy -> RE: a little ?? (1/25/2005 11:00:53 PM)
I agree, if one limits themselves to one style of play, yet, i personally enjoy a broader horizon. Playing on mulitiple fronts gives lattiude and a dynamic to the realationship, my issue is finding a partner willing to play..

Babybuddy -> RE: a little ?? (1/25/2005 11:33:48 PM)
No, not all. Since this fetish is somewhat unique to everyone, i can honestly say, for me it arrises out of wanting to be babied when i was young. my mother diapered me some after my first visit with my aunt. now i have no facts to support my suspicions, yet, i know my older cousin would love to talk about changing my diapers and always with a smile. she on more than one occasion invited my sister over to babysit with her and according to her, she would play games while changing my diaper. to me being AB is not fetish, it is much deeper. i matured much later in life, i didn't start shaving until i was 20, so by my own mothers admission, i should have been in diapers longer and not expected to potty train until i was ready. something happened to my mother during that time fram, i'm willing to bet it was my father because she divorced him sometime after my second birthday, perhaps feeling scared or left alone she could not provide the attention i needed, hey, its rough having to raise a family and work without the support of someone who cares.

msandsir -> RE: a little ?? (1/29/2005 3:28:09 PM)
I am a stay at home mother of 3. They are 8, 4 and 2. I have yet to stop changing diapers/pullups. It's been a very long 8 years. lol Why would I want to change a grown man's diaper for fun? I lift my glass to potty training!![:D] That's just my opinion. Have fun all in EVERYTHING you want to do.

msandsir -> RE: a little ?? (1/29/2005 3:33:40 PM)
quote: hey, its rough having to raise a family and work without the support of someone who cares. I hope I did that right. lol I understand fully what you mean. I didn't have anyone most of my teen years, hell alot younger than that. I guess you could say I brought myself up from a very young and inocent age. If anyone every needs an ear, I'm here as a friend.

DiamondDiva -> RE: a little ?? (1/29/2005 8:53:27 PM)
I am not into the Mommy thing at all. To me it is like having sex with a child and that is just not a visual for me. I would think that it is "to each his/her own" but yes, the neediness and the childlike bearing and Diapers? Yes, that is all a bit much and can be a turn off.

stormiKnightBEAR -> RE: a little ?? (2/1/2005 6:29:35 AM)
buddy, thank you for the insight. In all honesty, we probably all at times have a time where we need that cuddling, security, feeling of love, some just take it to a different level. It's nice to know there is such a wide range of choices in life. stormi property of Master Bear

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